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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend watches porn everyday while I'm at work. Didn't mind at first but I'm starting to worry that it might affect him eventually. He is off work from 1pm to 6pm everyday. I know sometimes it's boredom and sometimes it's stress relief. He says he has masturbated to it a couple of times a day too. He says he watches porn because he believes that thinking of girls is like cheating so he doesn't do that. Which I'm glad for!! We go through patches (when his diet changes for fitness purposes) where the sex is less frequent. He is usual carb cutting and apparently this affects testosterone levels. I get it but I still get insecure!!!! How much porn is too much? Do I let it go? Soon he will be starting his own business, he's going to be really busy so won't have time during the day to be like this. By the way , he's usually extremely attracted to me, apparently I'm the best sex he's ever had and I give the best BJs ever.... And still sometimes my efforts are rejected during these carb cutting phases! By the way I have no problem with porn, just worried about him developing an addiction!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2014): A man shouldn't be using porn if he is happy but that's just my opinion.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (22 January 2014):
 He is addicted to porn and also addicted to his gym routine or lifestyle.
"Thinking of girls is cheating" is an excuse. Porn is quick, gets to the brain directly and does not require much imagination. It's too much porn when a guy leaves no room for you when it comes to sex. Maybe he is taking steroids therefore taking away his sex drive? He is taking you for granted and is not concerned about how you feel at all. Have you expressed to him that you have needs and feel dissatisfied?
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