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writes:HeyI've been spending a lot of time within the last week with a friend of my best friends - as a group and also the other night together just talking. We've been messaging a fair amount and I think I'm starting to really like her as more than a friend. (Though I'm not 100%. I've told my best friend that I like her friend and she doesn't seem to mind.Anyway I'm human so I have two main doubts;1. I don't want to make anything awkward with a lot of my friends if I change my mind or something goes wrong - but I should still go ahead with it, right?2. We're going out in a few days time as a group, should I talk to her and make a move then or tell her when sober? I get pretty awkward with talking about how I feel (as a lot of people do)but I can understand it would be more genuine and have more of a solid start point (if it works out that way?Thanks!
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reader, Altonen  +, writes (1 May 2014):
Hm... Well I don't think a person should ever have any regrets or doubts. What if you end up falling in love with her? What if she's your future bride. The thing is, you don't know. I think you should give it a shot. If it works out, then great. If it doesn't work out, at least you'll know you gave it a shot. In the world there are over 7 billion people in the world and I'm sure there's someone out there for you.I get how alcohol can loosen people up, but I think you should tell her sober. You probably want this done to your best ability, right? Well your best ability is only achievable when sober. Like you mentioned, a lot of people do find it hard to talk about their feelings. It's nothing strange. If anything, it's pretty normal.Well, I've said all I can. I wish you the best of luck! Hope I helped.
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