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writes:This guy tried to call me late last night. What should I say to him? I met this guy last weekend, and we have been texting each other quite a lot this week. I texted him last night, asking him what he was doing, and he said he was going playing snooker. I'm assuming he was playing it in a pub. He asked what I was doing, and I told him I was going to a restaurant. I told him to have a good night, and he told me to have a good night too. I didn't reply when he told me to have a good night, as I couldn't think of anything to say, apart from thanks lol. When I woke up this morning, I saw that I had a missed call from him at 11.45 last night. I was asleep then. I had turned the sound off on my phone, as I wasn't expecting a phone call at that time, and I usually turn my phone on silent when I am asleep. I'm disappointed that I missed his phone call though. Do you think he might have been drunk, and dialled by accident or something? Or do you think he might have thought I was still awake at that time? Should I tell him I was asleep? I don't want to tell him that the sound was off on my phone though. I had a missed call from him a few days ago too, and he sent a text at the same time. I couldn't respond to him straight away then, as I had gone to my friend's house, and I didn't see his missed call and text until I got home a few hours later. I apologised for missing his call, but he told me that he hadn't meant to call me. He pressed the wrong button when he texted me. I feel bad if he did try to call me both times though. I don't want him to be put off.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (23 November 2013):
I agree, it was a booty call. I wouldn't even mention it the next time you talk to him and just carry on a conversation like it never happened. You don't need to explain anything to him or apologize, he's not your boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2013): Yep, it was a likely a booty call after the pub. You missed out on a good time; but there is nothing you really need to make some big apology over. Maybe he was just checking up on you, and wanted to know how late you were out. Still, no big deal. You're a big girl, and didn't check up on his whereabouts. Let it slide. You're both adults.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 November 2013):
 I would say 11.45 pm is booty call time or not acceptable if you aren't dating or related OR an emergency.
You can call him and say hi I saw I missed a call from you as I put my phone on silent at night.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 November 2013):
 a call at 11:45 at night is a booty call... be glad you missed it.
the fact that he said he didn't mean to call you and is not making an effort to contact you or ask you out during "normal" hours does not bode well for how he feels about you.
you don't owe him an explanation about why you didn't take the call... in fact, I'd not even mention it and see what happens... if he wants to see you he needs to call and ask you out on a date and not a hook up...
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