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writes:Hey there everyone,I have a problem and this I have never faced before and yes I can't understand what to do about it so I'm need of sone some immediate help..So it goes like this, I had fallen for a girl and a she was a great girl! We stayed together for quite long but then she fell for some other guy and we broke up! I loved her truly and its been around 7 months now.. I have moved on but in the meantime I have lost that charm and that way of talking and getting girls like I used to! I hesitate in talking to girls asking them out or getting to know them.. It has brought my self esteem down and I can't help it! Need some advice on this matter as to how can I get back myself into talking to girls knowing them and also flirt woth them! :/
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reader, Athz +, writes (26 December 2013):
Athz is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys.. ur words inspired me and cleared my mind and now I know what I gotta do! Have a nice day.. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2013): Why do you measure your self esteem by whether you are chatting up or charming girls or not?
Your self esteem must come from within, not without. 'thesophia's' answer covered everything else I would have said.
It is very unwise to base self worth or any amount of esteem on anything external. I can't stress this enough. Society is why you think this way, society has got it wrong.
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