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*arrybaggs
writes: I've worked with a girl for 4 years. Not along side her, but for the same company. So I have not had much chance to get to know her. But I have had a crush on her for years.Whenever I've tried to talk to her she is very shy, and almost as if she doesn't want to talk. I took this as a hint that she didn't like me, or was just to shy to talk, so I left her alone.Over the last few years, she added me on facebook when her relationship ended, and would slowly over time talk more and more to me. However, I gave up on her again when she got back with her ex, a guy who is pretty rough and treats her fairly badly.However, recently she has started talking to me a lot more in person. Today she kind of took me away from my work and spoke to me for about half an hour. She tells me what she is up to career-wise, and it's like she talks about herself a lot in a way as if no-one asks how she is or how she's getting on. She occasionally tries to tease or play with me a little, as if she's testing the water. When I'm near her, it's like constant eye contact.It's driving me mad, because she is everything I would want in a girl. she is smart, kind, polite, calm not to mention extremely pretty. I just feel happy around her. I'm not a relationship breaker and don't intend to do that. But I have a feeling her ex will screw up again.My question is- does she like me? Are her actions signs that she likes me back? Or am I deluded?
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reader, Barrybaggs +, writes (30 August 2011):
Barrybaggs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe has just added me on facebook recently. Is this a sign, or just being friendly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2011): I think she definately likes you and when she's free again you should ask her out.
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