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Does wearing a condom interfere with a man's sexual pleasure?

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Question - (27 August 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2011)
A female Mauritius age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am just being curious. I went out with a guy and he told me that he does not like to wear condom when he have sex as it diminishes his sexual pleasure. So, I always wanted to know, does wearing a condom interferes with a man's sexual pleasure? Is there a difference with or without a condom?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2011):

I suggest trying the ultra sensitive brands. Also, if he is even a tad bit bigger than average, try a large size. I am average, but a bit thick. I used regular condoms for years, even though they were very tight. I tried Magnums (just the large, not the horse-sized ones), and it felt so much better...almost like I was not even wearing one.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011):

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Big thank you to all of those who have answered my question. Your answers really cleared my doubts and for sure I'm going to take your advice. I cannot risk my health just because I want my partner to have more pleasure. Anyway, I never have unprotected sex. I'm going to rate each of you as excellent. Thanks again

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2011):

use a condom that is lubed on both sides...trojon ecstasy and/or magnum ecstacy r pretty good choices

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2011):

As there is absolutely no hint within this question that you need STI advice as some people have assumed I will just say yes, it really does but unless us guys want kids then we don't really have any choice!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2011):

THe STD and pregnancy concerns are valid, but believe it or not, there are exclusive, STD-free couples out there who wouldnt mind getting pregnant. So, to answer the OP's question...yes, condoms do diminish sensation and if they are too small they can actually hurt or make the erection smaller as they squeeze the blood out of it more.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (27 August 2011):

person12345 agony auntYou know what makes sex even less fun? Pregnancy and STDs. Yes condoms lessen the sensation for most (all?) guys, but you shouldn't be risking your health to make something fun a bit more fun, especially when it's mostly only your health being risked and mostly only his sensation being improved. Women are at higher risk for contracting STDs from unprotected sex, and last I checked only women can get pregnant. Use condoms every time unless you've both been cleared for STDs and are on a reliable form of birth control (the pill, IUD, etc).

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A female reader, Onieros United States +, writes (27 August 2011):

Yes, it can, because it reduces friction between the penis and anything else. However, stick to your guns. Mutual sexual pleasure is very short term, STDs are long term. Offer to use a female condom, to see if that makes a difference for your man.

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