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writes:Ok ... I'm in love with my best friend. He's younger than me. We have sex, we talk and we behave like two people who are in a committed relationship. HE, however, hasn't made peace yet with the fact that he's gay. So, I don't understand how he is willing to have sex with me. Lately, he mused the possibility of being bisexual. Now, I told him I'm in love with him and said that I think he's too but is having trouble admitting it, he said he loves me as a brother and best friend (who have sex and do all the things that dating people do) ... I don't know what to do or how to act... He kisses girls, goes on dates but it never works out ... the jealousy is killing me and I'm heart broken, I told him but he said that it's not his fault I have fallen for him, he loves me as a best friend and a bro ... Seriously? I don't know what to do ... Is he taking advantage of me? What should I do? How do I act? I don't want to lose him, but I also don't want him to be with other people ...
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (1 September 2011):
 he is taking the piss, stop sleeping with him and do yourself a favour.
he wants a piece of every pie...
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (1 September 2011):
he is taking the piss, stop sleeping with him and do yourself a favour.
he wants a piece of every pie...
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (28 August 2011):
 Maybe you can still be friends with him, but definitely stop sleeping with the guy. He seems to have no clue as to what he is/wants, but it's obvious that he likes the sex too much to communicate and be honest with you. Get over this guy. He has no consideration for your feelings and the fact that you're heartbroken. He's definitely taking advantage of you, and he'll only continue as long as you let him. You can find someone better. If he was your best friend, he would be honest with you in the first place and wouldn't put you in this situation.
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