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writes:So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and have done nothing sexual. He keeps saying he wants to eat me out and I used to be okay with the idea but now I'm kinda nervous that it'll be weird. Any tips? Reply to this Question
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reader, Onieros +, writes (27 August 2011):
Anonymous is spot on, however I want to add this: Yes its going to be weird. And awkward. You're going to have to talk him through the first time and its not going to be a magical amazing thing unless he has prior experience and an amazing ability to pay attention to you. That being said, its always going to be weird and awkward the first time, but its going to be hot as well and you may just find that you like it. Nervousness is normal. Don't try to force it (see anonymous below) but do give it a chance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2011): firstly, don't do anything you're not comfortable with.Oral sex is a natural part of a relationship, providing both partners are ok with it of course! Since you haven't done anything sexual yet, why not start right at the beginning - use your hands on each other, feeling each others bodies, and using your hands to pleasure each other. Then, when things progress, using your mouths will come naturally.Just remember, when you become physical with each other, relax and enjoy it. Communicate a lot - let him know what feels good and what doesn't. And if you're not comfy with anything, tell him to STOP.
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