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writes:I'm so lonely. I'm not that much of an outgoing person i find it difficult to socialize in big groups of people and can come across quite shy. About 2 years ago i got together with a guy who i could be completely myself with,i fell for him. That ended around 7 months ago. I havent had any contact with a man since because i can't bring myself to do it,i only want him,even now after seven months. I'm not attracted to anyone else i can't imagine myself with anyone else not in that way. i have my best friend and friends at work but still find it difficult socializing in big groups. i'm just so lonely i really think i need a man in my life again. I'm so sick of being depressed over this. advice needed. Thanks
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reader, kombipode  +, writes (26 December 2011):
I'm a guy and I have same problem too. When I lived with her for 7 months I was not attracted to anyone. Other women became the same as men are to me, asexual. Then over the next three months we separated because I found out she was cheating and was just consumed by it (I dont see why I should have bothered trying to salvage anyway). Now its 4 months since we separated. So for over 1 year I was only attracted to one person sexually in the world - her. And now I am still the same. Who knows how long I will wait to be normal again... :(
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reader, fastnfurious  +, writes (27 January 2011):
hi dear hope it may be too late for responding to ur agony and the life must have taught u to let go manner... am i right. See u must understand ur age related harmones etc etc its not ur problem But I might be the problem of the person who entered into ur life made u to reach that point in ur life. See thats why one must understand the conniving situations to control urself.. that was may not be a only case with u.. it might/being happening with so many its quite natural.. control urself and concentrate on a particular goal of ur life and achieve it.. the time will definitely teach u how to sail through the life never loose ur hope/forget wrong people in ur life../welcome new life & accept it. You deserve more than what u have lost. OK.. Live life Queen Size... best of luck..
I am much interested how u have controlled the situation in ur life and ur present situation.... much to know abt u.. if any help fm my side mail me to
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bye.. take care of u///
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reader, QueenAM  +, writes (1 August 2010):
You will be alright, just be patient and like some of the other people said, try to join groups or clubs or something, but only things that you would actually be interested in doing :) I can relate, I rarely have members of the male persuasion take interest in me. But I know there are still good men out there :) Good luck!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (1 August 2010):
 Join some special interest groups in stuff you love, e.g book club, cooking class, pottery class etc. This way you will meet new people and even if you don't meet a man you will have lots of new friends to include in your social events calendar.
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reader, Odds +, writes (1 August 2010):
 Really, the only way to meet new people and find the right guy is to go out and try. Try, fail, and try again, until you succeed. It's difficult, it can get downright painful at times, but the hurt is temproary, and eventually you will find a great guy.
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