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writes:My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 and a half years since 8th grade. he was a major pot head and last year he was sent to a boot camp for almost ten months, he made it seem like he was so changed and he wouldnt smoke again i waited for him. about a month after he comes out he starts smoking again. i feel very unappreciated by him because i was there for him more than anyone else and i feel like he was worth waiting for to me. but im not sure what im worth to him if he cant even stop smoking marijuana for me. he still treats me very good and sweet but just the fact of him smoking just ticks me off... should i be getting mad at him? Reply to this Question
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (1 August 2010):
 If this is a major deal breaker for you, and it sounds like it is, then break up with him. Sometimes people just don't fit well enough together, and there's nothing wrong with that. If you don't want it in your life, that's your decision.
Good luck.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (1 August 2010):
 Ditch him
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): have you ever tried to sit down and understand why he does it alot of people does it myself included it doesnt make him a bad person hell try it you might like it
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