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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years, we've had sex a couple of times, not regularly though. Yesteday we were fooling around and things got heated up, i was hard, and we were about to have sex. But when we were about to, i lost my erection and have no idea why. I tried to get hard again but i couldnt. It was frustrating and embarrassing, and a blow to my ego. Why did this happen, its really bothering me, and how do i fix it. I dont want it to happen again.
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reader, rivi  +, writes (1 August 2010):
Well if you've done it before (have sex with the gf ) you can do it again.
Tho as your confidence has taken a knock you maybe need to organize the next occasion in advance : ie somewhere where you're sure you won't be walked in on or have the door knocked; maybe a movie and a nice meal with a good wine at your place ( where presumably you are most relaxed ?) and plenty of time for foreplay so you get rock solid hard....
It does happen to the best so don't think it's a medical issue.
If you fall off the bike you have to get right back on ! [ just kidding girls - well sort of ....]
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (1 August 2010):
 Try again and if the same thing happens see a doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): Don't worry about it. Happens every now and then... Since, as you say, you were rock hard during the build up, we know that there is nothing physically wrong with you.
Your nerves just got the better part of you. I'd diagnose it a weak case of performance anxiety. With more experience, it will wear off. Your penis seems to be working fine.
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reader, xxxcz me +, writes (31 July 2010):
 was there a big build up?
because nerves can make you loose an erection. also maybe if you've been hard for ages and nothing is happening quick enough?!? maybe
i'd go ask a doctor.
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