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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I feel pretty bad for liking my best friend's boyfriend, even though i liked him before she did, but i never told her. Her and him haven't been dating that long but she's really mean to him she talks to other guys while dating him and she calls him fat all the time. She has no idea that i have feelings for this guy and i can't tell her and ruin our friendship even though he kissed me the other night. If i told her the TRUTH she'd hate me. We've been friends for 16 years now, and i don't want to ruin our friendship on a guy, so what should i do?Maybe i should wait for them to break up?Oh i just wanna ask and see if anyone knows, if i live in elizabethtown ky, and i call a number like... 1270.325-**** But i call on my cell phone And my mins are free after 7. Would that charge??
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010): Hi,
u are playing a game that everyone in ur age play... there is no point in u liking this guy.. if the your friends find out that you like your friends ex boyfriend, first you will lose your friend and than lose your reputation....
DO'NT TELL ANYONE IN YOUR CLASS THAT YOU LIKE THIS GUY AND EVEN IF U START DATING HIM.. THERE WILL COME A TIME WHEN CIRCUMSTANCES WILL LEAD YOU TO BREAK UP WITH HIM...
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010): So you're after your best friend's boyfriend, you helped him cheat on her and now you don't want to tell your best friend because you won't have a best friend anymore?
Here's the deal: She's going to find out, and when she does, it will be a lot worse than if you were honest with her. Secondly, why do you want your best friend's sloppy seconds? You can find your own guy. Furthermore, she's your BEST FRIEND. Her boyfriends and exboyfriends should be off limits to you, just as they would be to her if they were yours.
If you don't start treating her like she's your best friend, you aren't going to have a best friend, only the reputation of being a boyfriend stealer.
I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but I'm being completely honest, here. I was your age once, and watched all of this happen several times.
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