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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My insecurities that my ex BF caused are ruining my current relationship! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6752 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - I'm afraid I'm letting my insecurities sabotage my relationship with my boyfriend. How can I stop this from happening? I want to feel better about myself, and I am going back to see an old counselor because my old memories of my ex keep on flooding back when I'm with my curre... (456 words)

I really like my ex-teacher!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6752 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - I'm 16 years old my teacher is 22. My teacher is female and very attractive and we have a very good friendship and we get on better than her and any other pupils. All my freinds take the mick and say 'miss he thinks your the best', oh my god your teachers pet! When she firs... (132 words)

My ex made me tell him EVERYTHING and now I feel like I need to tell me current BF everything too! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6752 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - Ok my ex was VERY controlling. He made me tell him everything i had done in the past with people sexually and what i thought or talked about with people. This was when I didn't even know him so why he wanted to know, i don't know! Now that i have a new boyfriend, he doesn't ... (152 words)

My online fiance has suddenly disappeared! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6752 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - I have been dating a guy online for 5 months. He lives in another country so we email every day and talk on the phone every weekend. He is so wonderful. I went to meet him (in the other country) around our 4 month anniversary. We had already talked about how much we like... (242 words)

Why am I not invited to go with him to his brothers wedding!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 15 months. We are both well in our thirties and have been married before. I have met his family and they all really like me. His brother is getting married in August and it looks like he wants to go to his brother's wedding by himself. I am... (78 words)

He has offered to move home with me so we don't have to do the long-distance thing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6751 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - I am a 21 year old who has been living in the UK for the past 2 years. Now has come the time for me to return to my home country but 4 months ago I met a guy I really like. Now we are facing the prospect of breaking up and he has offered to come home with me. I am not sure I am ... (140 words)

He dropped the 'L' bomb & I don't feel the same....yet! Do I get out quick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6752 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - I have been casually seeing a guy for a month and like him but am not head over heels. The thing is he told me last night that he thinks he is falling in love with me. I am not falling in love with him!!!! My instinct is to run but he is actually ok and I'm not saying that in ... (79 words)

Do I get out of this relationship for the sake of our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6752 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - I've just got together with this great guy who I really like but he also happens to be good friends with my best friend. These two parts of her life have always been fairly seperate and now this has happened she feels completely pushed out and it kills me to know that I've hurt ... (120 words)

Dumped my fiance by phone and always regretted it. Now he wants to see me again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - When I was 21 I met the 'love of my life'. We were both in the army and got engaged. He was in Cyprus and I got posted to Falklands for 6 months. In Falklands I met someone on drunken night and in loneliness had a 'friendship'. I was due to be married in Dec however fell ... (268 words)

I'm puzzled about masturbation. What is it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6752 days ago

26 June 2006 (F)

- I'm 16 and I'm very comfused. All my friends talk about how many times they masturbate but I don't know what it is or how it's done. Can anyone fill me in? Also I'm really confused because all my friends say about that they have hardly any hair 'down below' and I have loads. I... (72 words)

My teacher pays me alot of attention, do you think he fancies me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

26 June 2006 (?) - I am really confused about my teacher. He treats me differently to anyone else. He treats me like a lady, he holds doors open for me, tells me that I am a VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY able student, he said I am lovely, he thinks all the boys fancy me. He checks me out, he glances ... (469 words)

I don't understand why women have this big problem with porn? Any comments?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6724 days ago

26 June 2006 (M) - As a man, I don't understand why women have this big problem with porn. Porn itself is not the problem. It the person. I look at porn 5-6 times a week. I watch some movies, read stories and Jerk off about 6 times a week. Also make love with my wife 3-4 times a week. As much as ... (154 words)

My partner won't cover for me and I will lose my licence!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6752 days ago

26 June 2006 (M) - i have a total of 6 penalty points on driving license with another 3 pending.Without my license i will lose my job and my familys only source of income.so i suggested to my partner who is not in employment has a clean licence and is a named driver on my policy could i say she ... (156 words)

Why does my boyfriend wear things too big!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - Not sure how to handle this...I noticed that my boyfriend wears shoes that are about 2" bigger than his actual shoe size. I had an idea, but when we went bowling the bowling shoes were obviously big on him. I thought maybe they didn't have his size so I told him he should ask. ... (152 words)

What shall I do about my army boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - my bf has recently joined the army and im really struggling to deal with it, i am trying but it is very hard. i was just wondering why people think telling me to split up with him is a good idea? as soon as i say im struggling to deal with it they just say if i cant cope i ... (119 words)

He met the parents... And they hate him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F)

- I need help ASAP. My boyfriend and I have been dating eachother for about 4 months. About 2 weeks ago, he met my parents. We are 19 and 22- incase that changes any advice. Well, he liked my parents and thought they were okay, while my parents acted like they liked him. BUT for ... (152 words)

Refused sex with my online guy now he says he'll post my pictures online!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6742 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - i really need help, ive met this guy tru the online chatting and we exchange nude photos because we trusted each other, he ask me to have sex with him but i refuse to do it because i dont really just gave sex to any one! i am not a slut,. and then he blackmailed me by ... (126 words)

Could she be pregnant, it was only a light period, is it meant to be like that ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (M) - OK,about 2-3weeks ago m,e and my girl friend were laying in bed together and she jercked me off while i was fingering her. When i had a orgasim i rolled out of bed and finshed it up myself.I came on the floor and a little on my hands, so i lightly wiped my hands on my pants and ... (111 words)

I've kissed my manager's boyfriend... I'm in a tangle please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6752 days ago

26 June 2006 (F)

- When I read some of the posts on here, I wonder how do some of these people find themselve in these crazy situations. Like affair with boss', or drunken kiss's with your bestfreinds, or girls getting with theres friend man. Now I have come to find out. I deffinatly had the ... (920 words)

Feeling depressed and having marriage problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - A have a big problem that maybe someone can give me advice! I have been married for 10 years and it seems that my life together with my husband is not going anywhere. I am now suffering of depression and sadness. Since 2002 we have been renting a house, but since 2005 my ... (221 words)

Should we try and get back together, and was I wrong to confront him over these rumours?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6752 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago. Prior to us getting together, we had been friends for a couple of years. He had always liked me, but didn't think I was interested. Anyway, we were fine until something happened. A guy added me on msn and started telling me my ... (447 words)

She dumped me by telephone after 5 years together, it hurts and now she has someone else its driving me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (M) - Help !! Basically I got dumped after 5 years. It was done over the phone and it was the worst thing that evey happened to me in my life. Its been 6 months and it was starting to get better, but the other day I found out that she has someone else. It hurt me so bad... (140 words)

What does the term "gay" actually mean ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6750 days ago

26 June 2006 (M)

- What is the actual meaning of gay. Is it fancying men (if your a man) and vice versa for women, or is it something else?... (25 words)

He says I go on about stuff all the time, But if he wont talk to me what else can I do!!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - Hi, My bf and I have been seeing each other for over a year, we have been arguing alot lately, he says that Im irrational and over the top about stuff when i try to tell him that i feel hurt about something and dismisses my feelings. he says he's a joker and sometimes he says ... (145 words)

I am in love with a married man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - iam 18 years old,attractive, intelligent girl and my problem is that i think in love with a married man with two kids one year and four year children. he is living with his wife the only time i see him is the weekends when his wife is at work. to be honest i really bad myself. ... (74 words)

Did she only say we could remain friends to let me down gently, can we ever be friends anyway ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6750 days ago

26 June 2006 (M) - My ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend and after 4 months I still want her back. I dream of her every night. Things are not to bad at work I am just about getting by but I really suffer and miss her at the weekend. She was my first real love and we were devoted to each other and ... (343 words)

My friend is critiscing my choice of lifestyle but underhandedly, I feel betrayed!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (M) - Ive recently come out to my best friend whos female of 18 years and said im in a relationship at first she was shocked but seemed to get over the shock and seemed generally happy with it.However at the weekend i arranged to meet her with my partner and at the same time meet ... (426 words)

My Husband as advertised on a sex site, is he bored of me ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6380 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - I recently found out that my husband has posted himself on a website for finding adult friends for sex/relationships etc. I have been cheated on before and am going paranoid. He says he's never cheated but has lied to me before about pornographic websites.films is there so... (65 words)

He doesn't put in the effort to our sex life-so I avoid sex now. Will our relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - Hi, What am i going to do?? My boyfriend has a very low sex drive, this is now fine by me. Ive tried lots to improve our sex life but hes not interested. ive accepted this but the problem is I dont enjoy the sex when we do have it (once every 6 wks approx) He usually gets the ... (328 words)

We seem to have the same row! Now hes being obstinate, how can we be more relaxed together again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - Hi, Me and the bf had a row the other day mostly over porn related issues. He has now said that hes not going to go on the pc anymore as this then wont cause any arguments between us. Whilst this is all well and good, I dont want him to stop going on to the internet because... (544 words)

Is it normal to still feel 'dry' even though highly turned on ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - Dear cupid, I am dry 'downstairs'even when v turned on. Is this normal?... (16 words)

He says the relationship isn't the same. We broke up but I want him back. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, Please please help me! I have been seeing someone for 10 months we have had our ups and downs we were supposed to have got married early this year and now because we didnt he feels bitter and has said its not the same now we cant go back to seeing each other on... (187 words)

I had a light period, does this mean I could be pregnant ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - Hi i came on the other day but it was on for a few hours and very very faint but i am not due on for another 3days properly could this indicate i could be pregnant? ... (36 words)

I have the chance to go to Uni, is this the right thing to do given that I havent much support ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - I have had quite a rough time so far.im in a relationship i know is doing me no good,and lately everytime i so much as talk to a man i have girlfriends on my back even tho it is innocent it has come to a point where i am scared to look at people in the street ,i have no ... (254 words)

He wont look at me or kiss me during sex, why is this ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - How come my bf won't look at me or kiss me during sex and only enjoys doggy position? He has also started massaging my anus. Does he have gay tendencies?... (32 words)

He surprised me by saying he doesn't want anything "too serious", so do I tell him about my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F)

- I've been seeing this guy now for about 3 months. When we first met he was still with his ex-girlfriend and he was telling me how controlling and possesive she was. He told me that he's tried breaking up with her but she puts the guilt shame on him. A few weeks after that... (319 words)

My best mate slept with my girlfriend, but can I ever forget that fact and be friends again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (M) - Hi Everybody, I had a friend for eighteen years, literally a childhood friend. A few years ago he slept with my girlfriend, my first "real" girlfriend/relationship shinanigan. Well he never admitted it to me, which drove me mad at the time as I really felt I had the right to... (186 words)

Not interested in my husband any longer and I've had a series of affairs. Why am I doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost seven years now. In the beginning I was blissfully happy, and the turning point was the day I lost my father, very suddenly. Ever since then, I've repeatedly cheated on my husband, not for sex, but I've tended to go for men who ... (195 words)

I love my boyfriend; I'm just not that "in love" with him. And now there's someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6743 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - Hi. I need some advice. I live with my boyfriend. I've never really had the passionate 'in love' feeling with him. I've known him for most of my life. He loves me, and he treats my daughter well. I feel secure for the first time in my life as a struggling single mom. He's a g... (229 words)

Why is my BF baiting me and trying to make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend is always trying to make me jealous. One time he was in vacation and he texted me to tell me one of his female friends were skinny dipping. Then when I was like "okay that's too much information for me" his responce was "chill... she's only an A cup.." That real... (155 words)

I wasn't "ever" going to have a relationship again, and now I'm panicking that I feel close to someone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6754 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - Hi there! I have written in here a while ago about my lying, cheating ex. I'd vowed to myself that I would never have another relationship after ending the last one - very painful relationship and ending. I didn't think I'd ever open up to anyone enough for them to like me or ... (584 words)

He thought I was ready for something serious, and knew he wasn't -- so he disappeared!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6752 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - I was seeing a guy for 2 months (me 27, him 21) and wasn't sure where we stood. We didn't go out much and he wouldn't stay over after sex, so I suspected he was using me. I asked him where I stood and he said he saw me as the perfect girl, that he was falling in love with me ... (170 words)

Are the nice guys boring and do girls prefer a bastard? Views please!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

26 June 2006 (M) - Be honest, Do most girls love a bastard? Is it sexy or a turn on? I know that doormats aren't sexy but they usually treat their woman right. A guy who is a bastard and keeps to the 'treat em mean keep em keen' regime usually gets on all right in the relationship world where the ... (122 words)

So hard to make conversation with him, but I caught him staring at me! Is he interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - Hi I like this guy, but I'm not sure how to go about it. He is a good friend of my friend, (they are flatmates), but I'm not sure if he likes me back. I haven't really made much conversation with him. The thing is, me and my friend stayed over at his place, but he didn't c... (170 words)