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writes: When I was 21 I met the 'love of my life'. We were both in the army and got engaged. He was in Cyprus and I got posted to Falklands for 6 months. In Falklands I met someone on drunken night and in loneliness had a 'friendship'. I was due to be married in Dec however fell pregnant in Oct. I returned to UK in Nov and called everthing off with fiance over phone. We never met up. I continuously kept in touch through text with my ex; however got married and tried to have a 'family'. It was never gonna work as I was still smitten with my ex. I constantly think/dream about him and can't or won't move on. It has been 5 years since I was posted and cannot regret what has happened as I have a beautiful baby boy; however I have never been in love with my husband. I text my ex and was finally honest about how I feel now. I've said for five years that I'm sorry for what I did, however I'm still thinking about him and if we can never meet up or be together then let's draw a line as I can't move on. He replied that he wants to come down and see me on Fri night which is a 4 hour drive. I can't wait as it's been 5 years, but not sure how to play it. Can it ever work after what I did to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2006): Hi i have a similar situation. my husband is in the army too and i know how difficult it can be when you're away from the one you love. If i had your chance i would deffinately take it. I'm a great believer that u can't stay with someone just for the kids sake you need to be happy and the kids see that as a good sign. it's just the fact that it's a big step to take to actually leave. if this is what u want go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2006): You will never know, if you don't try. Just do whatever you want/need to do and see how it goes.
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