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writes:So I've been seeing this girl for 5 months. We usually spend everyday together but since we're both off from school shes at home in Boston and I'm here in California 3,000 miles away.We've said "I Love you" and I truly mean it. She assures me shes never felt this way about anyone before but since shes been home (which has only been a week and I have three more till i see her again) she's been distant. I've texted her and gotten no response which isn't like her and she hardly talks to me on the phone. She always says she has to go or has another call and needs to answer it. I feel left behind and I don't know what to do. I keep thinking shes cheating on me because she's admited doing it to her boyfriends in the past but she says she loves me and would do nothing to screw that up. The thought of her cheating is making me lose sleep over it. Should I ask her why she hasn't been talking to me as much or should I just not text her or call her for a while and see if she misses me???
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGood answer, I think I will take your advice and give her space and start to enjoy my time alone for a couple of weeks.
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (28 December 2006):
 Asking her over the phone will appears that you are being paranoid and do not trust her. This may push her away.
Give her some time, let her chase you.
Worrying about it and loosing sleep will not ensure that nothing happens. If she really loves you, she will stay true and things will go back to normal when you see each other again.
Be strong and fun when you talk next, it will remind her what she is missing and why she loves you.
Being at home, has given her the opportunity to catch up with friends and family, allow her some space and you do the same. Do not waist your holiday and wonder what can or cannot happen which you have no control about.
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