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writes: is it wrong 2 feel used if you give a blow job and then they leave..?..i duno if it that they got what they want now they can leave.or that they really do need to leave..but is it still wrong 2 feel used?!
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reader, Amethyst  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 If he's only free when he wants a blowjob, I suggest you reconsider having anything to do with him, because it's pretty obvious he's using you.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (28 December 2006):
 If he wanted to see you he would MAKE time. In my opinion yes, you are being used as a bit of a sexual plaything, a handy blowjob as and when he feels like it. Especially if he is not giving in any of the other normal areas of a realtionship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell He's in the Army..and he's Very "busy"...so i don't hardly get 2 see him 2 much..!..
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (28 December 2006):
 It is not wrong to feel used, this is something we cannot help feeling when someone treats us this way. I don't really know the details about who he was etc, but it sounds to me like this can be a lesson learnt. Don't give yourself up to people who don't deserve you. You're disrespecting yourself and you can't expect others to respect you if you do it too.
My advice to you is to stay away from this guy and ones like him who will use you for what they can get. Learn from this and become more independent and confident, don't be doing things with people who don't deserve you.
Good luck and don't worry about this. We all do it when we're young, just learn the lesson now and don't let it continue.
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reader, Amethyst +, writes (28 December 2006):
It's natural to question sometimes, and to feel used, yes. If this is a repeated occurance, chances are he's using you. If it's only happened once, decide whether to give him the benefit of a doubt or not. No one can tell you the truth other than him, but it's a very common thing for a guy to do that. (Girls do it too, but not as often thanks to over active emotions. ^.~)
First off, have you talked to him since this, or has he been too busy to talk?
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