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writes: A girl I know just got dumped by her bf. They have been going out for a few months and everything was fine. Then 2 weeks ago it all changed. This girl got sexualy abused by her father and feels uncomfterble now in relationships. When it got worse he left her at a resturant and made her walk home in the rain to go smoke pot with his friends. She didn't dump him because she wanted to fix things. Then they were at his house on a date and he wanted her to give him head. She didn't want to and he said well you love me so prove it. He knows about her past and he kicked her out and made her walk rather far in the middle of the night. Now she is so depressed she can barley talk. She can't make up her mind on what she wants. I don't know how to help her.
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reader, cam  +, writes (28 December 2006):
 iv had 2 much xperience wif this an i still hav no idea how you make sum1 feel better but first get her 2 dump that fag he isnt worth her time. she can do so much better. be there for her and make sure she knows you are. its really hard to watch ppl you care about being hurt but all you can do is show them you care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006): hi, you need to get her to talk to someone she trust's has to understand the abuse wasn't her fault and that people will believe and want to help her. Good luck keep being a friend, wounds like this take time too heal. x
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