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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He wont do anything I suggest but is a sweety..what can I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6789 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - There is a guy who I am really good friends with. I think the friendship could develop as we get on so well, but there is just one thing that bothers me. We see each other tons but it is him that suggests where we go all the time. I always thought guys liked girls that too... (388 words)

Torn between two guys. Which one should be my friend and which my lover??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - I stopped talking to my now x bf 6 mo ago. He was my consistant flame from day one to 4 yrs later but lacked mutual direction so I broke it off. Soon after, an old friend of the family found me and started picking me up on casual dates. He was my bro's best friend for 18yrs, so ... (319 words)

I am in love with my best friend but when do i tell her and how can i start seeing her again??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6790 days ago

18 April 2006 (M) - Cupid, im 16 and i feel like i am in love. I know people might say it might just be lust but i do truely think and feel im in love with my girl best friend who is 15. The thing is sometimes i feel really happy when i think of her but sometimes i feel sad and depressed because i ... (119 words)

He'd rather choke the chicken than make love to me. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

18 April 2006 (M) - i am have been married for 15 years and love my hubby very much. but know him for 22 years. i was a virgin when i go married and as the years got on we had a very health sex live but in the past 5 years it just seem to have gone down hill. i have spoken to my hubby about it ... (138 words)

What signals is my ex giving me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6790 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - I'm confused by the signals my ex is giving me. We broke up in January, he has a gf who he's been with since we've broke up. I'm still in love with him, and i accidentally told him this when i saw him a month ago (it was the first time we'd seen each other since the break up... (391 words)

How can I be happy with my life??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6790 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - Today I just feel really depressed, i've been angry with my sister and mum. I think its because I feel like I don't have any close friends, I don't have a strong social network, someone who I can talk to when life seems to be against me. I'm usually a happy bunny, but we have ... (147 words)

Should I follow my heart and date this girl - who's 13?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6766 days ago

18 April 2006 (M) - i am 16 and have feelings for a girl. but the problem is she is only 13. she looks very young but i really like her and she really likes me. if i went out if her id be called names and my mum wouldnt like me for it. i dont know what to do. follow my heart or get with her ... (88 words)

Did I do the right thing by asking this guy out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6790 days ago

18 April 2006 (F)

- I met a guy a few weeks ago and we spoke by text message for a while. He said he would eventually meet up with me but it has not happened yet. Tonight, after talking to him for most of the day (via tx), I took the plunge and mentioned that I was going out with mates on Th... (203 words)

How do I get out of my pattern of low self esteem and not feeling worthy enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6789 days ago

18 April 2006 (M) - I am in a relationship with a woman that I love and respect dearly. She is an amazing person to say the least. I have a low self-esteem especially when trying to feel 'worthy' of being with her. She is very easy to get along with and there really is neber a reason for us to... (241 words)

How can i support my bf through tough times??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6790 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - hi...i have a really weid question..my boyfreind had been going though sum hard times and he wants a shoulder to lean on and i wanna be that shouldr yet dun't know how..i don't know what to say. I mean he made those choices and now he has to live with the consquences right. I... (74 words)

Is it true love or an obsession?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - I have known a guy since i was 14 and now I'm 26. I have been egaged and have had children, but I could not be happy in that relationship. now i am in another relationship of two years, a pretty good guy, but was again am unhappy. I always think of (CaD)yet have tried to be ... (180 words)

He told me "I was too wet" for him to orgasm... Am I over-sensitive by being upset by this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6790 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - I am divorced and 52yrs old, I have had few relationships. I have been on and off with a man who is widowed for a year, he is 65yrs old. I have struggled letting myself relax sexually, although he has been kind, considerate and generous throughout our relationship, in every ... (210 words)

My odd guy is stringing me along, please help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6790 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for eight months. I say 'see', but in reality I have only seen him twice in the first six weeks and after that he's been stringing me along by text with vague promises of meeting up again. He's generally odd, which explains why at 50 he's still un... (143 words)

My ex left me but broke up and now wants me back. But I'm with a new guy... And confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6790 days ago

18 April 2006 (M) - I'm 32 and my ex is 22. We dated for a year and three months, and then he left me for someone else. After four months, they broke up and he came back to me wantin to get back together. He cried his eyes out, apologized profusely, and talked about how much he learned, how ... (290 words)

I called to ask where our relationship is going and he says were're just "friends". I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6790 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - Okay you guys I just got into this new relationship 3 weeks ago to be exact and it was going great the first couple of weeks and then all of a sudden he just wouldnt talk to me at all and I was getting frustrated thinking what did I do wrong or is he dead.... I had no idea but ... (224 words)

She went from loving me to not caring in a week. How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

18 April 2006 (M) - About 3 months ago my girlfriend of three years decided to end our relationship for reasons still unknown..we bought a house together and had been living there for about 8 months when she came home a few days in a row and said she wasn't happy..Around the same time I found ... (331 words)

She says she's looking at porn on the web to see what I was exposed to when I used to see strippers!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6788 days ago

18 April 2006 (M) - my wife and I are in our forties, both are in second marriages. I was intimate with a number of woman before my first marriage and been to strip clubs about 10 times in my life. my wife who has been with 2 guys before we met and got married. when she asked about my past, I ... (175 words)

We had sex and he told me im magic but now it feels like I have been put on hold!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid; I know this person for a long time, because we work in the same place, and i know he likes me we always talked when we have a break in some location. He kept inviting me to the movies, but we dont have the chance, but one day i accept the invitation. He has to... (289 words)

I got pregnants even thought I was on the pill, I'm 16 and don't know what to do! help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - I'm 16 and I think I could be pregnant. I'm booked for a test tomorow and I don't know what I'll do if it turns up positive. I'm still at school, my parents are not the type that will be supportive, I won't abort it or give it up, any advice? Also, I was on the pill, I didnt ha... (63 words)

My fiancee's cousin touched me while I was sleeping!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6790 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - My fiance's cousin touched me while I was sleeping... A couple of months ago my fiance and I had a big party at our new place. Plenty of our friends live quite far so a whole bunch of people crashed the night at our house instead of driving home. One of these people was... (294 words)

She has been with over 100 men and I can't get this image out of my head!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

18 April 2006 (M) - My girlfriend just told me of her past, consisting of a couple of hundred men. I am having a hard time accepting this number and find myself thinking of her with her former partners rather than myself. How do I get over this?... (44 words)

He's lied to me many times and when I suggested getting him a present he freaked out, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6779 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - Hi there. On July 3rd 2006, me and my boyfriend will have been together for a full year, and I wanted to get him something special, so i thought i could get him a plain silver ring with my name engraved on it. Nothing too expensive and nothing cheap, just something nice. I ... (432 words)

Iwas motherly with her about my sexual advice but was I wrong to say it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6791 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - Basically my friend told me that she thinks she ready to have sex for the first time(she is 15 her bf is 18 but she is 16 in june n i think she will wait till she is 16) anyway as she is younger than me i sometimes act motherly when it comes down to tlking about sex ect but ... (228 words)

We love eachother but he doesn't want me to tell anyone we've said it, is something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - Hi, I just told my boyfriend of 10 months that I loved him on Easter, it took em a long time to say it (seriously, 20 minutes)and in fact my bf helped me out by asking if what I wanted to tell him was that I loved him.. I said yes and then was finally able to say it... I had ... (288 words)

I'm gay but I think I'm turning and I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6768 days ago

18 April 2006 (M) - Hi i have been gay for nearly 7 years and am currently in a relationship. however for a while now i have developed feelings for girls. Recently i was in a potential situation where something could have happened however i stayed away so it couldn't however i really wanted it ... (78 words)

Can I help her through her depression of should I just leave her alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6789 days ago

18 April 2006 (M)

- hello people once again i'm after advice or in some sense reasurrance, my relationship has it breaking point my girlfriend says she is not happy with life but although she loves me and says i've done nothing wrong she says she don't know if she can keep the relationship going ... (210 words)

Was she trying to tell me how she felt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

18 April 2006 (M)

- recently i told a very close freind about the girl that i like but when she found out she reacted strangly. she said that she wanted to ask a hipothetical question asking what i would think if someone i used to like now liked me what would i do? she was refering to herself. i ... (95 words)

What shall I write in his birthday card?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - Hey Guys! Well i was wondering if you can all give me some advice on what to write in my bfs birthday card. His birthday was in january but i didnt get him nothin.So i've decided i'll get him a card with something funny yet cute inside,but i dont know w... (119 words)

He's worried that he's never dated a girl. Any advice I can give my buddy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

18 April 2006 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 year old male, I would class myself as very forward when it comes to relationships, although they never last, I'm pretty happy most of the time, however I'm worried this maybe influencing what I need help with. I have a friend whom I've known most of my life,... (221 words)

I told her I just wanted to be friends, now I've fallen in love, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

18 April 2006 (M) - Im in love with my best friend. I was goin out wi this girl over a year ago, but i broke up wi her cos i didn't feel much towards her and just wasn't ready for a realationship at that time. I know she realy liked me and i hurt her, i acted like a jerk when we was going out, ... (220 words)

After having a colposcopy exam, sex is just unbearable!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - Since having a colposcopy exam about 6 months ago ( which i found particularly distressing) i have found sex (oral and penitritive) very painful, to the extent that the strss and nerves that i feel before hand are totally putting me off sex. prior to this my husband and i had a ... (73 words)

He says we could have a happy future but goes cold when I mention getting back together, what's his game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

18 April 2006 (M) - I need some help in trying to work out my gay ex (21) who I have just split from. I am 33 and we split two months ago after five great months. He has met someone else but says it is not working as he planned. We have talked about the possibility of getting back and he says... (251 words)

I love my best friend but she has a boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6579 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - I am in love with my best friend who is also female. She told me she loved me but i found out she has a boyfriend what should i do?? pls help... (32 words)

When is enough actually enough!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - Hi. I am 23 years old engaged and living with my fiancee for the past 2 years. We have no kids. Both of our families think that we are married and we wear wedding bands to show everyone as we are married. Yet, there was never any paper signed or ceremony. I have been ... (174 words)

Why he is not jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - I have been dating my bf for almost half year, he rarely looks jealous. He liked to party, to revenge, I went to party this weekend and two guys walked around to ask my numbers, I told him later on, he just asked, "did you give it to them?" My birthday other friend sent me a ... (190 words)

I'm an "incel" an not very happy about it... It it because I lack status?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

18 April 2006 (M) - A simple question. I am a 32 year old boderline virgin( 2 drunken one night stands) and also an incel* who has never had a girlfiend. I am also a terciary educated picker and packer who hates his job of course and hence will not discuss it(another problem I can not get out ... (100 words)

The sex is terrible... And now he ogles other women in public and jerks off to porn...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 18 months. He has intimacy issues but is a good man who I have felt pretty happy with. A few months ago, I discovered that he was looking at online porn. It bugged me a little, but I am by all means not a judgmental woman. I even to... (543 words)

Should I have broken up over his pot smoking and gambling addiction??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6791 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - The night before I broke up with my boyfriend we got in a fight because he was mad that I told my friend (that he doesn't like) that he smoked pot. So, we went home instead of celebrating my birthday. He wanted to smoke some weed to calm down. I got drunk because I was real... (307 words)

Vaginal intercourse doesn't do much for me..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - Alright guys. Simple question. I need tips. I can't have orgasms during sex. Clitoral orgasms are fine. My boyfriend is amazing at giving me those with his fingers, but penetrating does nothing? Advice?... (33 words)

I have a crush on a guy from my bfs neighbourhood!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6789 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - Hi, umm i kinda have a big crush on this guy in my bf's neighorborhood and i really really like him and if i go out with him i will never see him ya no? and i have a boyfriend.. and i will get 2 see him in school all the time but the thing is i really really like him too, im ... (101 words)

Will a coffee with my ex give me closure??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

18 April 2006 (F)

- My seven year common law relationship ended ten months ago. The last ten months have been challenging at times and now finally things are turning around. I have met many new people whom I do not think I would have met when I was in the relationship and I am getting excited ... (281 words)

I was shocked by discovering his stash of porn mags... But appalled when he told me he had just seen a whore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

18 April 2006 (F) - I have been with my fiance for four years. We are getting married in January. We have always been very open sexually, and we have always been very relaxed and trusting. There have never been any jealousy issues, and we have always told each other everything. I am perfectly ... (156 words)