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writes: I have known a guy since i was 14 and now I'm 26. I have been egaged and have had children, but I could not be happy in that relationship. now i am in another relationship of two years, a pretty good guy, but was again am unhappy. I always think of (CaD)yet have tried to be with him twice but I always leave it because I don't want the father of my children to be mad because he hates Cad. He feels that he is the reason we seperated, which is untrue Cad had been away in the army for many years and I just saw him after my ex and i broke up. But know that I have hurt Cad so many times, I have not spoke to him in a year, but there is not a day that goes by when I wonder what would have been or my heart just bleeds to see him drive by or something. Can you ever get over the person that takes away your everybreath even when your not together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell as of today I just found out that Cad is getting married in July. All I have been able to do is cry. How selfish can I be I mean I'm engaged and only want the utmost happiness for him in life, just not with someone else. but I guess I'm to late.
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reader, iamsoscrewedup333 +, writes (20 April 2006):
WOW. that is too crazy for me. I just posted something totally like this. I am in almost the same situation you are. I am married but I cannot stop thinking about my ex that was always there for me. I don't see her a lot but everytime I do I am just overwhelmed with what "might have been" I say if you are not attached at the moment GO FOR IT. The worst thing to live with is regret and you will never know unless you give it a shot. If things don't work out you can always take comfort in the fact that you tried your best. I only wish that I had a 2nd chance...
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reader, PrunellaGringepith +, writes (19 April 2006):
 I do think that you can get over someone, but I also think it is very hard to do so, especially if you keep coming into contact with the person, (having my own little problem with this right now).
I am afraid I don't have too much advice for you, except to try to sit down and analyse why it is that you feel this way about this person for so long, and yet are not with him. Do you really think a relationship could work with this man, or is the idea better than the reality?
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (19 April 2006):
 You see this guy as your *one that got away* and yes I do think you will get over him. There has to have been more of a reason as to why you split up with him. Was it really because of your babydaddy? Think about how you will be unfulfilled in life if you dont start to move on. Maybe even seek professional help in coming to terms with the feelings that this relationship provokes in you.
Let me know more.
I wish you luck.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (19 April 2006):
 My answer to that question is no, I don't think you can get over that someone and your words really moved me. Very few people will ever get to love someone the way you obviously love this man and I advise you to do all you can to be happy. Don't be one of those people that lies on their death bed and has regrets, especially ones as big as letting the love of your life slip away. Good luck.
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