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writes: My fiance's cousin touched me while I was sleeping...A couple of months ago my fiance and I had a big party at our new place. Plenty of our friends live quite far so a whole bunch of people crashed the night at our house instead of driving home. One of these people was my fiance's cousin. At the party I had a bit too much to drink and ended up falling asleep on my bed before the party was over. A little while later I was woken up by someone touching me under my skirt, and I realized that my panties had been removed. At first I thought it was my fiance, so I didn't open my eyes, just opened my legs a little more and enjoyed the feeling. (my fiance and I sometime play a game like this where I pretend to be asleep).Then I opened my eyes a little and realised it wasn't my fiance but his cousin. I was so shocked I didnt know what to do. He hadn't seen that I was awake so I just pretended to roll over in my sleep, moved away, and waited till I heard him snoring to get up.My fiancee was asleep on the sofa.I haven't told anyone and now I don't know what to do. This cousin is around a lot, he and my fiance are close and I think he wants him to be best man! Everytime I see him I remember what he did, and I don't know if it disgusts me, or turns me on, or both.... I feel so guilty... what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would love to come clean about this, but I am worried that my fiance will take it really badly. He gets quite jealous and has been hurt before when his best friend slept with his former girlfriend. Also he is very close to his family and I would hate to cause a rift between them, yet I can't get over the feeling of being violated, and the guilt from having enjoyed it.
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (19 April 2006):
Tell your fiancee exactly what you have told us. Chances are the cousin was drunk, will also be totally devastated with guilt, and will say sorry immediately, thereby clearing the air.
But if you do nothing, it will hang like a dirty cloud over you for ever. Speak the truth now. You are not to blame.
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