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writes: Dear Cupid; I know this person for a long time, because we work in the same place, and i know he likes me we always talked when we have a break in some location. He kept inviting me to the movies, but we dont have the chance, but one day i accept the invitation.He has to call me to set the date,he did it,but when he call me i told him to call me later, but he never did,the next day in our job he was very diferent with me and after 2 days i ask him if he was upset about what happen, he told me not but you was the one has to call me and tell me if we going or not and the same day he hugged me very tight and i did the same. He looked into my eyes and he kissed me, both of us feel really good and the same day we date he took me to his house and we have sex after we kiss every single minute. He told me i was magic, but i dont know what happen he dont call me. When we see each other in work he kisses me and all that but i feel like he put hold on me. I ask him when we gone to see eachether and his answer is very soon and give me a kiss. He is about 40 or 38 what i do, i feel somethig very special for him after the first kiss and i know he do he tell me he likes me from a long time. What do you suggest i do? I want him for something serious.
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reader, shania +, writes (22 April 2006):
Ahh,you never said in your 1st question about this other fella so yes,he could be playing cool.Why dont you ask this new fella outright and tell him that if you finish with your boyfriend...would he consider a proper relationship with you?....if he still doesn't say anything,then im afraid you have got your answer.
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reader, Hery +, writes (20 April 2006):
Hery is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear Cupid;about my first question i have to add something else. I think what is bothering him is this i have somobody in my life right now but my relationship its not working and when i tell him that i think thats why his cooloff. Please tell me in this situation a person i know his very seriuos, probably he trying to wait until i finish my relationship, becouse he tell me let's get step by step. he's not to happy about that.
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reader, shania +, writes (19 April 2006):
There seems to be a lack of communication here,or he is playing games and has decided to not bother with you at all,but you need to know where you stand.You want a proper relationship with him but he seems very vague,i get the impression that he probably only wants sex with you,now and again...i might be wrong but he doesn't set any dates with you,personally i would leave it,i know you are keen on him but i wouldn't chase him,he should be the one to ask you out again,but if he is only giving you false hope and you want more,then he is not the one for you.
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