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Should I follow my heart and date this girl - who's 13?

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Question - (18 April 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

i am 16 and have feelings for a girl. but the problem is she is only 13. she looks very young but i really like her and she really likes me. if i went out if her id be called names and my mum wouldnt like me for it. i dont know what to do. follow my heart or get with her secretly or say no and let her go. please tell me what you think i should do. ive never felt this way about a girl before

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (13 May 2006):

bonym agony auntMy friend, while she is only a tender age of 13 I dont think that it is wise to start dating because it will soon lead to sex and she is far too young. As willywombat has rightly suggested, justbe friends for now. Its the wise choice. xXx

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A female reader, vixie +, writes (27 April 2006):

vixie agony auntGO for it mate if you love this girl you should follow your heart. tell your mum how much you care about this girl and how much she means to u. if all the people call you names just look at them and say so they will soon stop

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2006):

Well since you've never felt this way for a girl before then, I think you should go for it! Because when I was 13 my boyfriend was 16 too and he never cared about my age...we were really happy together. So you should follow your heart cuz I don't think a 3 yr. age gap should ruin it. Hope this helped in any way!

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2006):

willywombat agony auntWhy can't the pair of you be friends and not do anything sexual? If you are meant to be then true love will stick around until she is a bit more physically and mentally mature.

Good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2006):

if you really cared for this girl you could wait. maybe thats what she really needs you to do i know personally im 17 and the guy who i wanna be with is 23 and he needs to wait for me for the relationship to work. it might not be what you want to hear but it will be worth it.

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