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Did I do the right thing by asking this guy out?

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Question - (18 April 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2006)
A female United Kingdom, *ush123 writes:

I met a guy a few weeks ago and we spoke by text message for a while. He said he would eventually meet up with me but it has not happened yet.

Tonight, after talking to him for most of the day (via tx), I took the plunge and mentioned that I was going out with mates on Thursday to a local pub. I asked if he would like to meet up as it would be good to get to know him better properly (I told him this).

I have not yet had a reply but am wondering if I did the right thing - I do not always agree that the man should always ask the woman out as sometimes the man is too shy to ask the woman. Although I am quite shy, for some reason, I felt really confident about asking this guy out.

Did I do the right thing or was there little things I could have done differently? Will he say no because my mates will be around too?

Please help - this is the first time I have ever asked a guy out!!!

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2006):

shania agony auntWell it could of been a number of things on why he didn't txt you back,my hunch is...he probably got very nervous at the thought of meeting you up with your mates,what i would suggest is...ask him out again but this time just you and him...if he still doesn't respond then i would just leave it...you have done all you can...the ball would be in his court then.Good luck.

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