She won't reciprocate in the oral department
Q. Hi - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years, however she will not perform oral sex on me. I regularly perform it on her during foreplay, because she enjoys it, just like I do. She has said for the past 18 months on and off that she has had a ...
A. 21 February 2011: She is being rather selfish. If you give it to her then she should give it to you...no way around it.
I would let her know how you feel and quite frankly, think about moving on if you are unsatisfied in the bedroom. If you aren't happy now, mor... (read in full...)
Husband isn't sure he can give up his "friendship" with woman he had an affair with!
Q. I discovered by husband was having an affair nearly two years ago. It nearly destroyed me and our marriage. He admitted he was in love with the other woman and was going to leave me for her. In the end we worked through it (or so I thought). For 6 ...
A. 18 February 2011: Let me start with saying that an affair is WRONG no matter which way you look at it.
However, I don't think that it is easy for a cheating spouse to leave the other person. No matter how wrong it is, they do develop feelings for eachothe... (read in full...)
Is a cheater always a cheater?
Q. do u think once a cheater is always a cheater? thanks for ur comments in advance....
A. 18 February 2011: Most people on here are going to say yes to that question but I would have to say no. It ALL depends on the person. Some will be and others won't.... (read in full...)
Should I allow my husband to have sex with other women because of a fetish for huge boobs?
Q. Should i let my husband have sex with other women because of a fetish for huge boobs? My husband and I have been together for 4 years (married for almost 2) we have a 1 year old little boy and our second baby is due in june. He has a fetish/...
A. 17 February 2011: Absolutely no way would I let him sleep with someone because he likes large boobs. I don't think it would get it out of his system but rather the opposite. And really, can you honestly say that you would be ok with him sleeping with another woman ... (read in full...)
Will my feelings for my husband ever come back?
Q. Hello, I have read so many posts, and even though most of them have similarities to my situation none of them fit perfectly so I will try to convey my story and see if someone can give me some insight on what to do! I am 30 and married 5 years,...
A. 17 February 2011: I am sorry that you are going through such a tough time.
As sad as it is to say, more marriages than not end in divorce. It is like of like the odd are stacked against us.
You sound like you have done your part. You have went to counseli... (read in full...)
Is being a 24 virgin male that bad?
Q. I am a 24 yr old virgin male i try to live by the bible standards am nt perfect thats why i say try, some girls find it strange that a handsome guy at my age is still a virgin. Am waiting for marriage my girlfriend is a virgin and we both want to ...
A. 17 February 2011: Absolutely it is NOT a bad thing. I applaud you for your beliefs. It really isn't anyones business if you do or don't have sex before marriage and don't let anybody make you feel bad or guilty for what you believe in! ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if boyfriend is watching porn?
Q. Other than the history, how can you find out if porn is being viewed on the internet? or webcams being viewed? boyfriend vows that he hasn't been watching it anymore, but how can I be sure? He lives with me and uses my computers, I have thought ...
A. 17 February 2011: I don't get why all you women are so concerned about your boyfriends watching porn. What is the big deal? It's not illegal and it's not cheating. Get some self confidence and stop making it something bigger than it is.... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but want to masturbate
Q. So I'm a virgin and have begun to masturbate. Since yesterday i have only used my hands and a bullet for clitoral stimulation which is fine, but then I brought a larger bullet (one to penetrate) so I could gain experience before i have sex for the ...
A. 16 February 2011: No it doesn't mean that a penis won't fit inside of you. The vagina is an amazing thing, it stretches...a lot, the size of a baby :) You are new at this and when some girls start using tampons it hurts. Trust me, you will be fine. Try using some ... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: Out of the last 2 men that I have been with they were pretty much the same in size, I'd say 7x5 and I loved sex with one because he was a better kisser and it was just more enjoyable versus the other.
My opinion is that size doesn't matter b... (read in full...)
Promiscuous wife
Q. What would you do if the wife you thought the world of is a liar and deciever, born in a religous family i kept to my bible truth. I kept my virginity till marriage, my wife lied to me that she was a virgin before we got married we lived with the ...
A. 16 February 2011: Wow, you are that pissed because you thought she was a virgin when you got married? You are so mad about that that you have now labeled her a liar and deceiver about something that happened BEFORE you got married.
Yes, I think you should divorce ... (read in full...)
My meds helped make this relationship possilble, but they're also getting in the way of me being all she needs me to be
Q. First of all, I have to give some background information on myself. I am 44 years old and have had mental problems all my life. My father was an extremely abusive person and I grew up either being beaten, or watching him beat my mother. I develo...
A. 14 February 2011: Granted, I think the medication has a little to do with it but honestly, meds or no meds, every relationship can hit that point. I just had a friend split with her spouse and it was the same reasoning. They grew apart over the years and they were ... (read in full...)
Why do some girls like anal and some don't?
Q. Why do some girls prefer anal sex and others don't? Are some afraid to try it? Or is it deeper than that?...
A. 10 February 2011: Hey male reader, anonymous....normal women are not porn stars....if you want on of those skanky women who probably can't count the number of men they have been with, more power to ya!... (read in full...)
I think I'd enjoy sex more if I could climax
Q. hey there so i dont know if something is wrong with me but i cant climax when having sex, i can if im masturbating i dont know if that normal or not? dont get me wrong i enjoying having sex with my bf but i think i would enjoy it more if i could cl...
A. 10 February 2011: Unfortunately, there are many women that never orgasm with vaginal sex alone. They have to rely on oral to reach it. Since you are able to masturbate and get off, I would suggest that you help yourself along while having sex. Your young so yo... (read in full...)
Why do some girls like anal and some don't?
Q. Why do some girls prefer anal sex and others don't? Are some afraid to try it? Or is it deeper than that?...
A. 10 February 2011: I am all for anything but here are the rules when it comes to anal. If I get to stick a comparable dildo up your ass FIRST, then I will do it. I think it is only fair that the guy knows what if feels like before getting to stick their dick in ... (read in full...)
Do girls like to be touched there?
Q. I feel that my current gf doesn't like me touching her pussy when we kiss because I always thought that girls, like us guys, liked to be touched there when petting but my current gf passed a comment while I put my hand inside her panties the other ...
A. 9 February 2011: I would say yes if she is more experienced. However, if she is rather inexperienced, she might feel like you are rushing towards the prize and she might not be ready for that.
And sometimes a girl just wants to be kissed without anything... (read in full...)
She wants to take a "Mommy Break". Would getting her a weekend by herself for V-Day be unromantic?
Q. Would it be horribly un-romantic for me to book a beachfront room for my wife to take a 2-day getaway by herself, as a Valentines Day gift? She has been talking about wanting to take a "mommy break" as in, get away for a couple days to relax, read, ...
A. 7 February 2011: I would LOVE it!!... (read in full...)
My ex will not let me see my 6 year old daughter!
Q. Dear Cupid Hello I have a question and need some advice. I have a daughter that is 6 he father has kept me from my rights to see her in 5 years. He will not provide me with a number. Or anything I've tryed to contact him eveyway possible. I am a m...
A. 4 February 2011: Unless you have signed your parental rights away, what he is doing is not legal. Unfortunately the only thing that you are going to be able to do is get the legal system involved. Unfortunately it can be expensive but it is really your only ... (read in full...)
I liked him less when he admitted having dated someone my mother's age
Q. This guy that I'm dating has dated a much older woman in the past. I don't usually bring up past relationships for this very reason but it somehow came out and never did I think he would have dated 25 years older than him.(he's 25). I tried ...
A. 2 February 2011: Hate to say it but that is YOUR problem. Would it make you feel better if he said that he slept with 30 different women?
It's in the past and what's done is done. He can't change it.
You need to decide if this is really going to be an issue f... (read in full...)
Is there any way to tell if he has a girlfriend?
Q. are they any signs that you could tell if a man i am intrested in has a girlfriend . i know he not married he is a widowder has been for 10 years now . ...
A. 2 February 2011: Just ask him...... (read in full...)
What I don't understand is why would she have sabotaged this relationship?
Q. My girlfriend and I broke up last week. We had been dating for a year. The first 6 months were great and we never fought. The last 6 months have been turbulent with episodes of fights and making up almost on a monthly basis. The periods between ...
A. 2 February 2011: I don't think that it really has anything to do with you. I hate to say it but it almost sounds like she has a bit of bipolar tendencies.
I think that she really needs to work on herself before she is ready for a relationship. While you sound li... (read in full...)
He works so much I feel like a single parent
Q. The roads are treacherous and icy today, the kids are home from school. My husband, although having the option (from his boss) to work from home, got up before the crack of dawn and spent over two hours to get to his office in a commute that ...
A. 2 February 2011: Oh dear, I feel for you! It must be a terrible feeling knowing that his work has taken the front seat to basically his life.
It sounds like you have tried and that is all you can do. At this point, you have to make that tough decision whether ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is having a hard time with the fact that I've been with another man before him. Help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have recently talked about having sex for the first time, he would normally wait until marriage but because we love each other and are both willing, he said we wouldn't have to wait(plus we are planning to get married in the next ...
A. 2 February 2011: I hate to state the obvious but there is nothing to forgive here. The past is the past and there is nothing you or he can do to change it.
Everyone has something in their past that they aren't proud of but you shouldn't have to ask for forgiven... (read in full...)
She hasn't told anyone we broke up, what does this mean?
Q. what does it mean when you split up from a parter of three years, but they havent told their parents, friends, or even changed her relationship status or pix of the two of you on FB?me and my ex gf broke up and she wants to stop talking for a little ...
A. 28 January 2011: In my opinion, it means nothing. Most people don't run around with a sign on their head telling the world that they just broke up with someone. ... (read in full...)
Am I addicted to him?
Q. I've been dating my bf for almost 6 months. I'm 19 he's 33. Eventho he works and I go to school we used to see each other once or twice a week. We used to go out to eat and we used to have sex every time I saw him. Now he has been busy and haven't ...
A. 28 January 2011: I think that you are in lust with him.
But seriously...RED FLAG- "There's time when he gets jealous or thinks I'm with someone else but I don't have eyes for no one else he became my only friend because he gets mad if I do hangout with friends.... (read in full...)
Younger husband wants to have a baby even though I am 48 with tubes tied and had major back surgery
Q. My husband is from another country he has just finally arrived in the U.S. about 10 months now, before we got married he said he wanted children, but I told him my tubes where tide and not sure if I wanted more, but I love him and I know he would be ...
A. 28 January 2011: I hate to be the one to give you a reality check but you are 48 years old! The chances of you having a child at your age are pretty LOW at best. I think that you are almost at the cut off for IVF clinics as well.
I would say that if you really w... (read in full...)
I asked for nude pictures of my ex! Was this cheating, and should I tell my girlfriend?
Q. I have a problem that I'm trying to figure out and I hope that I can get some help on here. I appreciate any and all advice. Ok, so I've been in a relationship for a little over 3 months now. It's been amazing every second. I really think that she...
A. 26 January 2011: I think that you are being WAY too hard on yourself. Granted, not sure why you felt the need to strike up a conversation with your ex in the first place but did you cheat...No.
The next time you want to get kinky make sure it is with your pre... (read in full...)
18 year old dating a 15 year old - would he get into trouble with the law?
Q. If some was 15 almost 16 and their boyfriend was 18 and their parents said that it was ok, would he get into trouble with the law?...
A. 25 January 2011: I agree with dmartin89. You can "date" but the minute that sex comes into it you are looking at statitory rape, being arrested, being labeled a sex offender etc... NOT worth it!... (read in full...)
Too much drink made me wet myself
Q. I am constantly sad. I feel alone. I have no idea why. days that I am happy are rare, maybe once a month or twice a month. I live with my boyfriend who is wonderful. I have a small group of very close friends. I have a job. I should be happy, r...
A. 25 January 2011: I totally agree that you have major signs of depression and you really do need to seek treatment for that.
As far as getting drunk and having an accident, big deal! It is crazy what I have seen when people drink too much and your is pretty t... (read in full...)
Can I get my girlfriend to "sext" me?
Q. Hello. So I joked with my girlfriend while texting the other day about sending me some pics, and she told me that's something she was just not comfortable with. I dropped the subject. I understand her concern for it, and will not press her into i...
A. 25 January 2011: Smart girl! You should NEVER send pictures via text to someone.
If you really do want to have fun, try actual "sexting" with words....it is a ton on fun and can really get a person going. I would have to say that going back and forth with som... (read in full...)
How do I know what is normal in a relationship?
Q. How do I know what is normal in a relationship? Okay, here's my question(s) but first let me say I know I'm probably being over the top and am just looking for some insight while I wait for an appointment to see a counselor to discuss this. My b...
A. 24 January 2011: I think that his actions are because of the snooping. While being mean isn't the best way to handle things, neither is snooping. It can be very irritating and so is jealously.
I thing you both need to step back and take a breath and maybe st... (read in full...)
If a guy was truly mind blowing in bed, would you try get him into bed with you just for one night?
Q. If you heard about a guy who was spectacular in bed, like he was TRULY amazing and could give you multiple intense orgasms, was great at cuddling and foreplay, would this make you flirt with him and try get him into bed with you? I mean, why no...
A. 24 January 2011: It depends on the kind of person you are. Some women would and some wouldn't. If you are younger and looking for excitement....sure why not.... (read in full...)
Should my wife be very close and open to male friends more than women?
Q. My wife is very friendly and open to male friends than women friends. She says she is more confortable with men than women. She almost talk about anything(culture, love eperiance, sexual things, men vs women behaviour etc) with her male friends may ...
A. 24 January 2011: I wouldn't be threatened by her friendships with men. Some women truely do get along better with them versus women. Being a woman I feel I CAN say this but we tend to be rather bitchy and personally, I would rather hang out with a man anyday. ... (read in full...)
He's calling me too much! How do I get him to stop?
Q. So I met this guy through a friend and He showed some interest in me. Truthfully he's not my type of a person AT ALL. but I, for the heck of it, just casually flirted with him. I don't know, but I think he took it as a signal enough to hit on me. H...
A. 21 January 2011: Just flat out tell him that you are not intersted and you don't want him calling anymore.
Sometimes people try to be too polite to not hurt peoples feelings but if they don't get the hint, brutal honesty is the best approach.... (read in full...)
I do not wish to attend my mother in law's funeral if husband's "Friend" will be there
Q. Very long and involved post so thank you very much in advance for reading. I have been married for a year but for various reasons my husband and I do not live together. This is mainly because I have a house from my previous marriage that my...
A. 21 January 2011: I personally don't think that it is your right to try and have someone excluded from a funeral, good reasons or not. A funeral is a time for people to mourn and remember the person who passed away. Everyone should have this right whether you like ... (read in full...)
I cant move on even though it has been a year and a half since my ex moved in with his mistress!
Q. Its been a year and a half since my ex moved in with his mistress. He didn't tell me about it, I found out about it. He knew I was pregnant when he left. He said he wanted to still have a relationship with me, I asked him flat out do you want to ...
A. 21 January 2011: I have a good friend who made some stupid choices and while married, had an affair and she (mistress) ended up pregnant (with twins no less). He and his wife made the decision to work it out.
Since then the mistress had the babies which are now ... (read in full...)
I cant move on even though it has been a year and a half since my ex moved in with his mistress!
Q. Its been a year and a half since my ex moved in with his mistress. He didn't tell me about it, I found out about it. He knew I was pregnant when he left. He said he wanted to still have a relationship with me, I asked him flat out do you want to ...
A. 21 January 2011: I guess I am unclear of why you are having panic attacks? Is it because he is coming back? Because you get worked up because you aren't together anymore?
First off, you are the one who chose to leave which I think was a good decision. I don't ... (read in full...)
Are first kisses important?
Q. Are first kisses important? I had mine when I was 7, and it was just a peck with a boy in my class. I now look back on it and it's a pretty cute first kiss even though there was no chemistry involved. A few months ago I got in a relationsh...
A. 20 January 2011: I don't think that you first kiss ever is really that important. Usually most people are school kids messing around on the playground.
Now this is totally personal opinion...I do however think that when you are in a relationship the kiss is every... (read in full...)
Sleeping with my friend's boyfriend!
Q. Dear Cupid I'm young girl whose feels like I'm not a true friend to my friend. First of all i don't want to be judged cause I'm only human. I've been cheating with my friend's boyfriend and no i don't have a boyfriend. The thing is this guy want...
A. 20 January 2011: Wow, starting awful young. Hope you grow a conscience soon.... (read in full...)
She's always on my mind and driving me crazy
Q. I got together with this girl early last year. I wasn’t to fussed about having a relationship at the time because I was happy how I was but she was a nice girl so I met up with her a few times and we ended up having a relationship. I could tell this ...
A. 20 January 2011: I think that that ship has sailed. You are better off moving on as she is obviously not interested.
Just because you love her doesn't mean that she does or has to love you back and from what you described she has made herself pretty clear.
... (read in full...)
My girlfriend hides texts from her "friend"!
Q. I've been with my partner for a little over a year now and we live together. She is 7 years older than I am, but all in all I would say we have a great relationship; I really love her and she tells me that she loves me all the time. However recently ...
A. 19 January 2011: Thats a tough one. In my opinion you don't want to accuse someone of cheating unless you can prove it.
Personally, I think that you are seeing warning signs and I don't think that they should be ignored.
I say go with your gut on this one.... (read in full...)
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