My girlfriend hides texts from her "friend"!
Q. I've been with my partner for a little over a year now and we live together. She is 7 years older than I am, but all in all I would say we have a great relationship; I really love her and she tells me that she loves me all the time. However recently ...
A. 19 January 2011: Thats a tough one. In my opinion you don't want to accuse someone of cheating unless you can prove it.
Personally, I think that you are seeing warning signs and I don't think that they should be ignored.
I say go with your gut on this one.... (read in full...)
Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated with me, now that I'm pregnant?
Q. I really need advice from a non judgmental view point. I had been in a relationship with this guy for the last 2 years. He is in the army and so naturally things were always kind of difficult. But now I know that he was lying to me and cheating on ...
A. 19 January 2011: I do feel for you in this situation however, I don't think that it is your right to talk to his girlfriend.
If I were you I would just wait and see how the pregnancy turns out and if things go well she will obviously find out when he has to s... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife I cheated on her with over 30 prostitutes?
Q. I'm 35, my wife 36, we have 2 kids, married for 7 years. Before our kids born we have really great relationship and have sex every day. Sine she got pregnant the first kid her interest for sex declined sharply. No matter what I tried the most we can ...
A. 19 January 2011: Really? Married for 7 years and STD testing? If my husband asked for that after 7 years, I'm pretty sure I would know what he did.
The reason you don't like your wifes male frienships is because YOU had the affair. Don't make your problems... (read in full...)
Girlfriend unsatisfied with the way life turned out for her
Q. Hi, I have been dating an older girl (by a few years) for a little over a year. She says she is very into me and that I am her world, as she is mine. From the start, my girl had a lot of baggage for me to handle, which I didn't mind at first because ...
A. 19 January 2011: First thing to remember is that the past is the past...there is nothing that she or you can do to change it so why dwell on it. Everyone has skeletons in their closets.
As for her feeling like her life hasn't measured up, that has nothing ... (read in full...)
I don't want a gay boyfriend!
Q. My mind keeps thinking back to this and I would like to know some people views on what happened. My boyfriend was drunk, I put a blindfold on him and went down to give him a blow job. Usually he is quiet but he was making a lot of noise, moving ar...
A. 14 January 2011: I don't think that you need to worry that your boyfriend is gay because of this.
I finger in the anus is actually pretty erotic and does feel good (to many). I wouldn't jump the gun to assume that this means he is going to "turn gay".
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Can you love 2 men at the same time?
Q. I've been married to a wonderful man for 3 years now and we've been together for 10. I am in love with my husband, even though he is very paranoid. He needs to call me and check up on me every now and then and this has been the case for the past 10 ...
A. 14 January 2011: I think that love and lust are two totally different things and I don't think that you really "love" this other person. But maybe you do, only you know that. When you first meet a person that you have a connection with you have the feeling of l... (read in full...)
He's asking me what I want in the bedroom and I don't know what to say!
Q. -I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. -We are very private so none of our friends know about us. -I lost my virginity to him, therefore am not very experienced in the bedroom -We are both of legal age (me 18, him 20) So we wer...
A. 14 January 2011: I understand what you are saying...given your inexperience it IS hard to think of something to say when you really don't know. I would respond with something soft like "I want you to touch me (here)" or "I want you to kiss me (there)" Ther... (read in full...)
Wondering if I should stay in this marriage?
Q. Does anyone think I should stay? Will try to keep this short. In my heart I know the answer but although I am a very strong and independant person, I am also afraid of making the wrong choice. Married 16 years with teenaged son. Husband has ...
A. 12 January 2011: If you are asking, then I think you aready know the answer...... (read in full...)
Using lubricant for sex makes me feel useless! Is there anything I can do?
Q. When me and my boyfriend have sex i feel in the moment but then i just like become unwet. it is horrible and now i feel like he is getting mad at me for it even though i cant control it. im kinda anti lube.. no clue why it just makes me feel weird. ...
A. 12 January 2011: I have actually had that problem as well. I start off really good and then dry up half way through vaginal intercourse. When that happens we stop intercourse and go back to the foreplay part.
It isn't necessarily something wrong with you, how... (read in full...)
I never imagined my affair would leave his wife!
Q. I met this man whilst he was away for 5 months on work and we were instantly drawn to each other without really speaking. When we did talk it turned out he was married with kids, although my moral stance as always been very strong on this sort of ...
A. 12 January 2011: I agree with pinktopaz. I perfer the saying "what goes around comes around" and don't be surprised if it comes back at ya.... (read in full...)
Is my wife hiding a 'dirty' side of herself from me?
Q. Hi. I'm 44, my wife is 38. We've been married for 8 years. When we were first dating, she would ask me to masturbate and to climax on her buttocks. This went on for awhile, and then went away. Now, after having two children and going through a long ...
A. 12 January 2011: So by her telling you what she likes that makes her a "dirty girl". Really? Just be happy she is telling you what she wants!... (read in full...)
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