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writes: So I met this guy through a friend and He showed some interest in me. Truthfully he's not my type of a person AT ALL. but I, for the heck of it, just casually flirted with him. I don't know, but I think he took it as a signal enough to hit on me. He's studying in another city and we spoke once or twice on the phone. But the conversations were pretty general. I don't like this guy, as in, I don't see a future with him and haven't flirted with him since that one time and most of the times I don't even pick up his calls. So technically I'm not leading him on. Many times I've told him I'm busy, hoping he'd get the hint. But he just goes on calling, so many times in a day and so MANY times at once. Frankly, its freaking me out, a lot. I thought casual flirting was very harmless but this is just so scary. To put an end to this, I really want to tell him to stop but I don't know how to, that too politely. ORAm I just over thinking this and taking it too seriously ???Just for the record, it has been on my mind for a long time and its really troubling me. HELP :( and Thanks a lot for reading :) :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): try to avoid getting yourself in tissys of sorts.wait until you know a guy better before throwing yourself at him.it will eliminate this sorta thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): Tell him straight out that you do not want anything to do with him. Don't flirt with men unless you are willing to make situatins like that for yourself.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 It can be quite scary when someone is hounding you and it's now all unwanted. Answer his next call, see what he has to say and set the record straight with him. After that the only other thing to do if he keeps ringing is to change y our number, if he becomes a nuisance you don't know him or what he could be capable of. You admitted flirting with him early on and he unfortunately for you has read all the signs wrong, mixed messages etc so it is really important to get it all out of the way for him to know you arent interested. Try to be careful next time and don't flirt with people who you really don't want to take it any further because it's a tough old world out there and we have to look after ourselves.
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reader, viccra78  +, writes (21 January 2011):
Just flat out tell him that you are not intersted and you don't want him calling anymore.
Sometimes people try to be too polite to not hurt peoples feelings but if they don't get the hint, brutal honesty is the best approach.
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reader, cry +, writes (21 January 2011):
 tell him your not interested.quit building him up like he has a chance. thats mean. and you dont have to be rude about it . do get it over with and get on with your life............................................
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