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writes:Hello. So I joked with my girlfriend while texting the other day about sending me some pics, and she told me that's something she was just not comfortable with. I dropped the subject.I understand her concern for it, and will not press her into it, but I wish she would as it could be a lot of fun. I love her and would never show anyone else a single pic.So it's no big deal if I have to drop it and leave that alone, as she clearly does not want it. But I was just wondering if anyone knows anything I could say to make her feel more comfortable with it.Like I said, a bit of a non-issue, but if anyone has any tips that don't involve pressuring her into anything that'd be great! :)
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reader, leon white  +, writes (2 June 2013):
hey. my girlfriends have sexted me multiple times in the past and although i greatly enjoy this, i do not believe that you should pressure her or nag about it. i didnt have these problems because my girls sent me the pics without me asking but be patient and do not be a douche about it or else she may leave you.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 hi
you love her now and won't show the pictures but she has no guarantee that you will always feel this way, so she doesn't want to send you pics. that is fair enough. accept it.
and what if your phone gets lost or stolen??
in the future you might meet a girl who will agree to do this for you. would you be a bit worried that she has done it before and you won't know who is walking around with pictures of your girlfriends 'bits' on their phones?
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reader, viccra78 +, writes (25 January 2011):
Smart girl! You should NEVER send pictures via text to someone.
If you really do want to have fun, try actual "sexting" with words....it is a ton on fun and can really get a person going. I would have to say that going back and forth with someone about what you want to do with them or to them or them to you is way more exciting than a picture anyways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): I agree with the the predecessors. If the relationship works you'll probably have sex or at least petting so that you'll see her body. Sending that kind of photos isn't quite natural. She's smart. Anyway there are two options. Either you chat with her while shes drunk or you just wait for sex. Sorry but that question is'nt smart cause you're just asking for tips how to make your girlfriend sent you "saucy" pics of her.
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reader, Dataluke +, writes (25 January 2011):
 She is smart, there are hundreds of stories of these pictures being spread on the net and she and the other women on here have every right to be concerned.
You can't say anything to change her mind but you can do some things that could sway her.
Wait a bit longer. The longer your in a relationship the more trusting it will be and the more open to the idea she will be.
Also, but this one can go either way, you could send her a picture, telling her its a gift for her to keep. If she sees your willing to trust her with a picture of you she maybe more willing to send you one. But she may not see it that way.
All the best, Dataluke
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (25 January 2011):
 You have a smart girlfriend, she is a keeper. I'm not sure sure she has a smart boyfriend though .... "it's a non issue but I'd still like tips" .... sure its a non issue, if it was a non issue you would not be here looking for tips on how to change her mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): Yes leave it alone. Us girls have all heard the horror stories of sending current boyfriends at the time pictures. Your girl is very smart and mature
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