Would you be offended if a guy you were dating joked you are a cheap date?
Q. I was seeing someone, everything was going well but it recently fizzled out and she decided she just wants to be friends. I've been wracking my brains trying to remember if I did or said anything wrong and all I can think of is a time when we were ...
A. 30 May 2013: It's ok if there isn't someone to focus on but u said something that warrants mentioning. U said u cling to an opportunity when u see it. NEVER cling! The most powerful people in a relationship are the ones who have the aboty to walk away without ... (read in full...)
Would you be offended if a guy you were dating joked you are a cheap date?
Q. I was seeing someone, everything was going well but it recently fizzled out and she decided she just wants to be friends. I've been wracking my brains trying to remember if I did or said anything wrong and all I can think of is a time when we were ...
A. 26 May 2013: people are very forgiving of coments if they are into someone. I wouldn't stay close friends if you still like her though. She will just start telling you about her dates and that will feel real great. focus on another girl... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend cheating or am I just being paranoid, please help my hearts breaking
Q. Hi, Well this is abit mad but I need some advise, Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months now and I cant help it but I just keep thinking hes cheating on me since one day he was at work and called me and said he has to go back to ...
A. 26 May 2013: that is a shady and not very good story. I would simply talk to the girl on FB and ask if she has been seeing your man. Ask her why he tried to call her and you may find that her made up story doesn't match his or you may find that she says "he has ... (read in full...)
He's going through a divorce. Am I just his little secret?
Q. I've recently become involved with someone who lives in my block of apartments. I've known him for 4 years but he was married. They separated 3 months ago and are going through a divorce. We have become very friendly, always texting, popping over to ...
A. 26 May 2013: GET OUT NOW!!! you can stay his friend but tell him that you only want sex with someone who is dating you and treating you like a girlfriend and if he can't do that now or ever then he needs to be moved to the friend zone... (read in full...)
Do you think rejection hurts worse than being cheated on?
Q. I understand rejection happens to all of us at some point, but damn I've been rejected twice in the past two months for the first time in my life. I'm trying to reevaluate where I might have messed up, or maybe it's not something I did, it's just me ...
A. 25 May 2013: don't buy a guy expensive gifts until its serious. I know a guy i kinda like and it was his birthday.I bought him a beer at his party. that is appropriate for the situation.I have spent very little time with him and he has lots of female friends and ... (read in full...)
A dating question: Can it work when one person has a career and the other what they consider 'an everyday job'?
Q. Hi I've been single for 16 months now. I've had a few dates, a few casual flings and I'm ready for a serious relationship. I met a guy online a few weeks ago. He's 8 years younger than me, intelligent, funny and we get on really well. In fact I g...
A. 2 April 2013: Hmmm...he sounds like he is either intimidated by your career (pathetic) or that he is a bit "needy". Needy guys can be worse than needy girls. Tread carefully... (read in full...)
Had an amazing date with my friend but now haven't heard from him for a week. Was he making excuses when he cancelled another date? We are both in relationships with other people.
Q. Hi I have this friend L, we to talk to each other/hang out with friends etc. Nothing ever happened as he has a gf and I have a bf and he was moving to another country. However, we were both unhappy with our relationships and we do talk to each oth...
A. 20 March 2013: men have an uncanny ability to have this amazing chemistry with women they don't want in the long run. It is now like us. Most women don't have a 13 hour date with a guy they are not into, nor do they meet with them again unless the guy has accepted ... (read in full...)
How can I break it to my friend that the magic is gone?
Q. One of my best friends and I recently decided that there might be some kind of chemistry between us... We decided to go on a real date and see where things went... The date was awful. It was awkward and we had nothing to talk about. I'm not s...
A. 20 March 2013: tell him now there will be nothing more that friendship. It is better to do it right after the first date. No confusion... (read in full...)
Do you think she is avoiding me? It seems like a lot if effort and very silly in my opinion.
Q. I ended things with a girl ages ago, it wasn't the best break up and I will be honest I didn't go about it the right way at all, I was kind of a coward and a careless asshole. But it has been well over a month since i have seen her, it's sad i ...
A. 20 March 2013: Tell you what. let some girl who you are into dump you. Then see how much fun it is to see her fixed up and out with friends and happy when you were left to the dust. The dumper never feels the pain of the person being dumped. Their pain com... (read in full...)
He dumped me at the club over the weekend after 5 months. Now he wants to be friends. What's going on?
Q. My boyfriend, 27, dumped me outside a club at 4am at the weekend. He said although he really liked me, after 5 months dating had realised he did not love me. To begin with though he said ' I was such an idiot earlier... before saying this. He w...
A. 20 March 2013: I had this done to me recently and he displayed EVERY sign of being into me and thinking I was the most beautiful girl in the world. Then he said that he didn't see it going anywhere out of the blue on the phone. He had made future plans with me ... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from him in a few weeks. Does that mean he wasn't interested?
Q. I met someone a few months ago. He is a lot older than me (15 years) and when I met him he was just finishing a relationship and we had a few dates. We spent the night together a few weeks ago but he wasn't sure about it because of just coming out ...
A. 20 March 2013: he slept with and was immediately unsure? no contact? let that piece of garbage go. We all get duped but the best we can do is not chase or show that we are bothered. In the end, all we have is our dignity and in the long run, it is much more ... (read in full...)
Is he inerested? Does he like me? Should I ask him out for our second date?
Q. I went out on a date with a guy, the date went really well. We talked, laughed, he told me I looked nice, and at the end of the date we hugged and he told me we should definitely hangout again. I didn't want him to feel as if he had to be the on...
A. 20 March 2013: don't initiate dates with men. I know what feminism will teach and i'm sure that crap works great in theory. so does communism. If you intiate the date then how will you now if he would have on his own. It makes you appear desperate and easy to get. ... (read in full...)
I don't like him but I don't want to hurt him by breaking up
Q. ok so i been dating this boy for 2 weeks and i feel so embarrssed like everyone says im to pretty for him and that he is ugly and stuff and i just feel sad and im not attracted to him either and he is in love with me and im afraid if i break up with ...
A. 20 March 2013: why did you even date him if you were not attracted to him. You have to have attraction to even start to date or it is doomed. Attraction comes in many forms though. It isn't always an abercrombie face on a MMA body. However, if there is no initial ... (read in full...)
It seemed like he liked me. But then nothing? How can I shake off these feelings I developed for him?
Q. I really don't know how to explain my situation. Okay, this guy and I have been friends about three months and I went down there to see my sister and this guy and I hooked up at the party she threw. He had spent the night with me and one thing le...
A. 20 March 2013: gang members? got high? sorry but I can't even see why you would like him at all. He is a loser. Why do losers break so many hearts?... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin. But due to my thoughts I'm worried that I might be becoming a sex addict. Should I be concerned?
Q. Im 17 I'm a junior in high school and I have a problem. My prob is I think I might be a sex addict....so here's the catch: I'm still a virgin. I have never gone farther than making out and even that I have only done that two times. Both with t...
A. 20 March 2013: first off.......i hate to say this.......but your first time will most likely suck. It will cause a flow of emotions also that you need to be prepared for and you certainly don't want to do that with just anybody It will not live up to your fan... (read in full...)
Is it true that if you've been hurt in a relationship you shouldn't compare others to your bad experience?
Q. I wont bother telling you the background of me and the girl I was dating for just about 3 months, I'm just interested by her comment and wanted to know what you guys can make of it... My best friend saw her last night and said he spoke to her and...
A. 20 March 2013: It sounds like you broke up with a girl out of fear she would do something someone else did in your past. Yeah...that is a problem and its all your problem. If I gave up on dating and guys because they might do what some other guy did, I would have ... (read in full...)
I need help overcoming my addiction to prostitutes
Q. Hi I've been seeing prostitutes for 15 years. It started off out of boredom. I have always had a strong sexual appetite, I started masturbating from a young age. Every time I use a prostitute I beat myself up about it. At first I had protecte...
A. 20 March 2013: STD's can fix your addiction. Why don't you just watch a little porn, and then please yourself. No dangers there... (read in full...)
Asked a girl out said she's seeing someone else should I go for it anyways?
Q. Got this girls number had previously meet her and already decided that i liked her. Been texting a little bit asked her out on a date and she said she might be seeing someone else. I dont think their in a relationship just been out on a date. can i ...
A. 20 March 2013: i think you should be more worried about the phrase "I might be seeing someone" one day she might tell a another guy that she "might" be seeing you. She is shady. I would have said either "I have started dating someone but am not exclusive yet" or ... (read in full...)
The 4.5 year boring boyfriend or the exciting new guy
Q. Hello, (Sorry, this is a long one, but I feel that each factor is important) I'm 20 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. We are currently in our 3rd year of university. Anyways, last Summer I spent 3 months of it in my home ...
A. 20 March 2013: Live life first. I want you to know that it is possible someone will do this to you too one day, so if you are willing to drop the comfortable shoe for the heels then make sure you can cope, if it happens to you. ... (read in full...)
A girl sent my boyfriend naked pics, what should I do?
Q. Hello everyone. My boyfriend and I have a really close relationship and we're always honest about everything. Well, this past weekend my boyfriend let me know that a girl sent him some naked pictures of herself. Which honestly I wasn't too shocked ...
A. 20 March 2013: No, he can't talk to her?! what is she just a "friend". I don't send naked pics of myself to friends. seriously. she is fishing hard and pathetically. I may have mad mistakes sending pics of me but it was always and only to someone i was in a rel... (read in full...)
I'm really falling for him again, but the problem is that he is still with his girlfriend.
Q. Hi! So this is a very long story about and old crush. In 2009 I met this guy and I totally crushed on him for about 2 years in total. I never told him how I felt, but we were both really great friends. He once asked me out but I took at as a j...
A. 20 March 2013: he deletes the conversations? what if you were her? you know if all us women stopped flirting and getting involved with guys who have girlfriends and wives then cheating would end. Keep your conversations on a friend level and don't talk for hours. ... (read in full...)
Should I completely drop it or is it possible that he will come around?
Q. hey everyone... well this is very short and i honestly want to know your honest opinions and what you guys think.. anyways I have this guy friend who I have been talking to for a while.. we met in the begining of the school year in August an...
A. 20 March 2013: If i could go back to the 18-21 year range I wouldn't even care about what guys thought cause my youth is ahead of me. I would tell this guy to pound sand. He doesn't display any signs of someone who actually cares that he is bothering you with is ... (read in full...)
He gave me the boot with a cliche break up line, why?
Q. Hi friends! I just got broken up with by guy I've known for almost 2yrs. We have been together for only about 6mths. I told him I had feelings for him then got the kiss of death email. He wrote this: "I think your sweet too nice and too cool of a ...
A. 20 March 2013: well I'm not going to be as mean as cerberus here but I think it is definately a case of "not into you" I had a guy display ALL the signs of being into me including meeting friends, candles, dancing and when i felt comfortable, I was called up and ... (read in full...)
I don't feel my boyfriend is completely open with me and I can't fully trust him. How do I get him to open up?
Q. If you are single or married to a business man please help with this concern of mine. First let me tell you all I have some trust issues that developed earlier on with how my father was with my mom. My mom trusted my dad and when he was out on h...
A. 19 March 2013: There is being private and there is being deceptive. I'm not sure it is just being private here. As far as the stripper comment,that was not a big deal and for him to start complimenting her to you is out of line. I would have just said "this is so ... (read in full...)
Army girlfriend problems...should I stay or should I go?
Q. H everyone! So I'm dating someone in the army for almost a year although we've known each other for years. He's based in Hawaii while I live in Illinois. We're vey much in love and I know this is the man I'm going to marry. He has three years left ...
A. 19 March 2013: RISK is a hell of a thing. Go= chance at love and new life but risks losing career and romance not working out which leaves you as the one screwed over Stay= career is fine and life stable but possibly ruining chance at real love Life is a s... (read in full...)
Is our relationship breaking apart? I am questioning whether he loves me anymore.
Q. Hi everyone, I have been with my fiance for almost 3 years now and things have been very bad for almost 2 years. The first year of our relationship was amazing but now it is nearly 2 years of him not treating me right and then apologising and ...
A. 19 March 2013: Ok........he sounds like a narcissist sociopath. This will never improve. I am sooooooooooooo sorry but I dealt with a guy once that was prince charming the first year and a monster after that. He did much of the same things you mention except i ... (read in full...)
If he lost interest, why is looking at my Facebook pics?
Q. A guy I have been seeing has stopped contacting me. I don't know what happened but it started after relationship got physical even though that was great so I know it's not a lack of chemistry there. . I'm not looking for a "u gotta hold out longer" ...
A. 27 December 2012: ha ok ok but it just hit me offf guard and the facebook thing was just confusing. I unsubscribed to him so I won't see anything he does and I don't care anymore what he looks at. He can suck it lol... (read in full...)
If he lost interest, why is looking at my Facebook pics?
Q. A guy I have been seeing has stopped contacting me. I don't know what happened but it started after relationship got physical even though that was great so I know it's not a lack of chemistry there. . I'm not looking for a "u gotta hold out longer" ...
A. 24 December 2012: Wow u all are sensitive. I saw all of your "he doesn't like u or give a crap about u answers" I even believe them, but the only male who answered said something that didn't make me feel like crap so I thanked him. I already feel like crap for ... (read in full...)
If he lost interest, why is looking at my Facebook pics?
Q. A guy I have been seeing has stopped contacting me. I don't know what happened but it started after relationship got physical even though that was great so I know it's not a lack of chemistry there. . I'm not looking for a "u gotta hold out longer" ...
A. 20 December 2012: Kenny- u are the only male who answered so thanks. I think my pics prob show in his newsfeed as I see lots of friends stuff in my newsfeed. Would u click like on the pics if u didn't like her anymore? I get the feeling he is trying to leave the door ... (read in full...)
What did my girlfriend mean by this text message?
Q. My gf sent me this text and idk what she's getting at I'm a bit afraid to ask her because I get a bad vibe from reading it here's the text "Tummy, I don't want you to feel obligated to tolerate me ok? We aren't bound to eachother... Ok? o.o" oh she ...
A. 20 December 2012: that sounds like she wants out but is doing the "you are so much better off without me" as it removes some guilt from her. It is better than her just disappearing as a lot of other people do. You cannot control what she does but you can control your ... (read in full...)
Why did he wait 2 weeks after our date to contact me?
Q. I'm confused by this guy. We met up for one date and I would describe it as only ok but we are both shy so I put it down to that and was willing to meet up another time. So we arranged a date a few days later but he cancelled last minute, I sent him ...
A. 20 December 2012: Just go and expect nothing. Never expect anything to come from any date until a guy says he wants to date you and you to be his girlfriend. Unless you are not interested anymore then don't go cause it would be akward... (read in full...)
My best friend has ditched me for a girl
Q. So I don't see many guys emailing with this problem so here goes. I've recently come extremely distant from my best mate. In fact alot of people "we" know don't even see him anymore. Since hes got this new gf hes changed so much and he doesn't seem ...
A. 20 December 2012: Don't try and force him not to see her. You will never win this. THe spending every second together eventually ends when the honey moon phase ends and he will be seeing you all again. He may even split from her in the future and apologize for ... (read in full...)
My crush hasn't responded to me on facebook. Do I give up?
Q. I have a crush on my PE classmate that I only meet every Monday and I think he likes me because he shows lot of signs (like always looking at me and when I look back, he looks away, always near me, saw him talking to a friend while looking at me). I ...
A. 20 December 2012: yeah i figured as much. not everyone cares about facebook :)
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He's happily married and I have a bf. So why is this older guy flirting with me at work?
Q. Hey, so this one is probably easy enough to answer, I think. There is this guy at work who seems to have taken a liking to me, he often touches my hands,my back and compliments what I wear and how I look. Now I understand there is flirting at w...
A. 18 December 2012: He is trying to hit on you.
He is a douche bag.
Just think about his poor wife and go home and hug your boyfriend. ... (read in full...)
Can you really just be friends with someone you still love and will probably love for a long time?
Q. My ex and I broke up 2 weeks ago after being together for 2 years. We were each other's first serious loves and relationship. We both agree and know we're not right for each other as the people we are right now, but we still love each other very ...
A. 17 December 2012: if you just love each other as people than try for friendship but if you or he is still "in love" then do NOT do this. It will cause horrible pain that is unnecessary. No contact will solve this but only if you two really know you are not right for ... (read in full...)
Our sex drives are out of sync. All since we moved in together. What can help resolve this situation?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months and we moved in together fairly early at the beginning of the relationship. He used to live with his parents and everytime we spend the night together we would always have sex. Since mo...
A. 17 December 2012: Actually i had a boyfriend with this issue once. His was cause by medication. It bothered him badly and I'm sure it bothers your boyfriend. He tries to distract you because he feels inadequate and men want to feel like they can bang all the time. I ... (read in full...)
I had my sexual experience with my boyfriend. Yet he refuses to believe it was my first time. What can I do?
Q. hi everyone, just want to ask some advice or help regarding my own issue. i had my first sexual experience with my boyfriend. At first it was uncomfortable but eventually i became relaxed. I didn't bleed nor feel the pain as they say for the firs...
A. 17 December 2012: What a friggin jerk. Maybe you feel looser cause he has a small D!ck. If he doesn't believe you than he is insecure and that is his problem and insecurity will cause him problems his whole life but it doesn't have to cause you problems. Next t... (read in full...)
She doesn't feel the same - What do I do?
Q. Hi, There's this girl I really like and she doesn't feel the same way what should I do?...
A. 17 December 2012: Nothing.
There is nothing that you can do.
It is possible for people to change their minds but not when you are trying to get them to.People always see through sad attempts to force attraction. It doesn't work. There are many girls who will lik... (read in full...)
In your own opinion does her behaviour and reactions define her as an easygirl?
Q. i have been dating this girl for a while but i know very little of her sexual experience. she claims she has had only one serious boyfriend but dated other people. after my second date with her i was perfoming oral on her but she did not let me h...
A. 17 December 2012: Don't do sexual stuff with a girl and then think she is easy. LAME. you are doing sexual stuff so are you easy. You think cause you are a guy that it is ok but girls are supposed to pure white as snow virgins. Give me a break. Where do you think ... (read in full...)
My crush hasn't responded to me on facebook. Do I give up?
Q. I have a crush on my PE classmate that I only meet every Monday and I think he likes me because he shows lot of signs (like always looking at me and when I look back, he looks away, always near me, saw him talking to a friend while looking at me). I ...
A. 17 December 2012: Thank You doesn't always require a your welcome. I have said thanks to people and never expected a reply. Also guys don't really do the your welcome to each other. They also don't thank each other for FB adds. Guys are direct. It would be better to ... (read in full...)
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