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If he lost interest, why is looking at my Facebook pics?

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Question - (20 December 2012) 11 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2012)
A female United States age 41-50, *ed591 writes:

A guy I have been seeing has stopped contacting me. I don't know what happened but it started after relationship got physical even though that was great so I know it's not a lack of chemistry there. . I'm not looking for a "u gotta hold out longer" lecture but why the heck is he on my Facebook page liking all my recent pics. I didn't try and call or text him to find out why he lost interest, I just took the hint from the lack of communication. Why is he even looking at my pics. They are all pics from things I have been doing since he stopped calling about a week ago. I guess he'll eventually lose interest in doing that too lol

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (28 December 2012):

Honeypie agony auntThat's the attitude!

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A female reader, Red591 United States +, writes (27 December 2012):

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Red591 agony auntha ok ok but it just hit me offf guard and the facebook thing was just confusing. I unsubscribed to him so I won't see anything he does and I don't care anymore what he looks at. He can suck it lol

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (24 December 2012):

Honeypie agony auntDon't feel like crap over this guy. If he isn't MAN enough to tell you he isn't interested, yet he stalks your Facebook pictures, he isn't worth worrying about - I think that was more the point people were trying to say.

I would just block him from your picture, so he can go stalk someone else on Facebook and you can find a decent fella.

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A female reader, Red591 United States +, writes (24 December 2012):

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Red591 agony auntWow u all are sensitive. I saw all of your "he doesn't like u or give a crap about u answers" I even believe them, but the only male who answered said something that didn't make me feel like crap so I thanked him. I already feel like crap for falling for his incessant chasing so I was just surprised that the guy that answered said something that have me a little confidence back.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (21 December 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntThe only person that told you he still might like you is the only person you wanted to hear..

I look at pictures of ex partners all the time and i might even like them but it does not mean I want them back.

I sense you want that ego stroke of him wanting you but you not giving in.

block him so he can't see it and move on.

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A female reader, Ciar Canada +, writes (21 December 2012):

Ciar agony auntOthers took the time to answer your question as well, but the only one who gets any acknowledgement is the one guy who answered. Gee, that's not rude at all.

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A female reader, Red591 United States +, writes (20 December 2012):

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Red591 agony auntKenny- u are the only male who answered so thanks. I think my pics prob show in his newsfeed as I see lots of friends stuff in my newsfeed. Would u click like on the pics if u didn't like her anymore? I get the feeling he is trying to leave the door open but I won't cave and call him or text. He knows I was interested as he claimed to be so ill just move on. It is just weird to me because if I lost interest in someone, I would not like their photos. I would ignore their photos.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (20 December 2012):

Honeypie agony auntEh, just block him and set your privacy setting for your pictures to friends only ( and de-friend him)

I would venture a guess that he was just surfing around and looked at your pictures, no hidden agenda.

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A female reader, Ciar Canada +, writes (20 December 2012):

Ciar agony auntThis is what 'not a big deal' looks like.

Think of tv shows you watch but don't have a strong feelings for one way or another. They're ok. You might watch them from time to time, or every day for two weeks and not again for a year. There is no set pattern. Just when the mood strikes.

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A female reader, Dear Mandy United Kingdom +, writes (20 December 2012):

Dear Mandy agony auntHI

It could may well be that he is already in a relationship, and as you both got physical it brought it to reality to him and he now regrets it. Yet he still likes you which is why he looks on your page and at your photos.....Or it could be that he didn't enjoy the physical side of things with you but still likes you....it could be many reasons so unless you actually ask him why he stopped contact yet still goes on your FB and likes your pictures you will never know. This way you have your answers and can move on. If it bothers you that he does this block him!!

Mandy x

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (20 December 2012):

kenny agony auntHe obviously still likes you, otherwise it would not even be on his mind to go looking at your recent pics. I think he is going on there looking at them to try to find out if you are with someone else or not. Not sure why the lack of communication, maybe he is playing hard to get, or for some reason he thinks you lost interest in him. But i know if it were me, the only reason i would go onto a girls facebook page and have a look at her recent pics is if i still had a thing for her. If was not keen on a girl and lost interest she would not even be on my radar.

Good luck

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