She's got a girlfriend but I'm attracted to her. Should I go for it?
Q. ok I haven't known her very long, I've only been at university a couple of weeks, but I quite like her. I'm a lesbian btw. I first saw her a couple of times while waiting for inductions on my course. She stood on her own, me with my flatmates and...
A. 29 September 2011: If you really do like her, you should get to know her as a person more. Like you said, she has a girlfriend so you should respect that. But there's no harm in getting to know someone.. From that, you never know what could happen. ... (read in full...)
My mother said she didn't approve of my friends but hasn't explained why
Q. I have a lot of different groups of friends. But, there's one group (my boy and his family) that my mom doesn't really like, because of where they come from and the things shes heard them say (which is really no different from any other obscene ...
A. 27 November 2010: i definitely just read my words. nowhere did i see im on a road to nowhere. im not even sure how you could get all that out of this. Ammmm i on a road to nowhere because smoke and have had sex? damn.. god forbid i smoke and be with my boyfriend.. ... (read in full...)
After a yeast infection I get a burning sensation during sex!
Q. So, I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. About a month ago, I had to go in for a pap test and my doctor said I had a yeast infection. He gave me pills and creme for it and It healed up and my itching, burning, etc. ...
A. 8 September 2010: you should pee after you have sex. it helps to not get other infections like a UTI, which is what you may have as well. or it could be another symptom of your current infection. but, your best bet would be to ask a doctor how to fix your problem if ... (read in full...)
We broke up, but he still gets angry when I talk to other guys!
Q. okay... I'm just really confused. So my boyfriend broke it off a bit ago but we still talk and stuff and it sort of seems like we'd still be dating... Sometimes I talk to other guys (why shouldn't I?) but when I do and he finds out, he gets ups...
A. 20 June 2010: I'm not really attached to thinking he'll come back to me. He wants to do what he wants soooo why not let him? That way I can do what I want. But when that happens he acts like the world has ended. It's just really wishy washy. one days it's this ... (read in full...)
How can I move on and stop loving him?
Q. I'm really hoping people can give me some insight on this because I'm beyond hurt right now. I dated a guy I'll call Sam for about a year and a half. We broke up but acted like we still were together. I went away to college and he told me he wanted ...
A. 19 June 2010: Don't be hurt! BE ANGRY! Look at what he did to you! don't focus on the good stuff he did focus on the big lie he created. I've heard that in bad ending relationships where people were angry, they've gotten over the person quicker than being sad ... (read in full...)
She kissed another guy
Q. my gf and i have been dating for 16 months and she met his guy a few days ago a her summer theatre thing an now he wont stop bgging her about a kiss and a couple days ago he stared tuching her like on the waist and butt and this pissed me off. i ...
A. 19 June 2010: Only you can decided whether to break up or give her another chance. But like you said this isn't the first time she's been deceitful. You have to decide whether giving her another chance is worth the hurt she might possibly cause you in the future. ... (read in full...)
She cheated and is unappreciative and I don't want to leave her because she's pregnant.
Q. Hi everyone! Let me thank you first for reading this topic ,all your advice is really appriciated ! I am in a quite difficult situation now, my girlfriend is pregnant ,but our relationship has been really hard for me ,since this was my f...
A. 26 January 2010: My mom always says, if a person shows you who they are... believe them. She's showing you over and over what kind of person she is... You're wasting your time when you keep taking her back. She's completely using you while you try your best to keep ... (read in full...)
A little blood..too much sex? Sex too hard?
Q. Okay so here's the issue, today is November 24th. On the 22nd (2 days ago) When I went to the restroom I noticed a little blood on the toilet paper [sorry TMI], it was a bright red I believe, but it never came out enough to make me need pad, all ...
A. 24 November 2009: It wasn't your period... It may just mean you tore something. It's not uncommon so don't be worried. If you're scared to go to the doctor about these types of things then I suggest you try a place like planned parenthood. They wouldn't tell you... (read in full...)
Why would she still want to be friends after we broke up?
Q. Hey, i just got out of a relationship about 3 1/2 months ago and just talked to my ex today. it was casual and she told me about her new boyfriend. It didnt really bother me as much as i thought until she said that she was completely over me. i was ...
A. 18 November 2009: Sometimes it seems like you shouldn't be over someone that quickly. But then again, we're all different, so it's not gonna take us all say 6 months to get over someone. So, if she has a new boyfriend and she says she's over you... Well, she probably ... (read in full...)
I don't know if she has a boyfriend. Should I ask her or her best friend?
Q. I like this girl who ive talked to a handful of times but shes never mentioned a boyfriend but i still dont know for sure if she does or not, her best friend goes to the gym i go to and i see her almost everyday, should i ask her friend if shes ...
A. 16 November 2009: If you ask her best friend if she's single... YES, it will definitely get back to her- girls love to gossip!, so you might at well do it yourself. You have nothing to lose if you do ask her so just go for it! Just be casual about it. It's a common ... (read in full...)
Should I give up my virginity?
Q. hi, basically im 15, and im seeing a guy and hes very open about sex and hes not a virgin. i am and hes kind of asked about if i would and i kind of want to but am really like nervous about it all and how its all going to work lol. theres no poin...
A. 16 November 2009: I personally think you're too young. just because you've got a boyfriend and whatnot doesn't mean you have to have sex with them. Having sex at the wrong age causes a lot of problems and maybe even regret. I think you should wait until you gain a ... (read in full...)
Hmmm...is he interested or not?
Q. i have known this one guy for about two months. he and i go to the same college. I took the iniative and have been texxting him for a while now. Two days ago, he decided to stop texting and called me directly instead. I like him from the start and ...
A. 19 October 2009: From the looks of it. And with a males input (the guy above me) I'm also pretty sure he likes you. But the only way to really find out is just ask him! There's nothing to lose! If he likes you, awesome, but if he doesn't, it's not the end of the ... (read in full...)
I'm heartbroken. I feel lonely, forgotten, unloved, sad...
Q. Well, I've only been dating this guy for less than a month (today would have been a month, sigh) and we're still teenagers. He's three years older than I am. Well, the age didn't affect us at all, we were the perfect little teenage couple everyone ...
A. 18 August 2009: I don't mean to be harsh but, you're telling yourself a whole lot of stories here, which is the sole purpose of your suffering. Our minds like to work against us at times, you see, and you're allowing that part get to the best of you. All thes... (read in full...)
Why does he only love me when I walk away?
Q. I've been on a rollercoaster with my boyfriend of 16 for the past nine months. We've had our highs and lows, happy moments and definatley the sad.. Sorry this is long.. but bear with me. Our relationship started out long distant, phone calls we...
A. 17 August 2009: First things first, you're right, he's not going to change unless HE wants to, and with that you CANNOT make him love you. At this point you're in an unhealthy relationship with this guy which seems to be causing you both a lot of turmoil. You ... (read in full...)
Was I his rebound girl?
Q. I contacted my ex boyfriend who recently had a terrible breakup with his girlfriend who he had after me. He broke up with me because of her and they were togetehr for about 7 months. I have always wanted to get back together with him - we were ...
A. 22 June 2009: Yeah, it sound like you were a rebound. One thing you don't want to do is sleep with someone who JUST got of a relationship. It would probably be best if you just gave him his space and you also have your space. And, the best thing for you to do ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend pushing me away because he is joining the Air Force?
Q. I'm not really sure what to do about my boyfriend of over 2 years. Were both young, I'm 17 and he's a few months younger. To begin with, we were ace, we'd been best friends always, and although I had a bit of a rocky past, he took me regardless an...
A. 22 June 2009: I think I've concluded with everything you've said in your follow up this this is in fact BIG RED FLAGS for an abusive relationship. I know it's tough to leave someone because you love them. But, enough is enough already! Leave him! The way he ... (read in full...)
My scary dreams!
Q. hi.. well im 17, ive been with my boyfriend now for 7 weeks! not long i know.. and we havent slept together. we're both virgins.. he's 20.. but recently ive started having scary dreams, ive had about 6 now. im pregnant in them and im living as if ...
A. 7 June 2009: just because you're pregnant in your dreams doesn't mean you want to be in real life. Although it does have to do with something your subconscious mind is trying to connect with how you're feeling. find a dream dictionary online or in a library ... (read in full...)
Do stretch marks turn a guy off?
Q. ok one for all the hot and sexy dudes out there. im a good looking girl blah blah blah but i have a few strech marks on my hips, nothing major just a few. I read that 75% of men think its a turn off? is that true?. I also have a biggish labia an...
A. 30 May 2009: I know you said only guys respond but, I strongly suggest SHEA BUTTER for stretch marks/scars ect. it works really well and fades them.... (read in full...)
Please help me understand her...
Q. This girl and I are fairly close... well, really close. We have never been boyfriend and girlfriend, but we have kissed and we exchange "I love you"s a lot. The things I don't understand: 1. She said she loves me and likes me, but she doesn't...
A. 30 May 2009: 1. "I want to be with you because of the things you do, not just because." What the hell does that mean? Being girl myself (according to the quote) it looks like it means that she wants to be with you because of the way you are/act you know... some ... (read in full...)
Trust issues/Long distance relationships/How to ask her to stop getting drunk so often
Q. Ok, basically im in a long distance relationship, we have been together 5 months now, and i feel she is the one and know that she feels the same Basically recently she has changed which group of people she hangs out with and this new group goes o...
A. 30 May 2009: Well, partying with her friends once every week seems pretty reasonable for a teen. At least she's not doing it for the whole weekend or something.
Basically there is no way for you to tell her to stop going to parties and getting drunk and what... (read in full...)
Can you maintain a healthy friendship with someone you are in love with?
Q. Can you maintain a healthy friendship with someone you are in love with? What about when you know they are not in love with you? ...
A. 30 May 2009: Of course you can! Well if you feel you can maintain the friendship. It's all up to you. some people may feel it's too hard, others may not because they'd rather be friends with someone they're in love with than not have that person in their life ... (read in full...)
Depressed and in an abusive relationship, what should I do?
Q. Hello Before i start i want to just say this is a long one so please read carefully. Ok so here goes me and my partner met in august 2006 and in december 2006 we split because my bf was so controlling he didnt like me talking to other guys an...
A. 3 May 2009: You're depressed and he's not treating you right. With that, you should have your answer. You need to leave him have nothing to do wit him. What's best for you right now is needs to be in the best interest of your daughter as well. This isn't a ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend pushing me away because he is joining the Air Force?
Q. I'm not really sure what to do about my boyfriend of over 2 years. Were both young, I'm 17 and he's a few months younger. To begin with, we were ace, we'd been best friends always, and although I had a bit of a rocky past, he took me regardless an...
A. 3 May 2009: To be completely honest that relationship sounds completely toxic. It sounds like he's becoming abusive. If he's nervous about going into the Air Force he doesn't have a great way of showing it. Maybe you should try asking him what's up? In my ... (read in full...)
I want to liven it up!
Q. i'm 13 and currently in a relationship for about for months, i love her and she loves me. is there anyway to move my relationship on or liven it up??? as it has got a bit boring, btw she is a bit shy but mostly not. look forward to your feedback...
A. 13 April 2009: My suggestion is if you hang out with her on a daily basis stop. It's always way more fun seeing your boyfriend or girlfriend for the first time after it's been a couple days. When you guys hang out go somewhere have fun! I'm not going to sugge... (read in full...)
I don't know if I even stand a chance with him!
Q. There's this boy that i really like. Hes so cute and we have a lot in common, we like the same music that know one else in our school really knows about and dress in the same unique style. He wears the tight pants has a lip ring and band shirts and ...
A. 13 April 2009: Just keep trying to get closer with him. The more you learn about him the more confident you'll feel about him. Maybe you're one of those girls he CAN act serious and be nervous with. Just get to know him. Be yourself around him! That's all you C... (read in full...)
After hateful texts messages, she wants to be "friends"...?
Q. My former best friend, turned girlfriend of 3 months dumped me two months ago. Since then we haven't spoken and have just engaged in nasty text message arguments saying we hate each other. Now she seems to want to be my friend again. I quite miss ...
A. 13 April 2009: Quite simply, I think you should do what you think is best and feels right... ... (read in full...)
I really can't cope with the constant rejection!
Q. Hi everybody. My problem is this, I am in love with a girl who is also my best friend. We are pretty much like a married couple and even refer to each other as husband and wife, i've never told her because I really don't know how she feels back. ...
A. 13 April 2009: Hmm, if she's insulting you when people make comments, and she treats you badly in public that maybe a sign that you may not be the best couple (if you were one). Why would she disrespect you in public... or at all? Maybe she's not deliberately ... (read in full...)
What tips can I give him to de-stress?
Q. Hi, I need some advice, this amazing guy keeps texting me (flirting) which is great, however, he has recently sent me one saying that he needs to de-stress and have I got any ideas to help him out!!! I am quite shy and I am not sure how to reply, I ...
A. 11 April 2009: Just try talking to him distract him from any stressful thoughts. Or try talking about what's stressing him, ask him if there's anything you can do to help him not feel stressed. All we ever need is just someone to talk to :] (that's not always ... (read in full...)
We live far apart and she wants to tell her parents about us
Q. Hi there, I met a girl over the internet, and after knowing her for months we fell in love, but we've never met in real life. The problem is, I'm 20 and live in the UK, she's 15 and lives in the US. We want to see each other, but she doesn't know...
A. 11 April 2009: Like the guy above me said. It's age differences are seriously considered here in the US, it's more shameful to date someone some 5 years older than you here then other places...(or so it seems) Although it's a little more common now it's still seen ... (read in full...)
Why did everything change after he became ill?
Q. I just admitted to myself that I like this guy who lives about 12 hours away from me... (for obvious reasons it would be kind of hard to admit... he lives pretty far.) I consider us to very close, we tell each other everything. and I mean ...
A. 7 April 2009: Actually, I don't need this question answered. I figured everything out. ... (read in full...)
How do I prove Id' make a devoted boyfriend
Q. well, heres my story, i really like this girl and i dont quite know what to do she always refers to me as her big brother and its upsetting because i want to be more than that if any girl or guy out there can give me some advice on how to win her o...
A. 6 April 2009: Well, it's usually pretty clear cut when a girl says she thinks of a guy as a big brother. it's usually that she's connected with you on another level rather than an intimate one. If she's already stated that's how she feels about you, I'm not quite ... (read in full...)
Will you know when he's going to propose?
Q. How do you know when the love of your life is thinking about proposing?? Does he act a certain way?? what should i expect?...
A. 6 April 2009: the simplest answer is: you don't know! you may have an idea, but really, you never know for sure. -You know your boyfriend better than any of us I suppose, so go with your gut feeling. If he's going to ask you just let him do it and be surprise... (read in full...)
1st time--which position is best?
Q. I have a question.When losing your virginity,is it better for the female to be on top or the male ?.Bearing in mind, we are both virgins.Any other tips would be great too.I've thought of us having the light off and just having candle light,and ...
A. 12 February 2009: There is no best way to have sex. You've just got to do what feels right to you guys. So, just do some experimenting until you feel comfortable! Just enjoy yourselves. ... (read in full...)
I'm so upset my 16 year old daughter lost her virginity
Q. Im a mother with strong beliefs .right know i can't think straight just found out that my sixteen year old (girl)lost her virginity and im so hurt im purely old school hey you want that you got to pay the responsibility. my husband wants to beat the ...
A. 19 January 2009: If she's already had sex and lost her virginity, then in my opinion there's nothing really you can do. In this day and age in our generation of kids: we're all going to do what we want and you can't really stop it. If you try to stop it she'll just ... (read in full...)
My period is too heavy, what can I do?
Q. I'm kinda scared right now because I'm having my period, and it's the heaviest one I've ever had. I've been filling up a pad within just one hour. I'm not exaggerating. I don't want to go to school tomorrow, Cuz I don't know how I'm going to get ...
A. 19 January 2009: I had then problem one time when I was younger and I ended up in the hospital because when I actually told my mom it turned into a serious problem. If you haven't told someone already, please do. Bleeding this much may cause you do become anemic... (read in full...)
Teen stuck at home, how to cope till college?
Q. I think I feel stuck or something. I'm 17 years old and I'm a junior in high school. Everything seems to be getting so old... My friends, how my days go, school, being a junior... I'm just sick of it all. I stay home all the time because the kind...
A. 31 December 2008: AH! Thanks so much for all of that it made me feel a ton better and now I even feel a bit of encouragement to get constructive. The feeling doesn't last forever. I'm glad some people have felt the same way I do.
thanks again!... (read in full...)
I'm a lesbian but I'm not like other lesbians
Q. A lot of people seem to think I'm 'weird' for various reasons, but I always tell myself that I'm a perfectly normal teenage lesbian. But some of the things others, including other lesbians, are saying is starting to make me wonder... One thing...
A. 30 December 2008: I don't know who's been telling you that stuff, but it seems mostly stereotypical. Even if that stuff was true, it wouldn't matter, because like you said you don't feel that way. That's the only thing that really matters. Don't worry about what ... (read in full...)
Terrified of losing my virginity!
Q. Hello, I am a 13 year old girl and I'm terrified of losing my virginity. I know that losing your virginity is a big thing, and that it should all be out of love, but after reading something that can happen during it (pain, bleeding, etc) I realized ...
A. 7 December 2008: Well, I'd have to say, being scared to walk outside in fear of possible rape...is a little...irrational to say the least. Losing your virginity should be with someone you love. And yes, it can in fact hurt and you can bleed. But that's not alway... (read in full...)
Freaking out because of late period.
Q. Hey, I may be freaking out over nothing here, but my period is about 4 days late and I'd really like some advice. Me and my boyfriend have had sex twice in the past month, both times we used a condom and they didnt appear to have split. A week or ...
A. 7 December 2008: Yes there may be a chance you could be pregnant. Although he didn't cum there is a thing called precum that the penis releases to cleanse the urethra and there may be a chance that there is some sperm in there.
Also...you may not be pregnant... (read in full...)
Can she get pregnant if I ejaculate on her vulva?
Q. I've been having sex with my girlfriend just recently. 98% of the time i have wore a condom. but me and my girlfriend prefer to not use them. is there a chance she can get pregnant if i ejaculate on the outside of her virgina. (on her virgina, not ...
A. 6 December 2008: Yes, it is VERY possible. That's why even when you ARE wearing a condom it's important for you to pull away from the vagina before you take the condom off.
Sperm can swim! so if you happen to get cum on the outside they can still swim back up ... (read in full...)
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