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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hey guys i need some help im sooo confused it killing me... well basically ive been with my boyfriend for now 3 years but he cheated on me in the 1st month of us getting together and since then we have been tryna work things out... its been up and down since then and we've been tryna work on it... when we go out we ave an amazing time and we really do love each other, but for the last 6months its been crazyyy, we ave been arguing all the time over stupid things and the past just keeps coming back up...recently ive been talking to another guy behind his back and hes really nice and everything i want. im beginning to think is it worth me tryna make the relationship work or should i just end it and start something new with this other guy. im having a hard time deciding what i should do, i really love my boyfriend but i dont feel like i can trust him and its just hard tryna make it work. whereas this other guy is lovely... but im scard that if i end it, then this new guy will be just a rebound thing and i would really want the other guy back. im sooo confused can anyone enlighten me????
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reader, pancakes rule +, writes (22 December 2010):
You could try going on a break, go on a few dates and see how you like it. If you an your boyfriend both do this then you can see if it's worth the effort to stay together or if it is time to let it go.
Good Luck
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