Was my husband addicted to talking n texting escorts while on the other side showing. Blissfully happy husband
Q. Please give me some advice. My husband and I have been happily married for eight years . We are very close we talk about everything we have a great relationship our sex life is great. In fact I usually want to have sex more than once a week and ...
A. 20 November 2015: Hi,
I feel and understand the pain you are going through right now. If every person in the world simply understood his or her duties and carried just the most basic of them properly, the world would be an extremely beautiful place.
There i... (read in full...)
Is he taking me for a fool and lying to me? How do I trust him again when he's so angry?
Q. So 6 months ago my boyfriend really hurt me emotionally. I caught him spending our money on porn. He used to always say how much he hated porn but it's turns out he didn't. He betrayed me, lied to me and the whole experience made me feel insecure ...
A. 13 November 2015: There are some things called decency and dignity in this world that every person is entitled to and responsible for. Your boyfriend is showing neither, either for you or for himself. A man will surely lie if a woman penalizes him for his decisions, ... (read in full...)
My son is dating a girl who is pregnant with a child that isn't his. How do I talk to him about this?
Q. My 18 year old son is a senior in high school. Six month ago he started dating this girl "Ashley", just a few weeks after they started dating she found out she was pregnant (happened before she started dating my son), the father of the baby and his ...
A. 13 November 2015: Hi, I don't think I have ever come across a question like yours on dearcupid before. A single question has never evoked so many diverse emotions in me before. Maam, I don't know who you are, but wow, what a son you've given birth to! He is so ... (read in full...)
She cheated. At what point will I know I can get past this?
Q. Hi guys. I could do with some help. My Girlfriend cheated on me 15 months ago, and i found out around 6 months ago. IT's a pretty unique situation so I'll try to explain, We've been together 8 years, and she's been best friends with this guy ...
A. 9 October 2015: 8 years is a very long time. I cannot even begin to imagine your state my friend. You do seem to really love her. It is time to let her go from your heart. Only then would you be able to get past it. You have time on your side, for you still ar... (read in full...)
Ex flashing new life in my face
Q. My ex and I were together for 7 years and broke up but remained friends, that was two years ago since the break up and we remained friends since. We lived together, no children, but two cats. The relationship broke up because I wanted to be fre...
A. 9 October 2015: If that guy is behaving as you described, does it take two brains or four eyes to see that he has lost all aim in life and has taken to a promiscuous partner for he sees not much joy resulting out of life anymore? You say you were together for 7 y... (read in full...)
I don't think my boyfriend will like me when he finds out how poor I am
Q. My boyfriend has a very well paid job compared to me and he has just paid 2 million pound for his new house and we have agreed that each weekend we will stay at each others homes as we live 100 miles from each other but don't know how to explain to ...
A. 9 October 2015: You said one thing. That you don't like to ask him to pay for your travel. With this one statement, you have blasted away all the rich people's worth and shown how rich you are. You may not have money at the moment, but you have something that 9... (read in full...)
Should you date someone you don't find physically attractive?
Q. Hi there aunts and uncles, I've got a bit of a different question today: how important do you think physical attraction is in choosing a partner? I've become incredibly close to a guy in the last few weeks. We seem to be really compatible; we h...
A. 9 October 2015: Let me ask you this - if your spouse felt that you're unattractive, and still is living with you - how would you feel about it? Would you feel hurt? Or grateful? This is a classic case of trying to determine whether a glass is half empty or... (read in full...)
Which job do you take/keep?
Q. You have two options...Option 1 or Option 2? Option 1: Low pay most of the time you are happy there and the work environment is comfortable with AC (not hard and out like "in the trenches" kind of work). It's in retail at the local pharmacy ...
A. 9 October 2015: Your profile indicates that you're 30-35 years of age. Unless you are already well settled with some money to back you up for a very long time, it is my view that you use your younger years to earn as much as you can, ethically, and save ... (read in full...)
A married man at work is asking too many questions !
Q. Hi. There is a married man at a work (he doesn't work there), his child is in a class at the school where I work, I'm an assistant. He's been asking me personal questions like: Are you married? Do you have kids? Do you live close by? Do you ...
A. 9 October 2015: These are extremely personal questions. I'm guessing this man is from the eastern hemisphere. You can rest assured that men from that part of the world are taught to be way more shy than what is considered normal in the west. This guy is trying to ... (read in full...)
I'm frustrated and tired of being the one to always initiate sex
Q. hi everyone hope you can help. me and my boyfriend have been together a very long time now, we are very much in love and happy.. however! we seem to never ever have sex and when we do it doesnt last very long and its usually rubbish and then...
A. 9 October 2015: It is very much possible that boredom has set into your boyfriend's mind. It is also possible that he doesn't like something about you and is unable to tell you that, and instead, is avoiding you because there isn't much else he could do. It is ... (read in full...)
Do guys really prefer girls with long hair?
Q. do guys really prefer girls with long hair? I have really long dark hair down to my waist, but most the time I leave it naturally curly/wavy because it looks nicer and has more texture. But the amount of guys who mention my hair on a night out is ...
A. 12 November 2012: I like it when women have long lush hair. It makes them look very beautiful.... (read in full...)
How did this guy turn into such a cold, uncaring, cynical person? And what do I do? Avoid him all together? Or keep polite, abrupt messages?
Q. Where do I even start? Two and a half years ago, I met a guy through a mutual friend. He and I became good friends. A few months later, we ended up having a few dates and a few kisses over the period of about a month. This time was wonderful: he ...
A. 12 November 2012: I feel really sorry for your friend. I can feel what he has gone through for you. You never understood him because you never felt his love and never cared for him. If you felt that he'd be fine because you thought he'd get another bunch of girls, it ... (read in full...)
Is he abusing me?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years has been verbally and emotionally abusive. I have been devastated but he says it's not abuse. Again today he shut off the cable, the Internet and the phones. All meanwhile he is calling me a slut, dumb bitch, stupid and my 10 ...
A. 24 March 2012: Please call the cops. Reading what he's doing to you made me feel bad but him targeting your child is making me get angry. It's better to live and die alone than to live with an animal who treats like he is.... (read in full...)
My body screams for sex but he just pushes me away
Q. I'm sexually active for 2 years now and my current boyfriend is the only one i've been with. We only have intercourse 4 times in total and I literally beg him for intimacy. I really love him and understand that he respects me and doesn't want to go ...
A. 10 March 2012: First, a few questions for you to consider. How many years older is he than you? Is he always nice with you? Is he not a bit upset with you even once? How much do you know about him? If you do know much about him and he is very frank and willing ... (read in full...)
I had an abortion and am still grieving-but my boyfriend seems not to care, what should I do?
Q. I need some help to stop feeling angry with my bf about our abortion. I know readers might judge me for having an abortion, that's ok, I judge myself, I know I did the wrong thing, I feel guilty every day and regret my decision greatly. I'm trying ...
A. 24 February 2012: Maam, the Motherly love you feel for your child is noble. I do feel your pain. However, the world is a cold hard place and love is necessary but not sufficient. Abortion is not wrong. You did the right thing. Life is not just about birth and dea... (read in full...)
How do I get back my confidence after finding out my wife had an affair?
Q. I have been married for 18 year to my college love. I just learned that she had an affair with some one that she use to date before me. I have forgiven her and want to move on with our life together but I am badly hurt. My ego and self esteem is ...
A. 18 February 2012: Hello Sir, This is a tough question to answer, and it is tough because there is no one fix it all right answer for this. I am from India, and my outlook towards life is bent towards a philosophical approach, and hence, my advice to you will be ... (read in full...)
Advise required on how to keep our affairs on the boil
Q. i had sex continually with my wife's good friend who too is married for many monthes. we know its wrong but we both want to continue. please advice what we shud do to continue our relationship....
A. 29 January 2012: Ok, you had your laughs looking at all the answers. Now it's time for you to stop fantasizing and find yourself a real wife.
Get a life.... (read in full...)
Why do guys lie?
Q. A guy asked me out, he is 6 years older than me and very attractive. We went on a first date. He said he was looking for a relationship. But when I didn't want to have sex on the first date, he laughed his head off and dumped me. Why are guys so ...
A. 15 January 2012: Hi,
I didn't really mean to imply that you went after jerks - I owe you an apology since on reading my reply I see that that's how it looks. So - sorry :) I was just trying to create an impact so that you don't extend this unpleasant experien... (read in full...)
Why do guys lie?
Q. A guy asked me out, he is 6 years older than me and very attractive. We went on a first date. He said he was looking for a relationship. But when I didn't want to have sex on the first date, he laughed his head off and dumped me. Why are guys so ...
A. 15 January 2012:
Guys aren't cruel! Sex on the first date?! This "attractive" guy of yours is a plain asshole. Women are the cruel ones. They run after alpha males who are jerks and treat women shabbily. Women give no chance to good men who are kind and resp... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is coming to visit me at uni, but I haven't told my friends here I'm gay!
Q. Hey, Well basically my girlfriend is coming up to see me next week as I'm in uni but my friends don't know I'm gay and I'm scared this will break her heart if I don't tell them who she really is but I'm also really scared to tell my friends I'm g...
A. 11 January 2012:
Miss,
If they are real friends, they will probably yell a little or grumble or complain, but they will not let you go (unless one of those guys loves you and you led him on or something like that).
So go ahead and tell them. And there is n... (read in full...)
I want to wear my bikini, but my Bf gets teary and upset at me doing this. Is he over-reacting?
Q. My boyfriend gets all teary and upset when I express interest in wearing a bikini. He hates the idea of someone looking at me but I'm proud of my body and sometimes I just want to show it (most of the time however I like adequate coverage...) Is ...
A. 25 December 2011: Does your boyfriend hate anyone looking at you even when you are wearing tanks and shorts? If so, stop reading this answer, and leave him. Now. If not, and his problem is only with bikinis due to the obvious reasons, please read on. It's... (read in full...)
I feel so alone... Any ideas on how to make my life more meaningful and happy??
Q. Hi everyone. I hope you can help me please. I feel so alone and I don't want to feel this way anymore. I'm a 33 year old guy, I got into a relationship when I was 21 and that lasted until just 2 years ago. I have never been the social type...
A. 18 December 2011: Dear Mr.Limbo,
As much tempted as I am to lash you into being an emotionally uncaring guy, and into becoming a casanova and enjoying the good life, I really really believe in my heart, that there are awesome, kind hearted, lovely girls out ther... (read in full...)
Do women want powerful, wealthy men more than considerate, nice guys?
Q. I know nobody wants a wimp. But do all women prefer the self-absorbed jerk with power over the nice, middle class guy who is considerate of a woman's feelings? Is the law of the jungle and the law of human love really the same?...
A. 14 December 2011: Hello Mr.Fellow male friend, Watch - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rjoaSj-FDyk This will answer all your questions. Best of luck. Cheers!... (read in full...)
We were good friends. Does she have a lot on her mind maybe, and just doesn't want to talk?
Q. I have been best friends with my friend for almost a year now. We became really close really fast. We were inseparable and up until about a week ago i thought we still were. we texted every single day and talked on the phone almost every night. When...
A. 30 October 2011: You have to go up to her and talk to her personally, not over phone or text. Tell her in a no-nonsense manner that she is hurting you and you have kept quiet for long enough but it cannot go on like this. Sometimes, you have to understand that ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend made a comment about my small breasts and now I don't want to go near him
Q. Hi guys! I need help from you to build my self-confidence. I have a lovely bf and we are planning our future together. However, our sex life is a complete disaster... I run away from him every time he want to get closer to me. The issue is my ...
A. 30 October 2011: Hi, Many many years ago, around eight, my Father once called me "ungrateful" when talking to my Uncle and Aunt - I was shocked and hurt, but kept quiet and forgot about it. Last year however, I raked it up again and tortured my Father last ... (read in full...)
I'm dating someone but had lunch with a guy I used to date casually. Did I do something wrong?
Q. I've been single a while now and have just started going out with this guy. On the third date we decided to start going out together and not date anyone else. He said he's not seen anyone since he started dating me which I trust. Anyway, before...
A. 27 October 2011:
Yes, you are right in your interpretation. You must loosen up a bit by strengthening your trust in your partner and in yourself.
Regards,
OneGuy... (read in full...)
I think I blew my chance with this guy if I ever had a chance?
Q. First, I just started college. I've been in college for nearly two months now. I met this guy. He's the captain of one of the groups that I joined and he's super hot and super duper smart. I really like but I think I blew my chance with him... if I ...
A. 27 October 2011: Guys at your age aren't half as mature in the mind as girls of the same age. I very much think it would be really good for you if you thought about your studies first and foremost. Give it some time, atleast an year. Don't jump into love. Don't ... (read in full...)
I'm dating someone but had lunch with a guy I used to date casually. Did I do something wrong?
Q. I've been single a while now and have just started going out with this guy. On the third date we decided to start going out together and not date anyone else. He said he's not seen anyone since he started dating me which I trust. Anyway, before...
A. 27 October 2011: You did no wrong. A lunch isn't bad. If that itself is wrong, then speaking to another person also will start looking wrong. Please, just listen to your thoughts - do they make any sense?! Don't disempower yourself like this. And yes, definitely,... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
Q. Dear readers, I would like to hear your advice on my situation. To put it bluntly, I'm a 24 year old virgin male. I could try to look good and say that I've been waiting for that special someone, or I'd be honest and tell you that I've never had t...
A. 26 October 2011:
Hi,
Please read these points carefully.
1. Girls are extremely smart and can easily find out in the first meeting that you are a virgin. Don't assume they can't or don't.
2. As someone already pointed out, prostitutes are never in the... (read in full...)
I am always angry and unhappy. Please help!
Q. my story is too lenthy but i i beg u to be patient and read. and i will be happy if there was a psychologist here who can help. i can't aford one. here's the story: I AM ALWAYS ANGRY AND UNHAPPY. PLEASE HELP ME. Dear Mirror Psychologist, I a...
A. 26 October 2011: Hi,
As you already know, your negativity is because of you thinking that people avoid/shun you because of your height.
Have you ever asked the women you have been with, whether this was the reason? Do you see that in your assumption, you ... (read in full...)
My mom says I have to pick either her or my ex
Q. My ex and I broke up while I was 3months pregnant mainly because he did not have a job and my mom and him did not like each other even before I got pregnant. I have always loved him and wish I could be back with him and have a family. He now has ...
A. 11 June 2011:
This is a horrible situation.
You must make your Mother and your ex talk to each other, with you being a moderator and facilitator. Why do they hate each other? Why? They must and should resolve their issues, else everyone will be on the losin... (read in full...)
This may be the last time I see her - Should I confess my feelings?
Q. I was dating a girl who i fell mad in love with. After losing my virginity to her and sweeping her off her feet, somehow we broke up. What seemed to be the most amazing 6 months of my life were over. I put everything i had into the relationship. I ...
A. 11 June 2011: If she could see what she had, she would tell you on the face and zealously wrap herself around you and never let you go. You have somehow come to the conclusion that your life isn't worth it anymore.
Anyway, soldier, you have your duty in front... (read in full...)
What do you think of teachers dating former students?
Q. Alright, here's my situation... I'm a 30 year old male teacher, and I've fallen completely in love with a 17 year old female student. She has no idea how I feel as I have never, and would never, under any circumstance, act on it while she is sti...
A. 11 June 2011: I'm not sure if she'll actually feel like your soulmate my friend.. Just take it easy and don't feel too bad if she doesn't accept you. You sound like a very chivalrous man. I wish she loves you too.... (read in full...)
In my mid-20 and never had a girlfriend
Q. The realization that I'm in my mid twenties and have never had a girlfriend or even so much as dated anyone is really starting to scare me. I've never been in a relationship with anyone. I can't even say that I'd know how to date someone should ...
A. 11 June 2011: I'm 29 and still lonely, having never dated anyone. I'll watch your question for the answers you get. All I can do as a fellow who understands the pain you are going through is pray that you find your soulmate very very soon because it's the worst ... (read in full...)
I could be "the one" for him, but he pulled back
Q. About six months ago I started becoming really good friends with this one guy, and I now consider him to be one of my best friends. We both like each other a lot. We started hanging out a lot more and we would do stuff such as kissing, etc. but we ...
A. 10 June 2011: Why does he feel he will hurt you? Will he beat you? Will he ignore you? Will he ill treat you? What is he afraid of? Does he have the feeling that he is not a "completer" and has failed in pretty much everything he put his eye on? D... (read in full...)
So I'm Single. What can I say to people that bug me about it?
Q. I'm single and have no problem with it, except people (family/friends) constantly ask if I'm dating anyone. Some friends of mine, who are married, asked if I was seeing anyone. When I said no, they then asked jokingly if I was a lesbian. This has ...
A. 3 June 2011:
spinnaker,
I want your dentist's name, phone number, address, everything. He/She's gonna be my new dentist!! :)
To the questioner -
I just think the people around you love you and care about you enough that they just want to see you fi... (read in full...)
How the hell do I get him off my mind?
Q. I have a horrible, horrible crush on my gym teacher. He is the hottest man I have ever laid eyes on and he's shy but when he yells, oh God am I turned on. The slight problem is that Im thirteen and he just turned 28. I know that he's married ...
A. 7 April 2011: This is really funny!! Sorry Miss but it's true, when you're 13, puberty makes you think the other person is doing things that he definitely isn't ;) We've all been through this so you're safe :) This is called infatuation. Aahh to be you... (read in full...)
Husband is impotent and no idea why?
Q. What would you do, if your husband , suddenly becomes impotent , but you don't know why? My husband got impotent ,pretty suddenly ,after he lost his erection middle of intercourse a few years ago . Since than , he can;t get a normal erection....
A. 7 April 2011: I'm very positive it is an extreme emotion that suddenly snapped him. Fear, anger? Did someone betray him? Did you get some information at around that time that shocked and dismayed him?... (read in full...)
Where does one draw the line between romantic super boyfriend and needy co-dependant?
Q. How can I be there for my girlfriend without being smothering? I'm having trouble, I want to be supportive, Loving, caring, sensitive, and kind to my girlfriend. I Love her very much and I also like doting on her. I like giving her attention an...
A. 10 February 2011: Be there always for your girl and she whines how unmanly, immature and possessive you are. Be absent for a moment and she starts doubting you, getting emotional and hyper suspicious. Don't get me wrong - I've never had a girlfriend - the above i... (read in full...)
How can I survive working with my ex for a year?
Q. I wrote earlier in the week about finding out that my boyfriend of one year, had been married for 3 years. I was devastated, accused him, he denied it, called me crazy, I gave him proof, he back paddled, we cried, I asked him to leave. He did. ...
A. 6 February 2011: Hi Maam, I perfectly understand your situation. I had a similar situation, not quite the same, but it was extremely saddening for me. I had a roommate who was much younger than me during college, and I bonded well with him initially, and let ... (read in full...)
| *neguy's friends
These are mutual friends, so *neguy has
added them and they have added *neguy!
|
