Why do I get the worst of my boyfriend and everyone else get the best?
Q. Hi everyone, my boyfriend acts so different with me. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. I've noticed that he has changed with me. he used to be funny, eloquent, loving in the past two years everything changed. He acts like im just ...
A. 8 December 2011: i read this question and the first thing that came in mind was "people always take things out on the people closest to them." Also, maybe your boyfreind feels like he can just be hiself around you...which is tired and grumpy. people feel they need ... (read in full...)
How do I figure out what person I want to be?
Q. Do you ever feel sometimes even when life is going so good and you have great friends and family and your future is right in front of you. You can still feel lost and not know who you are? Because that's how I feel. I've never understood what ...
A. 20 November 2011: hello lovely. i think i understand what your trying to explain. i will try my best to help you. Britney Spears once wrote a song called 'not yet a girl', you should google that im sure youll find very comforting. she explains in the song about this ... (read in full...)
Why are some men so selfish?
Q. Why some men so selfish?. My partner and i have 2 kids together he is 42 and i am 36. Our relationship is very dull, we never go out as a couple, we have little to no sex life to which i put down to him not having a sex drive. He never treats me or ...
A. 20 November 2011: hello. do not have an affair. it literally wrecks familys and you will be spiteing the children as well as yourself. in the process you will also give yourself a bad name which im sure you wouldnt want to happen. I can imagine how your feeling,you ... (read in full...)
Why would this guy still be on the dating site? I feel so used and disillusioned!
Q. I met a guy last week from a dating site for the first time. We had an amazing time and had sex which was fantastic! Of course this all sounds quick, but I believe it was the right thing to do at the time even though we only knew each other couple ...
A. 2 October 2011: i agree with the above. Just take it as a lesson learnt. your only human and when we crave love and attention lets be honest we do get a little crazy... it will all blow over and he'll be forgotton about, and you can do better than him im sure. keep ... (read in full...)
Is this love or is he just playing me?
Q. is this loving me or playing?well here we go my boyfriend tells me he loves me and then he says "i like you and love you alot he want to have babies with me already he wants me to move in with him to another state but I dont want to because I dont ...
A. 24 August 2011: this realtionship isnt good honey. i hate to judge but as soon as i read this i knew i needed to be cruel to be kind. finish it! ... (read in full...)
What did I do wrong?? Have I scared him off already?
Q. i met a guy on plenty of fish dating website.. he was really sweet and would call me every day and would actually ring when he says he would. i met up with him on friday.. we went for a ride.. got something to eat..did a bit of kissing.. he ...
A. 15 February 2010: well he could well be seeing other girls .
i mean so what you had a date nothing came of it..
move on.
just because you had a date it doesnt mean you must be together forever.
dont worry!! just move on to another guy.... (read in full...)
Male input would be useful. What makes the perfect woman?
Q. Not really a question. More of an investigation,just wondering what makes the perfect woman-not just looks wise but taking that into consideration. Please and thankyou :).. xx...
A. 15 February 2010: there is no perfect woman?
what makes a perfect man?
i mean i would go for a man with a good sense of humour and nice eyes..but you might go for something completley diffrent..
its the same with men..
you might meet someone who likes big breast... (read in full...)
What helps a person more to get over self-consciousness?
Q. What helps a person more to get over self-consciousness? Getting literally or figuratively beat out of it, or being treated with a gentler kind of love?...
A. 11 February 2010: ok.
you could try telling this person about their good features:
eyes
lips
body
personality
hair
sense of humour
... (read in full...)
I've got no money to buy my girlfriend a Valentines present!
Q. Valentine is three days away and i have no money at all to buy anything for my girlfriend,this is our first valentine together and my first ever. What should i do?...
A. 11 February 2010: aww
its the thought that counts.
it will be more symbolic for you to maybe cook or take her for a romantic walk ?
give her good sex..
make a fuss of her and dont stop telling her how much she makes you happy ect.
good luckk xx... (read in full...)
Kicking myself for failing my driving test. Again!
Q. Morning guys, Im on such a downer. I failed my driving test again yesterday-my 2nd attempt. I had such awful rainy weather and the route was so difficult. I know i need to book myself in again but im soo scared.To make it all worse my family ...
A. 23 January 2010: "Also my 1st test was really easy and i messed up by doind 40on a 30...im still kicking myself now!" Exuse me missy..on the above you have admitted that you found the test actually easy and stickin to the speed limit is one of my biggest probelms... (read in full...)
I am about to meet my online b/f and worries I might not be slim enough for him
Q. would like some answers from male readers. i have been txting a man now for the last 5 mths. we get on great and he is a great person. he lives few hours away and we are meant to be meeting next week. he has seen pics of me but had to take them ...
A. 23 January 2010: there is always a risk when meeting somebody off of the internet..he must be prepared and you also to have an open mind and deffinatley like you for who you are whilst you were talking on the internet.
if he was intrested i looks i doubt it very... (read in full...)
I think I'm too boring for him!
Q. i have just completed hi school and i have fallen in love with someone. he isa ctually my first boyfriend.problem is he is too exeperienced and knows what exactly turns me on but i dont. is it possible for me to know what turns guys on .i feel too ...
A. 13 January 2010: well he wouldnt be experienced if he hadnt had experience.. so take this chance to have experience from him if that makes sense.. ask him what he likes and why..? he'll enjoy you asking. my boyfreind likes it when i bite his ears and blow o... (read in full...)
How do I let it (them) go?
Q. i need advise about letting people go. there are sertin people in my life right now and all they do is bring me pain. yet i spend hours thinking, worrying, about them. always interested in what there doing, just really caring for them. the messed up ...
A. 10 January 2010: you dont say who it is ? the best thing you can do is detach your intire self from this person. they are making you unhappy. find a new group freinds and forget about them everytime this person comes into your head tell them to go away becos yo... (read in full...)
What are vaginas supposed to smell like at 14?
Q. hey guys. im 14 years old and ive had a sertain problem for a while now. but ive never had the corrage to tell any one about it.. but thats not what i need to know. im not sure if its normall but ive had a very strong fishy sent coming from m...
A. 10 January 2010: its proberly nothing to panic about.
all us girls go through a stage where we go a bit smelly.
it'll pass its just a matter of letting nature take its course,you can however minimize the smell by buying some "intimate wipes" or scented toilet t... (read in full...)
Sex and my virginity...
Q. I need some advice here. I'm turning 16 in 2 months. I never had a boyfriend. I don't know how to kiss (i don't think any guy will want to go out with me when they see i don't know how to kiss) and I don't personally think I'm ugly, I am confi...
A. 7 January 2010: how can you possibly be ready if you havent even had a boyfreind or experienced a kiss before?
its not bad you havent kissed or had a boyfreind you should be rather proud of yourself as you have been a sensible young lady and taken your time to focu... (read in full...)
I need to get out and grow up... help!
Q. Hi there. I'm an 18 year old girl, but feel like a bit of a child. My friend and I still play with barbie toys. Do you think this is really bad? If so, what could we do instead. Also, I've never had a boyfriend or a first kiss. I feel like ive mi...
A. 7 January 2010: well the fact you still play with barbie dolls is a little strange to be honest darling.
after all you are now an adult and should be thinking about your education and what not.
however with out misleading you,you are still young and you cant hur... (read in full...)
Would you forgive a woman with an extremely promiscuous past?
Q. I am a 28 year old woman with an extremely promiscuous past. I slept with 70 guys. I had committed relationships too. I came clean with my boyfriend and told him the extent of what I had done. He continues to ask me for every detail and I respond. ...
A. 4 January 2010: you say that thats not the person you are today right?
so whats the point in telling people about the old you..if shes left in the past? forget her.
you are who you are today and dont forget this saying
"everybody has a past".
wheather its ... (read in full...)
Want to have an affair with guy who has girlfriend
Q. so i am recently seperated from my husband. there is this guy at work and we have been flirting a lot for like the past 3mos. the 2 of us have proven to each other that we are sexually attracted to each other. the other night he invited me out for ...
A. 4 January 2010: ok
its not a case of wanting to have an affiar my love,youve already done the deed!!!
... (read in full...)
I get nasty when drunk but ONLY with my boyfriend! Why??
Q. Me and my boyfriend have a perfect relationship, he's loving and caring, attentive and passionate, basically everything a girl could want, obviously it has its little problems however in general its good. The problem is when we drink i always end up ...
A. 3 January 2010: Your insecure with this dude. can you trust him? is he really as perfect as you say? Or are you being naughty? have you done something wrong? are you keeping things from him?? have a think x... (read in full...)
Should I go to my ex's wedding?
Q. I have a dilemma. I have just received an invitation to my ex-boyfriend's wedding. We split up 3 years ago. He treated me really badly when he dumped me yet wanted to be good friends with me. He came over to my house 2 weeks after we had broken ...
A. 3 January 2010: i do sympathize.
think of 2010 of coming back as stronger you.
make it a new years resulution "im going to be strong".
if i was you i would totally go to this jerks wedding!
id get myself a real hot date make myself look like a filmstar and ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my teacher and I don't want to give up on this idea, what should I do?
Q. i am in love with my maths teacher, he was my form tutor when i was year 7 and im 13 and in year 9 now. he knows how i feel cuz one of my mates told him (which i hav forgiven her for now). he is so gorgeous and he seems to treat me more caringly ...
A. 3 January 2010: first of all his wife isnt a profesional teacher especially if shes talking like that to her pupils..its wrong and she could get into an awfull lot of trouble for it.
i hate to tell you this but you need to get real about this honey,hes a TEAC... (read in full...)
Why can I not get that chemistry with someone any more?
Q. You know the feeling you get when you just meet someone and your stomach drops because of that amazing chemical reaction? I haven't had it in almost a year. Seriously, i'm going insane, no matter what situation, who i'm with or even if it was just...
A. 3 January 2010: girl!! im 18 and i still havent felt that sort of chemistry..your still young for goodness sake..embrace it. your single now..take advantage of it girl. dont be a whore about it though. your prince will come when he's ready. good luck x... (read in full...)
How do I stop hating myself and become more confident?
Q. so hi... i really need help. i have horrible confidence problems. and i dont know how to become confident. like its becoming so bad that i think about killing myself. i feel worthless all of the time. and i am jealous of pretty much all of my feien...
A. 20 December 2009: the only person who can do something about this is you.
i used to hate myself and i used to hide away in my shell i got counselling and talked about why i hated myself and why, but i had family problems and thats what seemed to cause my prob... (read in full...)
How can I get over him and have a good christmas
Q. Hiya, I really need your help on this one. :( There is this boy... and we have been really close friends for god knows long. About a year ago , i really started to like him.. and we got closer and closer until I became probably 'obsessed'. Talking ...
A. 20 December 2009: oh i really can realate to what your going through as im kind of having the same trouble. this dude gives a true meaning to "player". he souunds very immature,very arrogant,very stuck up his own arse and one of these days BAM reality is going to ... (read in full...)
I had never found my wife physically attractive so I left her for a woman I am attracted to
Q. This is something I am really struggling with at the moment and am in desperate need of some advice. A couple of months ago, I announced to my wife of 2 years (been together seven years in total) that I didn't want to be with her anymore. The re...
A. 12 December 2009: i cant understand how you could stay with a lady that doesnt appeal to you very much, yes personality is essential when lookin for a partner but isnt looks a big factor and all? you did nothing than give this poor woman false hope and false happin... (read in full...)
In school, I lose my confidence!
Q. Hi there, Ok! So i am 13 years old. I have a medium height and am little overweighed. I am very unconfident guy. When teachers asks questions, i know the answer but i cant tell it to them. If they ask me, i say that i don't know or didn't answer, ...
A. 10 December 2009: ok first things first i would like you to totally blank these jerks you call classmates out of the picture because these kids sound like a bunch of useless animals.
you should totally be thinkin about yourself in your class,your education and your... (read in full...)
I was in love with him, until he fell in love with me...
Q. I'm really confused at the moment. I really liked this guy, I kept thinking about him all the time. Then he told me he liked me and asked me to be his girlfriend. I said no. I have no idea why, but as soon as he started to like me, I completey ...
A. 10 December 2009: yes i understand where your coming from i have experienced this for myself..and in your shoes.
its the challenge of getting them to like that makes you "love them".
its simply a mind game...
and when he decides that he actually likes you back you... (read in full...)
Do you think I am the cause of his problem?
Q. Hello i love my boyfriend so much and he loves me too, been together for some time and we are very tight, we are always together. its just he isnt very confident with himself, he covers up alot and looks anxious at times, i ask him why he does thi...
A. 23 November 2009: try making him feel special.
tell him you love him all of the time..
but him little gifts out of the blue..
tell him he's good in bed...
cuddle him and kiss him when hes down..
and most of all..
let him know that your here for him and you ain... (read in full...)
I am having an affair and want to end it!
Q. I am 41 years old and married. i am having an afair with a 25 year old person. he is of lower financial class than I . i have a child that i adore. i want to stop this afair and i can not sometimes i dream of being with this guy for ever but i ...
A. 23 November 2009: yes drink is a very dangerous thing my love.
however you must tell this bloke that you were drunk when you met and you have no real feelings towards him..
even though you might have,
say your family are getting suspicious..
tell him you have a h... (read in full...)
Why am I so destructive and jealous?
Q. I am extremely jealous and destructive. I was not always like this and I do not know how to fix myself. In high school I suffered with severe acne and a stye on my eye for almost two years. This was not because I was lazy and not looking for help. I ...
A. 19 November 2009: just think honey:
its YOU he comes home too.
its YOU he kissess.
its YOU he missess.
and blah blah blah.
HE LOVES YOU GIRL,or he wouldnt be with you ,right?
get that into your silly skull.
good luck
x... (read in full...)
I need advice on how to get this married guy out of my mind! Please help!
Q. I jumped into an unhappy marriage 4 years ago. Although I've been working at it, I've always felt like I never found "the one". For the last 18 months however, I've found myself falling for a married man with children. I've never spoken to him ...
A. 13 November 2009: ok im not saying this isnt really happening but maybe your looking for a bit of exitment and your exagarating this
"fling" you have?
forget about this guy your married and he's married - tough luck honey.
instead try forgetting about thi... (read in full...)
My Mum won't come to my wedding!
Q. Hi Im 18 years old and my soon to be husbund is 31 we have known each other for nearly 2 years and have been dating for 16 months and living together for 8, i have had a very difficult childhood,father died when i was 14, mum trying to kill her self...
A. 10 November 2009: first of all i want to wish you all the best for the big day and i'll bet you will have an amazing day. there is noway of making your mum come but maybe you could try and change her point of view about your partener,make her see how much you mea... (read in full...)
"Sort your life out, you aren't a baby anymore"?
Q. Hi, i dont know if im being oversensitive here but i just want some feedback. Im 27 and been doing driving lessons just over a year now.My instructor wants me to book my test in and im just not confident. Last night on my driving lesson h...
A. 7 November 2009: he didnt really have the right to say this but it has obviosuly affected you and gave you something to have a think about.
he didnt say enything about your personal life,you decided that alone.
taking a test when your not ready is sometime... (read in full...)
Should I meet an Online Friend?
Q. Advice on Meeting this guy... I met a guy pretty randomly online about 3 months ago. He IMed me, and we just sort of introduced ourselves and we started talking. We kept talking acouple times a week, we would get on webcam and talk, but the so...
A. 7 November 2009: NO NO NO.
there has been so many things going wrong with young girls who meet strange men of the internet and they end up getting hurt raped or even murdered.
please dont!!
just have a cyber realtionship.
if you do please make sure you have ad... (read in full...)
I don't want what my parents want for me!
Q. I am from India, 16 years and am brought up in a strict Muslim family. My parents have already planned my future for me, get my degree and get married soon after that. But the thing is that I don't want that. I want to continue with my career and do ...
A. 7 November 2009: well i belive everybody has the right for freedom.
every human deserves to do what they want to do.
you sound like a very intelligent girl.
i have no idea what the law is with you religion but if i was you i would just keep doing well in shco... (read in full...)
Do her drunken texts reveal something new?
Q. We all know how blunt or honest we can be when drunk. Here's the scenario. She's 23, at a bar, drunk and I'm at home relaxing from a long day of work. Here's the texts: Me: What's up? Her: I'm at a bar babe... gettin pretty drunk haha Me: Lo...
A. 2 November 2009: well im so shy when so and when im drunk im the totall oppsite i call everyone babe and sweetie and baby ect and they look at me totally blank.
most girls do tend to be more flirty when tipsy or drunk i know i am.
dont listen to a drunk person b... (read in full...)
His eyes are always on me. Is he flirting?
Q. Simply what does it mean when a man winks at a girl from across the room, more than a few times? We've never really spoken except saying "hi" (in a shy manner) when we pass one another. He is always giving me eye contact like he can't take his eyes...
A. 2 November 2009: haa this dude sounds so sweet!!
try flirting back with him he is totally flirting.
dont do enything drastic though,maybe just give him a wink back or a wave or a sexy smile,then you'll see.
good luck xx... (read in full...)
Am I giving off the wrong vibes that I cannot get a man?
Q. I've never had a boyfriend before but in college i've had my share of interactions with guys that only consisted of sex. Last month I broke it off with this guy who turned out to be untrustworthy. I completely put my all into making it work with ...
A. 30 October 2009: these guys are only wanting you for one thing = SEX.
and you sure sound like your happy enough for them to use and abuse you honey.
yeahh sex is great its fun but only when its with the right person.
set yourself a challenge not to have sex unt... (read in full...)
On the second date would you rather be asked before he kissed you, or just kissed?
Q. Hi, this question's to the ladies. Imagine you were out on your second date and the guy wanted to kiss u. Would u prefer it if he looked into your eyes and asked "would u mind if i kissed u?" and kissed u only if u said 'yes' or would u prefer it if ...
A. 30 October 2009: i would much prefer he asked,becuase your also doing her a favour your not only answering a few of her many wonders about you but your also proving you like her.
just mention on how beautifull she looks and add a little cheekkyness perhaps? say you ... (read in full...)
How do I handle inappropriate questions from guys?
Q. Im 14 and at this age guys are complete pervs..They are always asking you to go down on them or to let them fingure you.,,and it feels so weird because sometimes you like the guy thats asking you but u dont know how to say yes with out sounding all ...
A. 28 October 2009: oh my goodness.
you dont answer them at all honey.
your a lady and trust me if you go telling those boys about your body and letting them have a fiddle when your not in a reationship with them they will not have respect for you now or in the futu... (read in full...)
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