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writes:Hiya, I really need your help on this one. :(There is this boy... and we have been really close friends for god knows long. About a year ago , i really started to like him.. and we got closer and closer until I became probably 'obsessed'. Talking about him 24/7 with my friends. about 6 months ago, we went on a school trip and we held hands all morning and talked, but we were just good friends. A couple of months ago, we fell out for ages and finally got back on track. Now this new boy has joined our school and he seems really nice and fun to be around. The other boy loves to flirt and watch porn... be one of the popular boys. He only seems interested with me when no other girls are around and he even wears pants with ladies on which he shows off. Its the school holidays now... but on the last day, i avoided him and tried to show him that I was so over him. But now, i still cant get him out of my head.. whenever i try to think of anyone else, he pops into my mind. I want to be over him and I want to not give up on trying to get over him. But the thought of sitting next to him in loads of lessons when we get back to school and the thought of him being in the same form as me.. just makes it seem impossible for me to forget him. He leaves me two options, either fancy him or hate him. And to be honest, i just want to get over him but not fall out. How can I enjoy my christmas holidays and be a different person when I go back to school? Please help.. :(
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reader, Miss Karma Louise +, writes (20 December 2009):
oh i really can realate to what your going through as im kind of having the same trouble.this dude gives a true meaning to "player".he souunds very immature,very arrogant,very stuck up his own arse and one of these days BAM reality is going to hit him and he's gonna think. "ive acted like such a jerk!".maybe he's good looking,maybe he's "cool".but he's cool for all the wrong reasons..think about it?would you take him own to meet your folks?would you be able to trust him?is he good enough for YOU?NOPE.you deserve someone who's nice and trustworthy who doesnt go bragging about porn and crap. he's a loser.you dont need a loser in your life..think of how many othet girls he's tried getting off with.what a jerk.everytime the jerk pops up in your head tell him to"piss off" and that your too good for him, go on...get out of my head you self centered jerk!"and everytime he pops up you keep repeating that..he'll soon disappear.good luck honey karma x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): Hey, I don't have a serious boyfriend, but to me, this guy sounds like "bad news". He likes you, but only when nobody else is around. What does that tell u? Also, he has porn and stuff, so he's not serious about YOU, maybe just ur body. I dont no him, so can't give u completely right answer, but my advice is have fun with ur family, concentrate on holidays, and go on a spirit-lifting shopping spree! I know it will be hard, but think if this guy is really interested in you, no matter what, or part-time, secret relationship.
If it helps, tell ur friends and maybe even parents.
Have a great holiday!
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