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*Cass.Idyx
writes:I'm really confused at the moment. I really liked this guy, I kept thinking about him all the time. Then he told me he liked me and asked me to be his girlfriend. I said no.I have no idea why, but as soon as he started to like me, I completey went off him. It's really freaked me out and I was just wondering if anyone knows why this might be, or if it's happened to anyone else.Thanks,Cassidy x
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reader, Miss Karma Louise +, writes (10 December 2009):
yes i understand where your coming from i have experienced this for myself..and in your shoes.
its the challenge of getting them to like that makes you "love them".
its simply a mind game...
and when he decides that he actually likes you back you get freaked out because you realize you dont actaully like him and you were just challenging urself..
i dont really know how to explain it much more..!!
maybe you were doubting the fact that he would ever fancy you or fall for you and therfore doubting that you will never have something or someone makes you want them more and makes you more determind to "get them" when really all it was a is a little crush ..
i hope you understand.
try being a bit more laid back with ur next crush and let him come to you,dont chase him.
good luck sugar x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 December 2009):
A girl once did this to me. She liked me, when I showed me interest, she didn't, then she liked me and by then it was too late. Either you want what you can't have, or he's not the guy for you. If he was, your feelings would be clearer. since you're still young, I suspect you're not quite mature enough to have a relationship yet (no disrespect). Have patience with yourself, and focus on what you really want out of life and just hanging with friends. You'll find a great guy in a few years, and your feelings will make sense to you.
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reader, kickstick24 +, writes (10 December 2009):
women love the 'chase' or the unsaid game of cat and mouse, you probably stopped liking him because after you got him, you didnt feel the need to pursue him any more. women also love what they cant have, the guy finally telling you that he likes you ended the 'chase' for you. its happened to me aswell where i've liked a girl then gotten over her because i just didnt feel like pursuing her anymore, hahah your not alone.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (10 December 2009):
 I can only think of two reasons why this might happen.1) Sometimes people want what they can't have2) You're a little afraid of having him as a boyfriend (or just of having a boyfriend if you haven't been in a relationship before or had a bad experience)My advice would be to give this guy a chance because you used to like him, so there must be something about him that could attract you again.If you don't like him after going on a couple of dates, then break it off before anyone gets too attached.You never know, you could find love...good luckxx
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (10 December 2009):
 You want what you cant have?
I had the same but the other way round, he liked me, and as I grew to like him, he seems to have gone off me..
Typical!
I think you need to think this through carefully, because if you lose him, it will be harder to get him back..
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