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writes: Hi there, Ok! So i am 13 years old. I have a medium height and am little overweighed. I am very unconfident guy. When teachers asks questions, i know the answer but i cant tell it to them. If they ask me, i say that i don't know or didn't answer, thats why they think that i am a dull student. If i try to answer, my tounge slips and i cant prnounce the words infront of them like today i was try to say 'constant' but i sayed 'costance'. Its also because of this that the students also laugh at me and make me nervous although i am already very much nervous. I the real life i am a free n confident boy but i dont knw what happens to me in school. Plz tell me, what can i do to gain cofidence,I am thankfull to everybody who answeres....!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): I think you're getting an anxiety attack everytime your teacher picks on you. You need to get rid of your stress firstly. It could be one of the reason why you're getting it. You need to think positive, accept and value yourself.
Like yourself, I get anxiety at school too, but I tend to overcome it mostly whenever it comes. I manage because I must =]
Just think positive and be brave. Do it because you have to.
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reader, Miss Karma Louise +, writes (10 December 2009):
ok first things first i would like you to totally blank these jerks you call classmates out of the picture because these kids sound like a bunch of useless animals.
you should totally be thinkin about yourself in your class,your education and your future..
where do you hope to be in a say 10 years time??
university?
college?
if so you need to ignore these people. a.s.a.p!!!
now as for the teachers,as much as i hate to admit this,the teachers are always correct.
when a teacher says or advises you NEED to listen.
i suppose the teachers can see your a little nervous around other kids,but dont let this dumb you down.
maybe try switching sides of the year.
at the end of the day its your future thats going to be jepordized (exuse my spelling) if you dont show these teachers what you got..Go for it!!
grab the bull by its horns as they say.
try and join drama classes or an aftershcool club.
mix with a few other kids.
good luck.
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