Possibilites of being pregnant after unprotected sex, several times...!? My body acts differently: exhaustion, stomachaches, loss of appetite...
Q. Wondering if I may be pregnant or the possibilities before I take a pregnancy test. Last month I had my period March 3-6 (four days - which is normal for me) but afterwards my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex almost everyday, if not, every other ...
A. 14 April 2008: Go get a pregnancy test. Depending on where you live, there are also centers that will administer the urine test for free. They have some great resources too :)
You definitely could be pregnant! You could definitely not be pregnant, too. But I woul... (read in full...)
Hes been having a lot of ideas about us having a baby together I don't know if I'm ready for this
Q. Dear cupid.. i been with my boyfriend dan for about 2 years now, we are engaged. but lately hes been having a lot of ideas about us having a baby together i dont know if im ready for this quite yet what shall i do ? ...
A. 14 April 2008: Be honest with him, tell him that you're not ready! Trust me, spend a few years being a married couple for awhile, then have babies. Enjoy each other, travel, do fun things. Let him know that you're not ready to enter that part of life's journey ... (read in full...)
He was not quite supportive when I told him I cannot climax without a vibrator! Shouldn't he be happy and excited to meet my needs??
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend of 9 months. Everything in our relationship is great except for the sex. I do enjoy having sex with him very very much, but I can’t orgasm without a vibrator on my clitoris. I don’t know why and I wish it wasn’t ...
A. 14 April 2008: Okay, you're not alone in this :) I have the same problem, but I am lucky enough to have a husband that is more than okay when I use a 'bullet' to stimulate my clit during sex.
Actually, I think you might be surprised at how many women can not have... (read in full...)
I'm a 14 year old girl and can't stop masturbating to lesbian porn!
Q. What`s wrong with me!? Okay I`m 14 years old and I littrally just turned 14 last week. Anyway, I`m obsessed with masturbating! I`ve been doing it since I was 12. When I first got the internet on my computer at the age of 12 my parents said "dont ...
A. 3 January 2008: I think it's normal to masturbate a lot when you're that age...it's a healthy thing to do. After all, at least you're 'having sex' with someone you love lol!
Also, it's normal to be curious about your sexuality. Just because you look at lesbian porn... (read in full...)
My boyfriend ejaculates too quickly all the time, how do I help this?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together a year. We have sex fairly regularly, between one to four times a week. His problem is that most of the time he comes to soon. He likes to make sure I have an orgasm everytime we have sex, he's a ve...
A. 3 January 2008: YES, we use it with condoms :) Just to be sure, you may want to check the package that the ointment comes in, but we've never had a problem!
Yes, they do make the condoms too, but they didn't work for us.... (read in full...)
How do I choose between two girls, and how do I let down the one from overseas?
Q. I've been single for a few years. I've never been the type of person that needed to be in a relationship to define me or my happiness. I do find that when I'm in a relationship, though, I like it to be passionate, intense, and full speed. I just ...
A. 3 January 2008: It sounds like you've already made your choice, so I won't address the "how do I choose between two girls" part of your question.
And, I think you sort of answered your question. You are against leading people on, so don't do it! I don't know that... (read in full...)
I want to end this relationship but I feel guilty about it because it will mean she has to quit a good job and move back to her hometown, what can I do?
Q. Hi, im stuck in a realy big muddle. ive been seeing this girl for 4 1/2 years and we live together. she moved away from her home town and settled 130 miles away with me and got a good job which she loves. i work away lots of the time so dont get to ...
A. 3 January 2008: She's a big girl, you're a big boy...just be honest! It's certainly not helping the relationship if you don't even want to be in it anymore!
You know, she may not even leave...maybe she'll stay in the area. I don't know how long ago she moved, but ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated on me but she says nothing was wrong in our relationship, what can I do to understand why this happened?
Q. Hi All My girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me in december with somebody from work. As you can understand i was pretty shocked by this and am still hurting now. I asked her why she did this and she said that she didnt know why. I asked her if the...
A. 3 January 2008: Wow, that's tough. I'm sorry that she cheated on you :(
You both need to be as open as possible about this and figure out what you want to do with the relationship. Some people would say drop her like a hot potato so she won't hurt you again, b... (read in full...)
If I get pregnant, should I tell my mum or is it better having an abortion without telling her?
Q. Me and My Boyfriend Have Been Together For Over A Year and In September We Decided To Have Sex. Everything Was Fine When We Has Sex But The Other Day We Ran Out Of Condoms So We Had Sex But He Pulled Out When He Was About To Cum. The Only ...
A. 3 January 2008: You should *really* talk to your mom...regardless if you are pregnant or not. Let her know that you had a 'scare' (if you are not pregnant) so that maybe she'll help you, or direct you, as far as what to do about getting on the pill or something.
I... (read in full...)
Am I being a crazy girlfriend or are my feelings justified?
Q. For those of you that haven't read my previous question, I am a 25 year old white female who is dating a 19 year old black male. He treats me really good and we have good time together...but lately we have been fighting alot. In the beginning of the ...
A. 3 January 2008: Are you sure that you are ready for a relationship? Regardless of how long it's been, are you sure you're in a relationship for the right reasons? You said in your post that you're not sure if you're just afraid to be alone, basically? Am I right?
I... (read in full...)
Would I be a fool to risk being hurt by him again?
Q. Hey all, im really sorry for posting this problem Again..(and again and again) However new details have emerged. Ok so my boyfriend of over 2yrs sent a msg to a girl sayin "she cant be more unreal than you.ha are you setting me up.ha" I know this ...
A. 3 January 2008: The fact that he was texting his ex, regardless of who started it, would bother me, too, but I don't know, has he ever given you reason to believe that he's cheated on you? Ever?
No one can make this decision for you, and this is a hard ques... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to feel that he's not satisfied with me?
Q. I have been with my bf for a year and a half now and we have a very good sex life but yesterday i caught him looking at porn and it really hurt me and made me feel that i am not satisfying enough for him and that our sex life isnt satisfying enough ...
A. 3 January 2008: You are overreacting...whether they admit it or not, I'd say a majority of men look at porn whether they have a fulfilling sex life or not! Men's brains are wired to look at other women. They look when they see a pretty girl walking down the street, ... (read in full...)
Do I want to know the details of my girlfriend's previous sexlife, or is it better to leave it be?
Q. Ok, so my girlfriend has told me that she fooled around with her ex-boyfriend (her boyfriend at the time), and I mean I want to know exactly how far they went together but not really sure how to ask or even to ask, I mean I really care about her and ...
A. 3 January 2008: I would leave it be, if she wants you to know, she'll tell you :)
Sometimes, even though people might not think so, learning their partner's past sex life can stir up some jealous feelings, and maybe not even jealousy, but they are not positive feel... (read in full...)
My dad used to hurt me and I can't let anyone get close to me, please help
Q. gee...well i've never actually used one of these before. um...hiya, im 17 and i went out with this guy for 2 years who i've recently broken up with. and he was great, y'know? and i'm pretty sure i loved him but the thing is i got terrified of how ...
A. 31 December 2007: The vicious cycle of abuse rears it's ugly head :(
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. My dad was abusive (verbally and emotionally, but never physically) and I have a *very* hard time carrying on ANY relationships with men. I feel bad for my p... (read in full...)
I've been fooling around with this guy, but he doesn't want me to tell anyone, should I carry on seeing him?
Q. I'm 16 and I've been sorta seeing this guy [we'll call him A] for a month now. He hasn't asked me out yet and we've fooled around but haven't had sex. I'm really starting to like A more and more but is scared that he might just be using me. A is a ...
A. 31 December 2007: Ditto :)
If he's that crazy about you, he wouldn't want to keep you hidden.
Let him know that you'd like more from the relationship and see what happens.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
My newly single neighbour is 15 years older than me, I'd like advice on how to get her into bed
Q. I have known this very beautiful and fun woman in my neighborhood for about ten years. We have been friends and have enjoyed doing many things together. I am 20 and she is 35. About a year ago she was divorced and her ex is not in the picture. She ...
A. 31 December 2007: The fact that, as soon as you mention it, she changes the subject tells me that maybe she wasn't so sure it was a good idea. Maybe she feels a bit guilty?? She's known you for a *long* time and that can be awkward, and maybe hard to accept that you ... (read in full...)
My partners daughter resents me, how do I handle this?
Q. Dear Cupid. This has got to be a recurrent problem. I adore my partner. We met at work, and our feelings grew from there. She has 3 children, the eldest, a boy of 18, and the youngest, who is a girl of 8, have presented, and continue to pres...
A. 31 December 2007: Coming in to a family can always be a bit of a challenge, and this is definitely one of those situations. Don't try to be the father figure, that would probably cause more resentment. Remember that she is not your daughter, she's your girlfriend's ... (read in full...)
I ejaculate too soon, please help!!
Q. Hi I've just turned 17 and me and my girlfriend have started having sex. Everythings fine and i have an erection and then we start doing it and i ejaculate in less than 1 minute. I dunno whats going on. Sometimes i can only last for 30 seconds a...
A. 31 December 2007: There are also creams that you can apply to yourself that desensitize, but like Brooke5426 said, a lot of guys who just start having sex have this problem! Nothing to be ashamed of, it's just normal.... (read in full...)
We are 'friends with benefits'...Is that all he sees me as?
Q. hey all! Ok this might sound confusing or something but id really like your veiws... K....... I met this guy on the internet around 5 years ago he's 31 and im 20,and he's what you can call a friend with benefits. We've been sleeping togethe...
A. 31 December 2007: It sounds like booty call to me. Do you guys ever do anything else besides have sex? If not, then you're definitely just bed buddies, and that can really be a bummer after awhile, because usually someone starts to get connected and they want more ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend ejaculates too quickly all the time, how do I help this?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together a year. We have sex fairly regularly, between one to four times a week. His problem is that most of the time he comes to soon. He likes to make sure I have an orgasm everytime we have sex, he's a ve...
A. 31 December 2007: LOL...been here before, and speaking from experience, it's usually because they are just so excited by you.
We used a desensitizing ointment on my husband for awhile, and it worked wonders, the kind of thing that Dr. John, is talking about. You can ... (read in full...)
I'm in love but don't know how to take the next step, I'm really scared to mess this up so what do I do now??
Q. im not sure wt the next stp is.... i mean i talk to her online, shes 16 im 14... i think about her ALL of the time and i mean ALL of the time... i kno we arent ready for a relationship even if she loved me - i dont see how she could love me tho......
A. 31 December 2007: Is there something you guys would enjoy doing, that can be fun and friendly? Like getting ice cream or something or getting lunch together. I'm *trying* to think of what I was in to when I was 14-16, but it's just not coming to me! Maybe ask your ... (read in full...)
I am 15 and pregnant I need advice how to tell my mom
Q. i am 15 years old and 15 weeks pregnant i dont know how to tell my mom and i told a lady that has been helping me through all this i would tell her within my winter break which will end on the 7th i am scared my mom will hate my boyfiend and there ...
A. 31 December 2007: You need to tell her as soon as you can. You need to get to a doctor, you need good prenatal care! There are a lot of programs that help out teen moms, I'm sure I could point you toward some resources (if you don't have them already) if you email ... (read in full...)
His mistress is pregnant and is threatening-- that my husband cannot see his child if he remains with me!
Q. I found out about a year ago that my husband was having an affair. I was devestated. However we dealt with it and I forgave him. After he broke up with her, things were to my knowledge really good, and I felt like we were going to make it. However ...
A. 31 December 2007: First off, I would suggest a paternity test ASAP :) Right after the baby is born, ask for one. And secondly, he is the FATHER, he has rights too!! He can have a paternity test ordered on the baby, I know here if it's court ordered they have to ... (read in full...)
Help me..does it sound like he really likes me or is he playing/using me once again?
Q. Dear cupid, When I was 18 I really liked this boy a lot and we ended up having sex but then after we did have sex he ignored me and I noticed he flirted with another girl. Then some time after I found out I was pregnant I tried te...
A. 31 December 2007: It really doesn't sound like he's using you, but I would be careful about the marriage thing. This is not something you should just jump into, marriage is a permanent thing! It sounds like he's owning up to his responsibilities as a dad, which is ... (read in full...)
Is it a bad idea to let any potential bf know that you have been in an abusive relationship?
Q. Is it a bad idea to let any potential bf know that you have been in an abusive relationship? Could this make you more open to abusers? At what stage is it safe to let someone know that you were in an abusive relationship? ...
A. 31 December 2007: I don't think it's bad to let a boyfriend know that you've been in an abusive relationship, but I don't know if it'd be necessary to let a POTENTIAL boyfriend know about your past.
You don't have to define yourself by events of your past :) Once... (read in full...)
My husband's dog, is driving me crazy! I'm pregnant and having a hard time...any advice?
Q. I waited my whole life to find the "one" (got married this year for the first time and am expecting a baby). Life is good! However, there are a few big stressors in my life that I am having a very hard time coping with. My husband and I li...
A. 31 December 2007: We have a dog that has massive seperation anxiety...I get it :) It's awful!
There are compromises in this situation, such as hiring a dog trainer. We also had to hook up a trolley system in our backyard so she can be hooked up while outside (she... (read in full...)
My hubby is into swinging amongst other things, but we rarely have sex, is this normal?
Q. My husband is into dogging and swinging - we hardly ever have sex, when we do it is always after he has been stimulated by the internet or chat rooms,pictures, web cam etc. I always have to go on top and he never comes? We have been to swinging...
A. 31 December 2007: You need to talk to each other, find out what's going on. I don't think this situation sounds normal, though...... (read in full...)
We both want to have sex, but I am not great in bed, she on the other hand has a lot of experience, its burning me up inside, help me!
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for almost two months now, and we really want to have sex, but I'm dead afraid! We love each other and that is for certain. I am not a virgin, I just know that I am not that great at bed. She is younger than me and still ...
A. 31 December 2007: I agree with baby duck, you need to check your jealousy at the door! That will get you nowhere...it'll only cause problems in your relationship. If you can't get over her past, then you should probably not continue a relationship with her. Period. ... (read in full...)
Who do I contact to separate from my wife, 3 months after the marriage? Will I lose the house? Can I banish her?
Q. hiya any help on what to do next ive got to get out of this relationship i will start from the beginning, my girlfriend and her son (not mine) moved into my house about two years ago all seemed great she did not pay for any bills as said she had ...
A. 29 December 2007: Well, as always, I would recommend counseling before any kind of divorce process, but if that's not an option, you'd have to find out the divorce laws in your country. I know here in the US, once you get married, unless a prenup is signed, ... (read in full...)
How do I refrain from reminding her all the time of her infidelities, as I do want to continue together for the children's sake but it's hard to bury the past?
Q. i have been with my partner for 11 years, and she has cheated on me three times,the last one was the worst cos it was with my best mate,i love her to bits,but every time we argue i always bring it up i dont mean to but it happens,how can i get it ...
A. 29 December 2007: You need to seek joint counseling. Find out what about your relationship is not working for her, and work on that. Find out why she's cheated multiple times, there may be something that is an easy fix in your relationship.
My dad cheated on my mo... (read in full...)
All I do is flirt and talk sexy for harmless fun, yet he sees it as cheating. Am I mad to be with such a man?
Q. I am horrified to find my fiance has been using aliases to make dates with me on chat sites. When he found my first profile i changed it. Somehow he found my other and strung me along. I am livid. How dare he! I feel invaded, he is pathetic. Sad ...
A. 29 December 2007: Obviously this has been going on for awhile, so I think he probably has reason to be upset. Why do you go on these dating sites in the first place? Is there something lacking in the relationship? Isn't there an option on the sites that says you're ... (read in full...)
I want to come out with my sexuality (I'm bi) but I'm afraid people will say I am copying my best friend.
Q. I'm bisexual and I've been totally comfortable with that for a good while now but nobody knows. A couple of years ago my best friend 'came out'. Since then she changes if she's gay, bi or straight every other month and she's even had relation...
A. 28 December 2007: You have to be true to yourself, regardless of what other people say :)
Who cares if they think you are 'copying' your friend! Is it worth living a lie?... (read in full...)
Any advice on what to do with my hymen problem????
Q. Heya. I used a tampon once and it really hurt me. So i haven't done it since. My boyfriend and i are thinking about sex but i am really scared of the pain. I did horseback riding for 8 years and i have done football, but my hymen is still ...
A. 28 December 2007: Anxiety usually increases the pain level, so make sure you are GOOD AND READY, both mentally and physically, before you do it. You should be relaxed when you try. Sure, it hurts a bit having sex for the first time, and trust me, the 'first time' is ... (read in full...)
I have a lump bigger than a grape in my vagina and I'm really scared, what could it be?
Q. im so scared and i have tried to research this but don't know what is wrong with me, can somebody please help!! My vagina has been swolen and sore for the past week or so, and i got green thick discharge the other day too. I thought i had a ...
A. 28 December 2007: Get to a doctor ASAP...this is very abnormal discharge and you either have an infection or have been exposed to an STD. You need an exam right away. Even if it is some kind of infection (a trichomonas infection produces green, frothy-ish discharge) ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I'm in love with a 19 year old...what should I do?
Q. ok i'm 13 and i'm in love with this 19 year old guy and he really loves me for me. but he is scared to ask me out because of the age different. but he wants no sex or anything. he doesn't even mind people seeing us together. should we go out or not? ...
A. 28 December 2007: Ditto to Kenny!!! The fact that a 19 year old is interested in a 13 year old is *very* strange and puts red flags up all over my brain.
Not to mention, if things ever did get physical with you and him, your parents could file statutory rape char... (read in full...)
I'm in love but don't know how to take the next step, I'm really scared to mess this up so what do I do now??
Q. im not sure wt the next stp is.... i mean i talk to her online, shes 16 im 14... i think about her ALL of the time and i mean ALL of the time... i kno we arent ready for a relationship even if she loved me - i dont see how she could love me tho......
A. 28 December 2007: You have to be sincere, let her know how you feel! Trust me, you're not the only person whose ever been in this situation. If you really admire her as much as you do, then you should tell her so!
Otherwise, how is she ever supposed to know how ... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend dumped me and blame it on her hormones, is this normal?
Q. my girlfriend is 20 weeks pregnant and she has dumped me , she says its her hormones and that she has done it so that she can sort her head out but she has wanted to see more of me ever since she dumped me is this normal....
A. 28 December 2007: I know hormones can, most of the time, get the best of a girl! They can turn a normally nice, normal girl into a woman that hates you with the fire of a thousand suns :)
*SO*
Get to the bottom of the issue. She said she dumped you because she ... (read in full...)
Why won't he pleasure me?
Q. dear agony aunt i really hope you can help. i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and i have noticed at the beginging of the relationship he is so greedy in the bedroom its all about him. i will pleasure him but when its his ...
A. 28 December 2007: Yes, this can be a difficult subject to talk to your partner about, because it can be seen as maybe a criticism that they're not doing their job. It's *great* that you guys have open communication, that's a start! Just let him know that you'd really ... (read in full...)
What are my chances of being pregant??
Q. I was wondering if anyone could help me out? Me and my hubby are trying to have a baby and i had my period on dec.11th and i used a fertilty calculator and it said im most fertile on dec.25th but i can am fertile as well the whole week up to the 2...
A. 28 December 2007: The whole reason you get a period is because your body says "Okay, no egg has implanted in my uterus" thus the shedding of the lining of your uterus. So, when you get your period the lining of the uterus AND the egg are shed out.
You CAN get preg... (read in full...)
What are the chances I am pregant this time around??
Q. hello, I'm am one of the many TTC. i think i have narrowed my fertile dates down to 13th-16th with 16th being ovulation day...all of these are according to internet sites. To increase my chances i had sex every one of those days. What do you thin...
A. 28 December 2007: Sorry, I meant 2 days :) Sperm can stay alive for around 2 days inside...... (read in full...)
What are the chances I am pregant this time around??
Q. hello, I'm am one of the many TTC. i think i have narrowed my fertile dates down to 13th-16th with 16th being ovulation day...all of these are according to internet sites. To increase my chances i had sex every one of those days. What do you thin...
A. 28 December 2007: If you also have regular periods, you can chart and that will tell you when your fertile days are. There are some websites that can help with that. The Basal thermometer also helps as well, and there are many signs that you are ovulating, such as ... (read in full...)
Why won't he pleasure me?
Q. dear agony aunt i really hope you can help. i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and i have noticed at the beginging of the relationship he is so greedy in the bedroom its all about him. i will pleasure him but when its his ...
A. 28 December 2007: First off, some guys need to know EXACTLY what you want done. Now, when you say pleasure, is it sex that you're talking about, or is it like, 'personal' pleasure, like oral sex and whatnot? If it's regular sex, you may need to direct him. If he ... (read in full...)
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