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writes:my girlfriend is 20 weeks pregnant and she has dumped me , she says its her hormones and that she has done it so that she can sort her head out but she has wanted to see more of me ever since she dumped me is this normal. Reply to this Question
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reader, angel__23 +, writes (3 July 2009):
GUYS YOUR BEING TESTED!! Guys I'm a girl whose just found out she is 4 weeks pregnant. Trust me your girl friends are testing you. Not because they want to be cruel but they need to know that if they push you away, you'll fight for them and your child and prove yourself to be the man/ father to your child that they need you to be. Of course this may not be true in all cases. Mostly what I'm experiencing now is just pure fear. If I make the decision to push my guy away he cant reject me or our child. No woman wants to do this alone so my best advice guys is to keep trying. :) and well done guys for wanting to stick around xx
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reader, iain +, writes (18 April 2009):
My girl friend fel pregnant about oooh 2 to 3 months ago and said she`d lost her feelings for me but would try then dumped me. Both times this happened i felt nervous because she was so hormonal and angry looking. I have not heard from her for 2 weeks and now she is up at her mother`s house. My mum met her mum for a coffee and her mum said there was no chance of us working, it was a definite. She said she wasn`t sure if she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. I am going to become a dad and she has finsihed our relationship. It has torn me apart so i wrote her a letter and she should get in when she gets home to her flat. I dunno if it`s just hormones or if she doesn`t actually want to be with me. I have never felt this amount of pain and hurt every before :`( Iain Stewart
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reader, iain +, writes (18 April 2009):
My girl friend fel pregnant about oooh 2 to 3 months ago and said she`d lost her feelings for me but would try then dumped me. Both times this happened i felt nervous because she was so hormonal and angry looking. I have not heard from her for 2 weeks and now she is up at her mother`s house. My mum met her mum for a coffee and her mum said there was no chance of us working, it was a definite. She said she wasn`t sure if she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. I am going to become a dad and she has finsihed our relationship. It has torn me apart so i wrote her a letter and she should get in when she gets home to her flat. I dunno if it`s just hormones or if she doesn`t actually want to be with me. I have never felt this amount of pain and hurt every before :`( Iain Stewart
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reader, themester21  +, writes (29 December 2008):
holy crap! My girlfriend did that to. She just found out she was pregnant. Then I didn't see her for 3 weeks. Then she dumped me. She said she wants me to be a best friend. But now that we're not dating, she wants to talk and hang out all the time. Did she say she wants to take a break? I know it probably hurt right?
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reader, x-Happy-Feet-x +, writes (1 January 2008):
 well i seriously think you need to talk to her because yout talking about a baby here that is your baby too you need to get back with her maybe take her out or somethign and get back with her because im sure she will need you for her and need you to look after her but not only that you must miss her xx
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reader, mama2three +, writes (28 December 2007):
 I know hormones can, most of the time, get the best of a girl! They can turn a normally nice, normal girl into a woman that hates you with the fire of a thousand suns :)
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Get to the bottom of the issue. She said she dumped you because she needs to sort her head out. Have you guys discussed this at all? Maybe she's a little freaked out by the pregnancy thing, the fact that you two are joined through a child, you will always be bonded in that way. It can happen, but I would suggest trying to get to the bottom of it. Trying to work out things with a pregnant woman is like walking on eggshells lol, so good luck to you! I hope you get this figured out!
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reader, christiana +, writes (28 December 2007):
Yes,This is normal. When I was pregnant I broke up with my child's father on several occassions. There were moments when I could not even look at him without feeling the need to vomit.Trust me when you are pregnant, you are bound to do just about anything. Why do you think we have so many cravings when we are pregnant.
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reader, LouLee +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Yes perfectly normal, she does love you and it sounds like everything she says is true. As i would've probably been exactly the same so just be kind and forgive her hun...
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