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writes:im so scared and i have tried to research this but don't know what is wrong with me, can somebody please help!!My vagina has been swolen and sore for the past week or so, and i got green thick discharge the other day too. I thought i had a small infection but a few hours ago i discovered, deep in my vagina on the right hand side, theres a lump bigger than a grape that feels very hard and round... im really really petrified!!! My boyfriend tried to finger me two nights ago and it felt very strange compared to usual, he was gentle and didnt go that deep but i was really sore and had to stop him. i think this lump is on the outside of my cervix but im quite unsure about the anatomy to be perfectly honest. i have only had one sexual partner and to my knowledge he is clean. Could it be from new fluids? my current boyfriend has given me oral for the first time a week ago and this is when it all started. he and i have never had sex but my previous boyfriend and i have had it unprotected several times... he has no STDs and i know this because his EX has no STDS, i went with her to get her checked out and she was fine, dosnt this mean is he ok too? he was always very loyal so i know he didnt stray.or at least im pretty sure he didnt..please someone help! is this just a cyst? its really really scaring me. :(
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reader, sexylover0017  +, writes (31 December 2007):
Prolly a bartholin cyst. Ive had 2 before. It will either heal on its own (unlikely) or you will have to get it drained which is a bit painful but is very relieving. Conact me for any questions. Do online research on bartholin cysts- very helpful.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (29 December 2007):
 Go to the doctors sweetie it could be an ulcer in which case you have to get it removed (not as scary as it sounds just a bit uncomfortable)but go as soon as you can to get it checked out and make you more comfortable and put your mind at ease.
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reader, Landie  +, writes (29 December 2007):
 Go see a doctor its the best thing to do. I don't think its a STD but next time both you and your partner go for STD tests before starting a sexual relationship.
Its the only way to be sure. But most important go see a doc as soon as you can.
good luck
Hope its nothing serious
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (29 December 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
Go to a doctor a.s.a.p. there is no need to be scared, you just need to see a professional or your problem could get much, much worse. In your case, the sooner you get to a doctor, the better. Please go immediately!!!
Good luck, sweetness. You'll be fine if you take care of yourself... call a doctor.
xx India
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reader, mama2three +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Get to a doctor ASAP...this is very abnormal discharge and you either have an infection or have been exposed to an STD. You need an exam right away. Even if it is some kind of infection (a trichomonas infection produces green, frothy-ish discharge) it could have an impact on your fertility and a number of other things.
Get treatment right away.
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reader, dc.ryan +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Hello,
You need to go see a doctor as soon as you can, unfortunately we can't daignose this problem online for you without further inspection (and don't send us pictures!) - the best thing for you to do is book a doctors appointment ASAP and get a professional opinion.
From what you've described, the discharge etc does not sound good and the longer you leave it, the chances of it becoming healed are less - book an appointment tomorrow morning!
This should of been the first thing you did, is contact your family doctor - don't worry about seeing your doctor as they handle this kind of thing every single day (you are definately not alone) and they are used to it.
Please book your doctors appointment in the next 24 hours - it is very important you do so. Try not to worry to much, just make the step to seeing a doctor and it'll make you feel a hell of a lot better!
Ryan
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reader, LouLee +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Sounds like nothing to worry about, could be a cyst/polyp...my mother had one removed like a month ago....i'd advise you to go to your doctor and you'll get admitted to the hospital to get it removed, as it could be cancerous. thats if it is a cyst/polyp....id get it looked at urgently though..
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reader, christiana +, writes (28 December 2007):
This could be a cyst but to be on the safe side, I suggest you go to the doctor because you would rather be safe than sorry. Just remember you should always practice safe sex. Love yourself more than you love someone who would allow you to have unprotected sex with them.Go to the doctor and get yourself checked out because some sexually transmitted diseases can lead to cervical cancer.
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