Should I tell my neighbour I had sex with his wife
Q. The other night I was having beers with a few mates, on my back deck .Being a single male there is always people at my house they come and go as they please pretty relax and social atmosphere My neighbour came over with a drink as her husband ...
A. 20 May 2014: She doesn't come over as the faithful wife,there might be problems in the marriage if she came on to you.If you do tell him expect fireworks at the least.She might blurt it out in an argument which would be just as bad.You can pretend it never ... (read in full...)
They're getting married in nine days and I KNOW he is cheating on her!
Q. One of my lifelong friends is getting married to the man of her dreams in 9 days. They have been together 4 years and have a daughter who is just 6 months old. This morning I've found out that he has been having an affair. I don't just suspect, I ...
A. 28 March 2014: They always say the messenger gets shot in these situations but I would let her know anonymously somehow and make it public to shame him.... (read in full...)
My husband has confessed but my best friend says she can't remember!
Q. While I was pregnant my husband and a argument and I've since found out that he went to my best friend one thing led to another and he gave her oral sex, she tried to give him it but he says it didnt happen as he couldn't get an erection, is this ...
A. 28 March 2014: Your best friend seems to have selective amnesia,she should be your ex friend now.Your husband did cheat and the ball is in your court now as to what action you take.I don't think you can get over this,it'll always be in the back of your mind.The ... (read in full...)
Condom wrapper and girl's scarf found in my boyfriend's car… I'm having trouble trusting him! Any advice?
Q. I'm having trouble trusting my boyfriend of a year and a half . I have been burned in the past (cheated on) and am a naturally suspicious person. Here's my dilemma. 1) I found a ripped open condom wrapper in my boyfriends car. Near the drivers...
A. 28 March 2014: He's definitely cheated on you I'm afraid.Don't listen to his pathetic excuses,dump him.... (read in full...)
If he was really that into me would he be secretly messaging another girl?
Q. Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for four years and I've never had a reason to not trust him. Recently things have been rough but we seem to of worked through it together and everything for the last month has been great. However we w...
A. 26 March 2014: 4 years in a relationship,this is not appropriate behaviour from him,read him the riot act and if he ignores it move on and dump him.... (read in full...)
He slept with someone else right before our wedding was scheduled
Q. I have been married for 9 weeks and now my husband decides to tell me that he slept with a work colleague last year but thinks because its a one off that I should be able to move on and forgive him. Our wedding had to be pushed back due to the ...
A. 26 March 2014: He doesn't sound very trustworthy,i don't think you'll ever be able to forgive or forget this.How would he feel if you had slept with another man before the wedding?You're not a failure as a wife,he's the failure!i don't think anyone would blame you ... (read in full...)
How do you confront a liar cheating wife with the facts?
Q. . My wife does not know I know she's cheated. I have all the proof I need and it's causing me to distant my personal life from her. I see my wife stressing over me pulling away from her, she appears to not understand why I stopped showing her ...
A. 26 March 2014: If it were my wife I would ask for a divorce,i just couldn't forgive her.The relationship may have been ok for you but clearly wasn't for her.Once a cheater always a cheater.I think you deserve a better woman.Good luck.... (read in full...)
My man wants to sleep with the traveling chick we picked up in MY van...
Q. So me (24) and my boyfriend (42) pick up a traveling girl, we helped her break up with her boyfriend. Well my BF had been talking about bringing another girl into the bedroom with us... I'm not really into sharing and I warned him I might hurt her ...
A. 3 March 2014: You should dump him as soon as possible.He clearly doesn't love or respect you.... (read in full...)
Should I tell his wife her husband is sleeping with my wife??
Q. My wife cheated on me a few times then suddenly moved out leaving me with my 2 daughters who are still in school. The anger was eating at me so bad that I went to a counselor to keep myself under control, I wanted to make my wife's life as miserabl...
A. 3 March 2014: I feel your pain and betrayal,i think you should instigate divorce proceedings against her. Keep the E-mails and all the proof you have of her infidelities. You'll see how long her lover will want her knowing you're divorcing her. What's the chance ... (read in full...)
Can I ever really trust her after I found out about her threesome?
Q. 6 months into our relationship my girlfriend went on holiday and I later found out that she had a threesome with two men she met in a nightclub while she was away. After she said it was just a crazy one off I forgave her. But I just can't get ...
A. 27 February 2014: I'm afraid this is going to eat at your relationship with this girl and is not going to go away.To cheat with one person is bad enough but with two is unforgivable and just shows what kind of girl she really is.There's no future in this ... (read in full...)
If she isn't hiding anything, why the secrecy? Why the distance?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months. Our relationship has been great and really seems to have a potential future, but my girlfriends behavior troubles me... Yesterday she mentioned that she was out with a friend. I'm not one to pry, ...
A. 21 February 2014: You seriously need to talk to one another.The sudden lack of affection from her shows something is amiss coupled with the "friend" thing.Is she secretive with her mobile?... (read in full...)
My fiancée is having a stroppy moment over something seemingly small, why?
Q. Hi aunts n uncles, I have been with my fiancée for three years now, shes 23 im 26. The other night I told her that I was going to Bath in Somerset to maintain some equipment for a few nights and I said that I would like to be in my own bed when ...
A. 21 February 2014: I find it odd to go months without sex and then all of a sudden wanting it every night.Who does the instigating?Maybe she's feeling insecure all of a sudden about your commitment to her.Have you got a low sex drive or something?There's something out ... (read in full...)
Is history repeating itself? I took my ex back but we have problems.
Q. So cut a story short, I met a guy when I was 17, went through some really bad stuff, lying and cheating. Settled down at 19 and had my son, but then he kept staying out all night getting drunk. So I moved back to my mams in may 2012, after find...
A. 17 February 2014: Exes become exes for a reason.Dump him for good this time and learn a lesson.... (read in full...)
How can I meet someone who is the average only?
Q. I don't know what else to do with my life. I am at my wits end. I just came from a break-up from my 4 year relationship and I am trying to meet new people. I am in a location where it's really difficult to find a new partner. It's either peop...
A. 17 February 2014: I'm afraid you'll find it hard to find Mr average today.When I was a teenager "sex life" was never mentioned to the opposite sex,you had to "romance" a girl,it was the done thing at the time.Now it's all changed there's no romance and the boy ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is acting sneaky with his laptop and phone!
Q. I live with my boyfriend of 5 years and have always trusted him but have been noticing recently that he acts sneaky with his phone and laptop. If I come into the room he will swipe everything off his page so that I can't see he also always makes ...
A. 17 February 2014: This guy is disrespecting you to say the least.This relationship has run it's course I'm afraid.He sounds like he's a cheat and not to invite you out is an insult.Let him go and disrespect someone else,he clearly doesn't love you.... (read in full...)
Did she cheat?
Q. My girlfriend and i have been together 6 months and are in love. She travels for her job and i've sacrificed a lot because of this. Currently she is across the country for 3 months. She recently went on a weekend trip w friends. It was a few girls ...
A. 6 February 2014: I was listening to a TV programme this morning about cheating.A relationship counsellor phoned in and said the biggest change he's seen in recent years has been a massive increase in female infidelity in relationships.Im afraid your girlfriend is ... (read in full...)
He cheated with a girl who is still his friend
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and recently he confessed to having a one night stand with a friend after we'd been together about a month. I feel terrible and betrayed and I don't know whether I can forgive him. I know he really ...
A. 6 February 2014: I don't think you can trust this bloke,he'll probably sleep with her again.Dump him.... (read in full...)
Why do women at night clubs dress provocatively?
Q. Why do the girls at the clubs dress like sluts?? We went to a club last weekend and there were many women barely dressed. One had a dress on so short that her ass was showing and she bent over a few times. Do they really need that much attention?...
A. 6 February 2014: Most men and women go to clubs to hopefully pull a partner.Dressing provocatively gets you noticed quicker but you might get the wrong type of attention.... (read in full...)
I think I have a phobia against vomit?
Q. This weekend me and my boyfriend went to a party and stayed in a hotel. He had quite a bit to drink and as a result of this, threw it all back up when we got back to our room. ( I know this information isn't lovely but there is a point ) I think I ...
A. 28 January 2014: vomiting can be unpleasant for a lot of people.I've only done it about three times in my life due to illnesses.It's the body's way of getting rid of toxins and is quite effective and nothing to be ashamed of.... (read in full...)
Why do you last longer during sex with someone that you love?
Q. Hello cupid I was wondering why do you last more during sex (no foreplay involved) with someone you love compared to someone you just want to hook up ? why does it differ when you are the same person ? Also it differs from partner to partner ...
A. 28 January 2014: I don't understand how you can say you love someone and not engage in foreplay which is the most important thing when you love someone.There's sex and there's making love which is emotionally more pleasureable.... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend is cheating on me!
Q. my girlfriend and i have been dating for a year now,we hav been living in the same compound up until last month. She relocated in another town,my problem is that sometimes when we hav a phone conversation and i start talking about her kising...
A. 20 January 2014: Something has changed in her behaviour for you to have written this letter.I think it's quite rude of her to hang up abruptly in your phone conversations.I think you think there's someone else there when you phone her.Next time you phone her have a ... (read in full...)
I'm married to a nice man but have a crush on my doctor!
Q. Help! Gee, this may seem silly but I need help getting over a crush! I am married to a wonderful husband, great kids, career, and I am fit and healthy. When things are going wrong in the office, or my husband and I have a disagreement I can't help ...
A. 13 January 2014: A doctor occupies a position of trust and should not flirt with his patients which is unethical.These fantasies should remain in your head only.I'm sure there are many more women in the same position as you but never act on these fantasies.... (read in full...)
How do others get over their first love?
Q. I was dumped last May. We were together for 3 years. He was my first. First sex, first I love you and first serious relationship. I know this may sound strange, but I started dating when I was 26. Before him, all the guys I met were those who liked ...
A. 13 January 2014: The first person you fall in love with will always have a special place in your heart.I can sense your sadness at being dumped but the passing of time will heal your heart and before long you'll fall in love again.The first girl I fell in love with ... (read in full...)
I suspect my wife is cheating
Q. I am married for my second time and feel I may have made a major mistake. She is a teacher and on the surface seemed to be the kind of person I was looking for. She was into family as at the time we both had kids about the same age at that tim...
A. 13 January 2014: Sex stopping between partners can be a sign of cheating .Get more evidence,you have every right to know what's going on and where you stand.I hope to God for your sake she's not one of these teachers having a sexual liaison with one of her pupils ... (read in full...)
Missing condoms have raised my suspicions
Q. Dating a great man for about one year and he is not ready to commit. He has been divorced for 5 years and is not ready for a serious relationship ( I know I know I'm stupid for staying loyal to him ) He is 34 and I am 31 I went to his house on Sat...
A. 13 January 2014: I think you were wise to trust your instincts here.He has cheated I'm afraid and with more than one woman by the looks of it,how else do you mislplace a box of condoms?You would keep them in a safe place.The fact that he won't commit to you says it ... (read in full...)
What happened in Vegas didn't stay in Vegas!
Q. my wife and i have been together for almost 3 years and have been married almost 1 year. we have had our fair share of bumps and bruises. 2 months ago, i broke a promise to her by going to a strip club with my friends on my birthday. i have been ...
A. 7 January 2014: Most women do not cheat but I know a lot do when they think they can get away with it.What will happen when her friend's husband gets to hear of your divorce?is he in the dark about this?Will your wife get half your money if she was at fault?... (read in full...)
I can't help feeling something happened, but she says it didn't!
Q. I have been married for a little over 6 years. We have had our share of problems but nothing major then about 2 years ago we just stopped having sex . My wife claimed that she just wasn't in the mood, this went on for about a year and a half. I was ...
A. 7 January 2014: It really does sound like she's up to something.Have you tried to gather evidence like having her tailed,ie private detective.It sounds like she's out of love with you,it's always horrible when this happens with one partner.I can tell this is eating ... (read in full...)
I want to try swinging, but I don't know if I can without him loving me!
Q. Ok, we have only been dating about 5 months but I'm really fallen for him. I could even say I am falling in love.(I'm 44 and he is 46) I ended a 25 y marriage, but have been dating for about 4 y and this is the most serious relationship I have ...
A. 7 January 2014: People who genuinely love one another will not want to swing in my opinion,Why would you want to share the person you love with a stranger?It's just loveless hedonism.... (read in full...)
I get turned on when my boyfriend is away, why?
Q. Hey! Im 21 years old, sexually active. I have a 2 and a half year old daughter, and I have a boyfriend whom is 10 years older, and we've been together for over a year. We have sex pretty much all the time, at least 7-10 times every single week. He ...
A. 7 January 2014: You're 21 and I can't see what the problem is?My god 10 times a week!You should be ecstatic and your partner.... (read in full...)
Is he potentially an abuser?
Q. dear cupids, my boyfriend hits his sister, and i fear that a man capable of hitting his sister will hit me too in the future. i explained my fear to him yet he did not promise to stop it, he simply danced around the subject promising that h...
A. 7 January 2014: Doesn't sound like you have a very romantic relationship.If he can hit his siblings then I would not trust him at all.He sounds the abusive type,the fact he uses physical violence shows him up as an abuser.I think it's only a matter of time before ... (read in full...)
How much space should I give someone with anxiety and depression?
Q. I have been dating a man for 8 months now. Most of the time he is a caring, loyal, loving man. However, he leads an extremely stressful life and suffers from anxiety and depression. He is in a failed marriage and is legally separated from his ...
A. 6 January 2014: Divorce is always a messy and frequently expensive.I think your fellow should seek medical help in case it drives him over the edge.... (read in full...)
What would you consider cheating?
Q. I have a question for everyone. Would do you consider as cheating? I am divorced and single and have started dating again. I am talking to a new guy mostly texting and he is very interested in me but is uneasy about me talking to other guys he consi...
A. 6 January 2014: If you're in a relationship and sending sexy texts to other guys then that is inappropriate and could be classed as cheating.I wouldn't like it either.How would you feel if he was sexy texting other females?... (read in full...)
After breaking up, am I obligated to speak to him again?
Q. I told this guy I was seeing that I'm fed up with what we have going . He can be quite rude and last night I said we cant be together nor can we be friends as he obviously can't hack it. Neither can I, the bitterness is real on his end yet he says ...
A. 6 January 2014: You know what he's like,you say he's rude and bitter .Why would you want to go back,he'll never change by the looks of it.You don't have to talk to him just walk away and be happy.... (read in full...)
Do I ignore married co-worker? I know I shouldn't act on my feelings!
Q. Hi. Well..I am in a strange situation and I'm not sure how to deal with it..I am in a long therm relationship but started to develop feelings for a married colleague and he has feelings for me for more than an year...we never talked about it ...
A. 6 January 2014: Well you are playing with fire here,you know he's married and does he have children?If you do cross the line you will be cheating well and truly on your partner and he on his wife.Don't do as many women have done and become a long time mistress ... (read in full...)
She and me, we are a pair of cheaters!
Q. i'll keep things simple my girlfriend went to a new years party and did shrooms n ectasy and had sex with another guy and she told me about it. i have cheated one her before but i told her and then she cheated one me after that now she did it ...
A. 5 January 2014: A long term relationship between you two will never work out.The cheating aspects will always bubble up in arguments between you and there will be a lot of friction and mistrust as you both have "form".... (read in full...)
My husband left me for my best friend. How is this all going to work out for us?
Q. OK, so here's my situation... it's a bit long, but still. My husband left me for my best friend the day after Boxing Day, and I found out because there was a photo of her in a bikini and him topless cuddling up to her in the snow in her garden saved ...
A. 5 January 2014: I would file for divorce and be shot of him as soon as possible.He's the one who deceived and cheated on you.That all important trust has been broken,it can never be the same again.... (read in full...)
Sex hurts too much! Is it possible to just be sexually incompatible with someone?
Q. So I have what feels to me like a pretty awkward question. I've tried researching online but can't find anything useful. I've been with my boyfriend on and off for two years now. He took my virginity and we've always been great together. Apart ...
A. 5 January 2014: Is he very large down there?does he have peyronie's affliction?what about his foreplay technique?are you fully lubricated and relaxed before penetration?There might be a fundamental incompatibility here.... (read in full...)
He has been sleeping with my best friend but wants another chance!
Q. My boyfriend who is18 slept with my best friend during our entire one year relationship . He says that he is sorry and doesn't know why he did it bit wants me to give him another chance...
A. 5 January 2014: You need to dump your boyfriend and your so-called best friend.They're both traitors and deserve one another,don't bother forgiving them.... (read in full...)
I went to the movies with a male friend. Was that cheating on my boyfriend?
Q. I've been friends with this guy for 2 years and 2 weeks ago he told me he's never had a gf before and that I was the first girl that got close to him and he developed feelings for me, I reminded him I have a boyfriend that I love, he said he was ...
A. 5 January 2014: Well your boyfriend was right to be angry with you.You should not have gone to the movies with him especially as he had said he has feelings for you.How would you feel if your boyfriend had gone to the movies with another girl behind your back? He ... (read in full...)
I don't want to seem boring during dinner conversation with my boyfriend and his friends!
Q. hello all, tonight i'm out for a meal with my boyfriend, his friend and his friends wife - i really am worried about conversation i'm not a natterer, a huge talker, i prefer to listen. i envy girls who get a bottle of wine a talk none stop for ages...
A. 5 January 2014: I'm sure after a glass of wine or two you will open up and become chatty.I'm quiet as hell when sober but after a pint or two i'll talk about anything.most people are like that I think.... (read in full...)
What happened in Vegas didn't stay in Vegas!
Q. my wife and i have been together for almost 3 years and have been married almost 1 year. we have had our fair share of bumps and bruises. 2 months ago, i broke a promise to her by going to a strip club with my friends on my birthday. i have been ...
A. 3 January 2014: Why do women get plastered when they go for a drink these days.Those type of men love these type of women as they are easily seduced.She gave a complete stranger oral sex without thinking of the consequences and I'm afraid she probably had full sex ... (read in full...)
I can't help feeling something happened, but she says it didn't!
Q. I have been married for a little over 6 years. We have had our share of problems but nothing major then about 2 years ago we just stopped having sex . My wife claimed that she just wasn't in the mood, this went on for about a year and a half. I was ...
A. 21 December 2013: All the signs you laid out are classic signs of her having an affair.I've seen these time and time again.It could be that they've called time on their affair,the lust dies down eventually or maybe they knew someone was on to them.Was the other guy ... (read in full...)
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