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writes:hi i'm just wondering if this guy is even into me or not or am i just wasting my time.he calls and talks to me all time but i have only seen him once in a month and the two other times i was supposed to see him it did not happen the problem is i'm starting to have feelings for him,could he be into me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007): Hi chick, All I can say is be careful i fell into the same trap nearly a year ago, I met a guy in a club we went for a drink but he stated before we went out that he wasnt ready for a relationship. But he was ringing me and texting me all the time even at work and most of the time he wasnt saying alot, then he started flirting with me and being sexual by text. I started to think maybe he is interested in me but doesnt want to admit it, I started to fall in love with him the more I saw of him but he was always adament that he just wanted to be friends. This mixed me up completely he was giving so many mixed signals that I ended up depressed. Overtime my feelings have subsided for him and we are just friends now, I made a point of saying that by contacting me all the time he is giving me the wrong impression of what he wants and that we should cut it back which seems to have worked. All I can say is try and sus him out now, see what he is looking for before you start to get emotionally involved, you may be lucky he may actually want more than just friendship from you which I hope he does, just be careful and dont let your heart rule your head like I did!
A friend x
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reader, luvme247 +, writes (12 April 2007):
 Well he calls you all the time so that would suggest that he is interested in you. I would think that if he was not interested then he wouldn't be the one calling you. But... he also could be calling you as a friend. It is hard to tell without knowing how his conversations go. The only way to know for sure is to ask him. Tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same way. The two times that you were going to go out did you end up canceling or did he not show up? I think if we knew a little more details we'd be able to help a little more.
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reader, trueheartconfused +, writes (12 April 2007):
Hi ;
I was in the same situation .
The answer is : you are wasting your time, I have some
guy friends, I asked them the same question about me
and the guy I was seeing. This is what they say:
A guy is not into you if he :
1) Does not want to see you or ask you out very often.
2) Call off things constantly .
3) Do not talk about the future with you .
4) Do not make plans to be with you , you are the one
making plans.
5) When you are together, he only stay for a short time,
and not seem very excited.
My guy displayed all of the above, and he called me
3 times a day !!! And he said he loves me. But he
does not follow up with his action .
I may be wrong but confront him about this , see what
he has to say, if you think he is making excuses,
leave him.
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 did you go out on a date when you met him? ask him were you stand, or tell him how you feel. you`ll never know anything unless you ask.
hope this helps x
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