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writes:My parents went away at the weekend, so I had a party. I definately had too much to drink and did some stupid things. Most dont bother me, but I only found out today (3 days later) that I may have kissed my friend's boyfriend. I dont remember it nor can any of my friends, they only heard about it from the friend who's boyfriend I "kissed", who apparently isnt sure now either.I would never do anything on purpose to break them up, I'm really happy that she's finally found someone. We've had our differences over the years, but for the past few months I felt like we were getting on a lot better and it made me happy.I can't figure out a way to make things ok again, without her biting my head off. she's not always that reasonable. I'm not even sure if something did happen. I really need to make things up though, but I'm too much of a coward to talk to her when Im not even sure what supposedly went on. How can I make her see that I never meant to hurt her without making it worse or seeming a like an insensitive bitch? Reply to this Question
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reader, nicola79 +, writes (20 February 2007):
 First thing first, You are not a bitch,just by reading your letter I can tell you are a lovely person and I would would be happy if I had a friend like you.I think everyone has done something daft one time or another,you are not the first and you will not be the last. I think you should be truefull with your friend. If she is a true friend she will listen to you,maybe shout and say she wants some time to think about things. It is best that it comes from you than from someone that has hurd half of the story. Also you should speak with your friends boyfriend and ask him if he remembers anything? I think if you did share a kiss you would remember something, just tell your friend the truth,then if anything comes from it at a later stage you wont have a thing to worry about, because you didnt lie to her.I will be thinking of you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, luvme247  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 Just deny it. If you don't remember anything happening, then it probably didn't happen. If it did, well... you were drunk. Just don't tell people that you don't remember. Stick to telling everyone that nothing happened. If something did happen, I am sure that your friends boyfriend isn't going to volenteerly open his mouth about it. Especially if he knows that you are denying it to everyone. If you really feel like you have to know, then stop asking all your friends about it & ask the guy you may have kissed. He should remember & if he doesn't, then agree together that nothing happened. Good Luck.
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