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writes:Dear Cupid, I find it completely impossible to ask anyone out. even if I am alone with them and chatting about stuff I just don't seem to be able to ask them. do you have any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007): hey i always had the same problem, but when i really liked this girl i caled her and because she answered i sorta had no choice but to ask. i just talked to her first then before we were about to hang up, i asked. that way it wasn't awkward or anything aferwards. Goodluck!
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reader, moomoomoo  +, writes (27 February 2007):
 heres something i think is relatively easy.. go talk to her about movies that have been out and if she knows any good ones ... and if the conversation gets anywhere ask her how often she wathces them and if she likes movies, and then say whatever, like "hey if you wanna see one sometime call me up."
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reader, luvme247 +, writes (27 February 2007):
 It would be easier to start by asking them if they want to go out with a group of friends first. It'll be easier to ask once you have been out. Plus you can get to know them better. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): Um,....ya ya,....same here buddy,...don't you wish that girls ask boys out instead?,... Well,..i can tell advises,..but i can't quite follow it. I have the same problem,... this is my best friend 's saying for me " Ask her out! if you just tell her at the last day of school/work, then it won't mean anything" he's trying so hard to make me happy,.. but i just can't do it.(and i don't think wat i'm saying in here will actually help you) here's my story,...first i went to the school the was a success, and so i had no intention of being loved on the first weak of school. this girl who is 1 month older than me and is also taller than me by about 3 in. liked me and got so many clues that she likes me. she says hi to me alot, everyone thinks it's annoying me, but it does not. she flirts and flirts. my biggest hint that she liked me was when some(15-20) girls asked me if i knew that she liked me, i didn't reply. some how that girl i liked was mad and told them to say that they were just kidding. but i knew the truth. the second biggest hint was when i was building a snow man outside the school since it was the first time it snowed, and her best friend (which knew she liked me since she told her) took a picture of me and called her to talk about me in the cold. i acted like i didn't notice. the next day, the person i like came to me and smiled and said that she heard i was building a snow man before that day. so my theory was correct. thats why i know it's a 99% chance that she likes me. She even gave me a Christmas present! so on valintines day i gave her a stuffed animal that said "i love you" and a box of chocolate, a VERY GOOD poem i made in 5min , and A drawing of the wild that took me like a year to color draw sketch, and recolor the mistakes!!!! but she thought some one else gave it to her since i seem like i don't like her. well she still likes me alot,.//... but she is decreasing the"hi's"
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reader, luvme247 +, writes (27 February 2007):
Maybe it would be easier if you asked if he/she would like to go out with a group of you first. Go out bowling or do something fun. That will allow you to get to know him/her better & it'll be easier to ask him/her to go out again. The more that you get to know eachother, the easier it'll be to ask. Good Luck!
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