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writes:My roommate and I have always had a friendly and flirtatious relationship, as I do with my other male roommate. I've found him attractive, but put this out of my mind, because we lived together and he had a girlfriend. Than, one day about 3 weeks ago, he started sending me provacative texts. When he came home he came into my room, offered me a foot rub, and we ended up having oral sex.We decided to just move on and be friends, but I am having a hard time with this. I find myself thinking about him more and more. He admits that he was in the wrong, but wants to stay friends. He is still with his girlfriend, who doesn't know what happened. When I am with him, he's very physical, wrestling, playing with my hair, and tickling me. He also stares at me and says he loves me, but only as a friend. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007): He has a gf and he does not to you! What kind of a jerk is he? Don't hang around get yourself another room and don't look back. Stop thinking about him. He's a pig to do that with you when he has a gf. Have some respect and don't do this again. Remember, if he can do this to you behind his gf back, then he will do it with anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007): Move out, this guy is playing you and his girlfriend....he thinks his stuff is the answer for any woman that is in his path...he must think he has died and gone to heaven with a girlfriend and a roommate that he can manipulate with a little flirting and a foot rub and end up getting a bj.
Have some self respect and cut this loser loose! Find a new place to live immediately!
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reader, luvme247 +, writes (23 February 2007):
 Well, you can't be with him because as you stated, he has a girlfriend. So, all you can do is be his friend. Who knows, something might happen in the future for you, but as for now, he is taken & you have to respect that. Next time that he tells you that he loves you, you should ask him not to. If you were his girlfriend, you wouldn't want him telling another girl you liked them, so let him know it bothers you. I don't see anything wrong with flirting, but you need to know where to draw the line.
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