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I love him but hearing about dirty past has changed me! How do I cope?

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Question - (23 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i love my boyfriend of a year v.much,but he recently divulged his past to me. he slept with a woman who was a complete whore nd indulged her rough forced sex fantasies. i cant get these filthy images out of my head. its destroying our sex life and has changed my personality and attitude towards alot of things. how do i get over this?????

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A female reader, luvme247 United States +, writes (24 February 2007):

luvme247 agony auntTry not to let it bother you. It happened before he was with you. Also, guys exaggerate. For all you know he could have had a one night stand & she didn't call the next day. You never know... Seriously, just try & move past it. You have been with him for a year already. He seems like a good guy. I think that his past should be left alone. I'd probably tell him that it bothered you so he knows not to mention it again. Good Luck ;)

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A female reader, me616 United States +, writes (24 February 2007):

Well, I would say that you will get over it. He opened up to you and he is hopfully over that. It's tough I know. But soon it wont matter anymore dont worry.

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