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It went so well and now nothing!!

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Question - (20 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2007)
A male , *arnzy writes:

Hello

My names Dan and i have been seeing this girl recently, shes 17 and im 18, she goes to college and i work for a courier company in the offices.

I met the girl called Sarah at christmas time, we both met at a mates party, we was both completly drunk, all i said was "your gorgoues" to her. but then we both left the party because it was late at night.

I asked my mate for her email, and we started chatting, then at the end of January we arranged to meet, her mate was their and we played pool. It went ok i think but i realistic i thought it went bad. We then communicated less however the other week my freind spoke to Sarah and she said she was going to do something for Valentines day, so i started to contact her again.

We arranged to go out on Valentines day. I got her a rose, and when i given it to her that night she seemed very happy but then i thought the night was going bad because i went to our mates house and her bf was their, i thought it was nice, we watched tv and we all had a great time. Then i took Sarah home n we passionatly snogged. which i thought was a good sign, it shows shes interested.

Then last saturday i texted her and we arranged to go to the film. I think it went bad because she seemed bored from when she first got in my car. im thinking something had hapened before because she seemed off. Also, im thinkin she was waiting for me to make the move?

However now its tuesday and she has'nt texted back and we havent had no communication.

Have i done something wrong and what should i do?

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A female reader, luvme247 United States +, writes (20 February 2007):

luvme247 agony auntYou keep saying that the dates are going bad, but she keeps going out with you, so they can't be going too bad. Maybe you need to just gain some confidence in yourself. It has only been 3 days since you have seen her. Have you tried talking to your friend at work? What does she say about it? If you went on a double date with her & her boyfriend on Valentines Day, I am sure that she talked to her friend about it. Ask her her opinion. Personally I think that she is into you, or she wouldn't have agreed to keep going out with you.

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A male reader, goodbutnotgifted United States +, writes (20 February 2007):

goodbutnotgifted agony auntif she has a bf your not going to get anywhere with any woman that is worth your time, and being the third wheel doesnt bother you? throughout your question your stating that she is bored, she may be trouble man. I would take my time, cause your getting all wrapped up in a girl who is with someone else and she is playing qoi with you. On Valentines day my wife had to work and that put a bit of stress on the relationship because we had plans and she was called in, canceled that. If she was with you on V-day where was her bf? All the red flags are going up about her and you too knowing she has a bf and still after her.

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