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writes:I met this guy, i really like him, we have had sex a few times and he wants to keep it discreet although i know he is seeing other people, he has told me a lot about what he gets up to. He wont speak to me cos i have told people ive seen him! What should i do, how do i get over him! I feel really hurt Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): dump him! If he is upset that you have told others about seeing him then he is not in to you, he is probably in it for the sex. Have you asked him why he is upset about it? Is he ashamed of being with you? Is he already in a relationship that is important to him? Either way it really does not matter why. It just boils down to the fact that he is using you. You deserve much better than him. You deserve someone who is proud to be with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): One foot in front of the other sweety, walk away. And stop feeling hurt.. when people do you wrongly, it's ok to get angry a little bit. It detracts from the pain. This guys an immature JERK. He acts like he's in fifth grade where all the little kids are embarrassed to have a crush on someone. Good greif.. Dont' be sad.. don't waste your tears on spilled milk or rotten man. Pick your head up, call the guy an a**hole and walk on to find a mroe deserving one.. you can do it! Goodluck!
~Sy.
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (6 August 2009):
 Hun it sounds like you have had a lucky escape!!!
Move on....you deserve a man who wants to show you off to the world....not someone you have be discreet with....hes a waste of space and you deserve much much better....get out there and start dating again....DO NOT let this put you off other guys...as there are some real gems out there and you should crack on with the search and put this just down to a bad experience!
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