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writes:hi cupids i am in a dilemma i think my husband cheating just a gut instinct so far an there a few signs he mite be like diet an exercise when i ask he says doing 4 my health he works a lot also i dont no any of is work mates he aint based anywhere so cant follow him an if i ask about numbers in is phone he says work numbers but 1 i found was a local number an not work number Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): the other things are new sex postion wanted me to dress up an shaving my lady bits i dnt wana think hes cheating but cant get it out of my head with all the mood swings to i do ask him an try to get him to tell me whats wrong he just blames work an stress
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Normally the 'gut feeling' is the right feeling....so time to do abit of sniffing around.....check his phone if there are numbers which could be womens then write them down and call them to check.....the whole getting fit...that could mean a lady has got his attention and he wants to buff up for her.....like i say check into it do bit of sniffin round then see what u find....maybe its just you being paranoid!
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): Go with your gut feeling.
Phone the number and if a woman answers confront him.
My gut instinct were telling me for years that something was up and I didn't take any notice. When I did, I found out my partner had been cheating on me for years.
Thats why I believe you should always follow your gut instinct.
They won't let you down.
Good luck x
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reader, wants to do what is right +, writes (20 July 2009):
 whatever you do dont accuse him because if he isnt you will be the one who has lost out , at the moment it is only a gut instinct everybody gets them, what is it that has made you think he is cheating? if its just that he has started a diet maybe you should wait for more signals , x x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): If u suspect a number then to put your mind at rest and ring it. There isnt a lot to go by and my experience is suspicion reflects on belief that everyone behaves the same as they would,or a very low opinon of themself. You may want to find something what isnt there. Cheats usualy drop themselves in it. Unless there's more then i am not inclined to think he is cheating.
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Wait a second...you better have more to go on than that!You need to provide us Aunts and Uncles with more information than that if you want honest and good advice. If you confront him with the fact he is working out and has a local phone number on his phone, and nothing else, you will blow it, then he will be onto you and you may never find out. When people show their hands too early, they lose the advantage.Tell us about what other suspicions you have. I am not trying to be mean, I am playing devils advocate so you see that you have to be very careful before you make an accusation like this, and have all your ducks in a row. Trust your gut...but give us more to go on so we can help you
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (20 July 2009):
 go with your gut instinct confront him about it.
tell him you want to know what's really going on.
although just because he's dieting he maybe actually doing it to keep in shape.
local number could be ANYONE.
the fact he lied about it doesn't help i'll admit that but if this is all the evidence there's not much to nail him and say YOU'RE CHEATING!
but if you still feel you should confront him then do it!
just go with your gut instinct!
Hope this helps
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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