Text messages on girlfriend's phone have me upset!
Q. ok so i wanna know if im over reacting i picked up my girlfriends phone last week and saw a couple of messages.. from guys but i'm not sure if they are ex boyfriends of hers or not but what got to me the most was they were sending kisses and she ...
A. 28 April 2011: well .... why dont you trust her? you are over reacting... if she wanted those guys she wouldnt be with you she would be with them. its not like you dont have any friends that are girls? and maybe she does it to annoy you because of your fri... (read in full...)
Is he just too nervous to do anything about things?
Q. Sorry if its long and confusing A few weeks ago I realised that i had feelings for one of my male friends. We have been friends for a few months now, and one night when we were in each others company these feelings just suddenly appeared. And to...
A. 27 April 2011: ok just tell the guy how you feel .... he does like you after everything.. as for your friend just keep your relationship with this guy out of her nose. she doesnt need to know about you and the guy. and if she keeps acting up confront her.... (read in full...)
Its been 3 months since we broke up, can I wish him a happy birthday?
Q. Split up with my fella after 7 months - he said he thought the world of me but needed to be alone, wanted space, couldnt handle our relationship as he wasn't over his ex - they havn't got back together and won't be, i agreed to give him space, it's ...
A. 27 April 2011: it wont hurt.. but dont start all hot and heavy just a simple happy birthday have a good one will be ok..... (read in full...)
Why do I feel this way when I don't want to?
Q. My problem has been a problem for a really long time. I could talk about this and write a f****** novel on it. I'm going to try my best to keep it short. I met a boy a couple years ago. I feel in love with him and he liked me. We almost dated. T...
A. 27 April 2011: the best thing to do is ignore the feelings for alex...
if he wanted you as bad as you want him he would've already made his move on you..... plus if u act on these impulses you and dave will be over and then go back to messing around for mont... (read in full...)
I think I am gay but I don't want to be! What can I do?
Q. Hello, I'm 18 years old. As question title says, I think I am gay. What can do I about this, if I don't want to be gay? I want to be straight, have a wife, family, kids. What makes me think that I am gay, is the fact, that I do not want sex with any...
A. 27 April 2011: in short yes , there is nothing you can do about it the longer you lie to yourself the stronger the urges will get and you will never be happy unless your true to yourself.....
dont care about what other people think. i have loads of Lithuani... (read in full...)
Too scared to tell her
Q. There was a new girl in my class this year, I noticed her on the first day. She's really beautiful, I started to like her a bit, but I hadn't talked to her much. A week ago I was waiting after school for a ride home. My mum was late so I was th...
A. 6 April 2011: tell her.. :) what do you have to lose.. she might even like you back but you wont know until you ask her :) ... (read in full...)
Forbidden Love and I don't know how to handle it
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other, as we both stay in different cities but in the same country. Our story is a very clichèd tale but unfortunately wi...
A. 6 April 2011: okay.. this guy doesn't want to fight to be with you, do you think thats a good sign? when you love someone so much you would risk anything to be with them right? he's not doing that. i gave up everything to be with the man i love and now we're ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend acted differently, am I thinking too much?
Q. hi everyone, so last night me and my boyfriend were texting as usual, then he told me he was going to a festival in france so he told me the present he was getting for me was going to have to wait. i was a bit annoyed but i was just glad he was goin...
A. 6 April 2011: you can talk to him . . tell him how your feeling, tell him that your happy and ok with it when he goes away but say i feel like your pushing me away.. just be honest with him. don't text him it tell him to his face and sort it out, atleast then you ... (read in full...)
My drunken mother says I'm a kid and my feelings don't matter
Q. Okay me and my mom don't get along she is always drunk and yelling at me. I try to explain my feelings to her but all she cares about is herself she always says I'm a kid I don't have feelings. I don't live with her. She lies to me and everyone ...
A. 4 November 2010: Well im sorry that you'r relationship with her is so bad and you do have feelings that matter.
there is nothing more you can do. you tried your best. its all your mam. if she doesn't want to help herself why should you? she should be looking ... (read in full...)
We've been dating for a year and I'm ready for sex! How do I tell my boyfriend?
Q. hi I am a virgin 16yr old and really want to have sex with a boy. Right now I really fell in love with one but I dont know how to to tell him that I am ready (we have been dating for 1 year now ) it be great if you could help thanks :) ...
A. 4 November 2010: just tell him that you are ready. or surprize him with sexy lingerie. if you are with him for a year you could tell him. he wont think any different, it could bring you's closer too. just make sure that you are really ready. ... (read in full...)
Out of love and feeling depressed
Q. It's been a while since I was in a relationship face to face; in the flesh. I'm a strong women and I can take care of myself. And I'm also independent. But now, i've been depress because all around me I see couples, and I've long to be with my ...
A. 4 November 2010: Is there any guys you like? just put yourself out there. you should get some results. ... (read in full...)
I am 15, want to be with 24 year old online guy and feel depressed!
Q. I am 15 yrs old. i am in love with a guy he is 24 we met online...i hate my life no one loves me i don't have any friends i am always depressed my parents hate each other my dad is having affair...i can't talk about my problems with my mom bcoz she ...
A. 21 October 2010: ok well, have you ever used webcam with him? because you are very young and online dating is very dangerous. i understand that you cant trust anyone. and im sorry that you feel so alone. i think your mam would be happy that you came to her to talk. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my coach!
Q. I am In love with my softball ast. Coach he is 26 I am 17 I no he has feelings for me because he is always texting me and flirting with me we hang out every friday at the football games the biggest problem is I have a bf that I have been with for 3 ...
A. 21 October 2010: break it off with your boyfriend and go with your coach. just be happy in life. all you can do... (read in full...)
He's hurt me so much, but I still love him!
Q. I been with my ex four years. He have hurt me soo much pain but I still love him. He knows the fact that I love him and he take advantage of that. We have been broke up for 5 months and my feelings keeping getting stronger. I think about him every ...
A. 12 September 2010: you can leave him when you if you really want to. its going to be horrible at first. but it will get better. spare yourself the pain and find someone who loves you for you... (read in full...)
How can I make my teacher aware of my feelings without others knowing?
Q. Ok So I live in the UK and the the law on having sex is 16 here. So im 18 in December 2010 and i have this major crush on my college teacher, ive been having like 'wet dreams' about him and ive NEVER crushed on a teacher before but hes 26 and hes ...
A. 12 September 2010: eh he could lose his job but slip him a note.. tell him you have a question about a paper you have to write? but then again maybe you should just back off until you leave college. nothing can happen ... (read in full...)
I'm so paranoid that he's going to cheat on me!
Q. I don't know where to begin with this really, or even if it's going to turn out as a question.. But I think I'm really doing my own head in here, and it's horrible! I'm engaged and have a baby on the way, me and my man have got our own house, the ...
A. 12 September 2010: tell him you stumbled upon it. he didnt turn off his fb page and there it was. make sure you dont say sorry for looking. and tell him to ring up the bird and put her on loudspeaker and make him tell her about you and the baby and nver to contact him ... (read in full...)
Pain as the other woman
Q. I became the other woman quite by chance. My lover pursued me for many months. I did the right thing and sent him back to his wife and family. Now, I am the only one in agony. I just want to have contact with him as I did before, but he is very ...
A. 11 September 2010: leave him be with his family. it will get easier for you in time. time is the best healer. and out of sight is really out of mind. hope it works out.... (read in full...)
I still love him...how can I get him back?
Q. Hi...I've got a problem... It is this guy...we've been togheter for 4 months but last week we broke up... after the break-up we said that we hated each other and alot of mean things... but after 3 days...he called me and he apologized for what he ...
A. 11 September 2010: eh ... just try and talk to him in person, he cant see the emotion over the phone. tell him that you do miss him and if there was anyway you's could get back together you wouls do it. hope it all works out ... (read in full...)
Lost in high school, lost in life generally
Q. I'm 14 and I really need help.I'm going through a really bad time in my life right now and I don't know what to do. Life sucks pretty much. All the stress from school and pressure i put on myself to do well in school is really getting to me. It's ...
A. 6 September 2010: live up to your expectations and not other peoples. x... (read in full...)
Is it because we had sex too early?
Q. my bf wont call me anymore, or text me like before and I havent done anything wrong,, i dont think its because we had sex too early, because right after we did, he didnt leave, soo I dont think its for that. Whats the matter??...
A. 6 September 2010: to be honest, men feel guilty! but their guilty feeling doesnt last too long. They feel guilty for sleeping with girls knowing they will never talk to them again, so therefore they stay for either a few hours or overnight. If it was your first ... (read in full...)
Is it because we had sex too early?
Q. my bf wont call me anymore, or text me like before and I havent done anything wrong,, i dont think its because we had sex too early, because right after we did, he didnt leave, soo I dont think its for that. Whats the matter??...
A. 6 September 2010: yeah .. you had sex. sex is on mens mind 247.. most guys anyway .. they love having sex with women who are easy.. but they would never take you seriously.. just see what happens.. but dont be surprised if he one day never calls.... (read in full...)
Love talk?
Q. If a girl and a guy started talking as friends and they say the following hey hun3 and one says hey hunny3, is that meaning a relationship or just true love...
A. 6 September 2010: yeah i call my friend friend hon.. my boyfriend know i would kill him if he called me hon cause it just a friend thing..... (read in full...)
What is it is he trying to say?
Q. I am 18 years old. I babysit and tutor arounnd the neighbourhood. There's this one family that I usually babysit. I would usually take care of their five year old daughter and tutor their 15 year old son. After some time, I got to know them better ...
A. 6 September 2010: he likes you.. he wouldn't of kissed you if he wasn't interested... just play hard to get..... (read in full...)
How do you trust again after you've been used?
Q. Having come out of an LTR at the beginning of the year I felt ready to date again. I've recently moved and so everything was a new start. I went online dating and was messaged by someone very unlike my previous girlfriends and after lots of emails ...
A. 6 September 2010: every woman is different. you cant varnish them with all the same brush.. you will find someone for you. if that girl let you go when are her best, shes the one who should be on this website asking why did i leave him? seriously! very replaceable! ... (read in full...)
Low sex drive... help!
Q. I am 35 year old man my sex drive is low. I love my wife, but i don't want it every day whereas she does! she is 46. What do I do?...
A. 6 September 2010: em ... tell her that you cant do it everyday, tell her your not all about sex. shes a girl, she should understand.... (read in full...)
We want to have a baby but he's not interested in sex
Q. my husband has ms and is not interseted in sex at all, we have only been married a couple of years, we were hoping things would change, neither of us wants to be with anyone else. he will shortly be starting chemo and we are both desperate for a ...
A. 6 September 2010: sperm bank or adoption but im sure if you really wanted a baby he would try maybe when he's a little bit better? ... (read in full...)
Is this guy straight or gay?
Q. I recently turned 17 and I am almost certain that I am gay. I am not out of the closet yet. If I ever do come out soon, I would want only my future boyfriend to know. I have never been in a relationship before with another person of the same sex, ...
A. 6 September 2010: just make a move.. only way to find out! ... (read in full...)
I damaged our relationship in the past and I am not sure boyfriend has gotten over it
Q. I met my boyfriend a little over a year ago, and everything was great at first. I got scared when I started to fall in love with him and began pushing him away. This went on for about nine months and the whole time I was completely oblivious to the ...
A. 5 September 2010: tell him you were scared and you realize after losing him that you were in the wrong and beg for forgiveness .. tell him things often to make sure he believes you want him ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if my dad is cheating?
Q. I've watched my dad for some time and watched him on the computer where he goes on dating sites and chats on msn with other women and when he left his phone in the bathroom once i checked and there were dirty messages and sick pictures of other ...
A. 5 September 2010: follow him. sounds stalkerish but thats ok. bring a camera and take pictures if you see anything weird. get them developed and confront him.. if he denies it throw the pictures at him.. make sure you have a copy though.. or just give them to some ... (read in full...)
I told him I didnt want sex, was it rape?
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend i wasnt sure about it and told him i didnt want it but he did it anyway was it rape?...
A. 5 September 2010: once you say no its rape.
it happened to me 9months ago he said no so i'm sure that this is the way.
did he use anything? how long are you with him?
you will have to get checked.. and tell the police.
he took something from you and if you ignor... (read in full...)
I want him as the person he USED to be
Q. ok here's the thing. i have been living with my bf for 5 years since i was 15. it was great at first we were both virgins and we had a baby a year later. because he wanted and during that time all i wanted was to make him happy. well lately i've ...
A. 5 September 2010: ask him if this is what he wants? to be with you or to leave you and his baby? just say because you will not put effort into this relationship if you won't meet me half way. at least you will know where you stand.... (read in full...)
I don't know if I trust myself around my friend
Q. I live with my boyfriend of three years whom I love very much. I would never leave him, he is my life, and have always felt extremely strongly about how I would never cheat on him. However recently I found out my friend from work has feelings for ...
A. 5 September 2010: trust yourself. make a list of all the positive stuff about this guy and the negative do the same with the boyfriend see who you want. just don't cheat. stupid enough to cheat, stupid enough to get caught. and would your boyfriend be worth this? for ... (read in full...)
I'm bi, I've fallen for my female teacher, and I am so confused
Q. Hi! Ok, how shall I say this. I know the topic of teacher crushes has been discussed to death, but mine happens to be a tad more unique, mainly cos I'm a girl, my teacher's a girl. So anyways, I've realized I'm bi since I was 11 years old, so ...
A. 5 September 2010: stay away.. a big huge red and orange sirens go off! i'm sorry hon but its a big no no! i know thats the last thing you wanna hear but its true.. just think .. when you leave school you wont see her .. and maybe you will have a chance to get over ... (read in full...)
Do you think this guy deserves me?
Q. Hello guys, I am dating a guy who's at university and I am still in high school. We have been in this relationship gor about 1 year now. I am a virgin and he's not. The thing is that I don't think he deserves me because if we have sex I'll be ...
A. 5 September 2010: you have a keeper right there! his will power is amazing. it says a lot that he cares about you. and of course he deserves you. and he thinks that he does too. he wouldn't be with you if he thought different. and the fact that he is not pressuring ... (read in full...)
Nasty rumours caused my boyfriend to break up with me...
Q. I am getting called pregnant at school and everyone thinks its by one of the teachers that has just left our school but it isnt, I'm NOT pregnant (not that I know of.) My boyfriend is getting sick of it and he wants to break up, what should I...
A. 5 September 2010: say to your boyfriend before you let go remember why you were hanging on.. your relationship is between you and him not the whole school. and don't give those girls a reaction they will think you are not bothered and hopefully it will all stop and ... (read in full...)
How can I stop him becoming too overprotective?
Q. hello everyone! I've been in a relationship for 2 and a half years with a wonderful person, but unfortunately quite recently hes been too overprotective and really insecure. An example would be for example: if i moved out of my seat in a restaura...
A. 5 September 2010: tell him the truth. tell him your freaked by this change in him and if he doesn't want to lose you he has to change. tell him that he makes you so happy and you love him .. just be honest and ask him what ever made him think that you don't love him ... (read in full...)
My family want me to do a reading at a wedding next week but I'm so nervous! Help!
Q. I'm really confused. I'm going to my half brother's wedding next saturday, and one of my other brothers was supposed to do a reading, but he has backed out of it because he is too nervous and he thinks the poem sounds girly. my dad has asked me to ...
A. 5 September 2010: you will be fine. just picture them naked. by the first line you'll be flying through it! they are your family and if you do make a mistake they'll be too drunk to remember! :) it'll turn out okay! ... (read in full...)
Evidence that he's looked at escort sites and had a Craiglist ad
Q. Hi everyone. Have been reading the site because I'm just so lost right now. I ended things with my boyfriend of 10 months earlier this week. There have been some trust issues in the past which I guess is what led up to this. This past Tues...
A. 5 September 2010: you don't need anything like that! what a horrible person. don't blame anything on you he just cant stand to be caught. men are unbelievable. this is how they work. they would tell any lie to get out of the dog house. i do think he is sorry now and ... (read in full...)
I plan to tell my b/f about my drunken indescretion
Q. So a couple nights ago I had way too much to drink and I made out with a guy. He seemed gay to me...he was wearing blue eyeshadow and was grinding with other dudes, but he claimed to like girls. I have no idea what came over me, I wasn't even ...
A. 5 September 2010: just say you were very drunk and it didn't mean anything. and it made you realize that he's the only guy you want in the world right now. tell him it didn't mean anything and you are willing to do anything for him to trust you again. tell him you ... (read in full...)
Lost in high school, lost in life generally
Q. I'm 14 and I really need help.I'm going through a really bad time in my life right now and I don't know what to do. Life sucks pretty much. All the stress from school and pressure i put on myself to do well in school is really getting to me. It's ...
A. 5 September 2010: this is normal i think for a teenager. but think of it this way. High school is only a small part of your life. you cant be good at everything. no one is perfect. and throughout school you will find your place. you will find something you passionate ... (read in full...)
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