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writes:I live with my boyfriend of three years whom I love very much. I would never leave him, he is my life, and have always felt extremely strongly about how I would never cheat on him. However recently I found out my friend from work has feelings for me. I've always like his personality but never felt anything else because of my boyfriend. Theres always been a spark between us and we have a very flirty friendship but since finding out how he feels, I feel such an incredible surge of attraction towards him. We were dancing at a work party the other day and had both had a little bit too much to drink and he got pretty close to me during one song and I had to leave the party right that moment just to stop myself from kissing him. I feel excited knowing I'll see him at work and everytime I recieve a text message I always hope its from him.What can I do to get him out my head and stop feeling like this? I dont know if I trust myself around him
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reader, Fefi  +, writes (5 September 2010):
 if this sudden attraction was recent, then you will get over the feeling, so long as he doesn't try and hit it off with you.
if you really have that strong urge not to cheat on your boyfriend, then just try and ignore your friend, try not to pull yourself towards him; but if he keeps going then gently tell him that staying just friends would be beneficial.
this may sound exciting but alot of consequences follow...right now think of your boyfriend if he finds one of these 'texts' or he finds out you were supposedly cheating on him...
that is just my opinion, but its your conscience and your choice :/
tell me how things go...
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reader, jodieleigh  +, writes (5 September 2010):
 trust yourself. make a list of all the positive stuff about this guy and the negative do the same with the boyfriend see who you want. just don't cheat. stupid enough to cheat, stupid enough to get caught. and would your boyfriend be worth this? for all you know this guy at work could be a womanizer.. looking for a fling.
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